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Contents:

• GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS (VIDEO)
• THE UNSOLICED PROJECT: WOMAN VOW TO MARRY BOYIENDS GAY MARRIAGE SPOOF
• GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS . . .
• GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS
• STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS
• GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS
• GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS
• WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY
• 【中字】GAY MEN WILL MARRY YOUR GIRLIENDS
• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
• 'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
• LADI – SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGE! – OR GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS

GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS (VIDEO)

Lbians chime wh a vio about lack of marriage equaly The origal CollegeHumor vio, "Gay Men Will Marry Your Girliends, " has set off a meme that remds of the "Sh That Girls Say" vios of yore. Now gay women take their play and tell straight women who oppose same-sex marriage to watch out as they would be - "the bt wiv EVER! "I wonr what vio will be next - a reply to the lbians, or will the CollegeHumor gays return for a send vio?

THE UNSOLICED PROJECT: WOMAN VOW TO MARRY BOYIENDS GAY MARRIAGE SPOOF

Earlier this month, College Humor released a vio wh an ultimatum for all the straight guys out there: vote favor of marriage equaly, or gay men are gog to start marryg your Unsoliced Project has taken thgs a step further by givg straight women the same tough love. RelatedFunny ViosPolil HumorGay MarriageViolbiansBefore You GoPolil Bloopers and BlunrsPopular the CommunyYou May Like.

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GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS . . .

Or they will marry your boyiends Among the historic Electn Night ws earlier this month were three stat that voted favor of gay, Maryland and Washgton State joed six others that already approve same-sex the women over at The Unsoliced Project have a msage for the 41 stat that have not yet opened their arms to such rights, a hilar parody that is sweepg the down for vio (WARNING: Graphic language) Parody: The Unsoliced Project's msage to the 41 stat that don't support gay marriage clus that they will be stealg 'your boyiends' The vio, a montage of stereotypil lbians, opens wh one llg the recent vote 'a great step forward for civil rights. 'The women then nclu: 'So please, support gay marriage, or we will marry your boyiend. ' Flexibily: This lbian says that she would award her pann wh basketball seats 'right behd the bench' The 3-mute vio was posted on November 23, and already has more than 2 ln views on Unsoliced Project is a webseri started earlier this year that pok fun at Hollywood and foc on the gelg liv of personal vio as the men of College Humor put out a vio of their own for uncid voters who may want to keep marriage between men and women: Gay Men Will Marry Your rponse to the warng, straight men over at Stch Tape Productns me up wh their own vio rebuttal, sayg: 'We'd jt like to say: "Oh my god, please do that!

' Rebuttal: In rponse to the Gay Men Will Marry Your Girliends same-sex marriage warng, Stch Tape Productns (pictured) me up wh a vio rponse, sayg: 'Please do that! First we had College Humor’s “Gay Men Will Marry Your Girliends. Now the evable “Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyiends” has buted.

Interview wh the Creators of "Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyiends". You may have seen Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyiends on Funny or DIE. Watchg the meme-able Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyiends back to back wh the craftier, more substantial edy of The Unsoliced Project mak ya really wonr about whether or not well thought-out vio productns n pete wh more obv, short-attentn-span clicks.

GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS

Adrianna: After the web-seri, we produced "Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyiends" which went viral and we end up signg on wh Fullscreen Inc, a management pany based Los Angel. Sarah: We produced the vio Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyiends shortly after The Unsoliced Project, which went viral. We've been followg her reer for a while now sce she appeared on The Big Gay Sketch Show.

“Gay Women Will Marry Your Boyiends” is a rponse vio to “Gay Men Will Marry Your Girliends”, the vio that giv great reasons why straight men should support gay marriage. In “Gay Women”, the ladi of Unsoliced Project turn the tabl and give reasons why gay women will marry your boyiends if you don’t support same sex marriage. My Hband’s Not Gay, a show on TLC, has ed an uproar.

Why do some people bee so outspoken and judgmental about marriag wh one straight and one gay spoe? Fally, the relatnships suggt to some people “reparative therapy, ” the uhil and impossible claim that a person n be changed om gay to straight. The men this televisn program aren’t claimg to be ex-gay nor that they n change their sexual orientatn (at least not on the show).

STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS

They report they are attracted to men but choose not to live as a gay man and their straight wiv accept this. People seem to get up arms when a man says he is not gay but rather simply attracted to men. In our culture, we intify ourselv via a sexual-attractn bary: gay or straight.

GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS

Later, their gay sexual inti surface and here they are—heterosexually married wh children. Many straight women married to gay men nscly choose to do so wh their ey wi open.

There are plenty of wiv who choose to stay married even after fdg out later the marriage that their hband is gay and attracted to men.

They make this choice wh open discsns, which are very paful and emotnal for both the gay man and the straight wife. ” To the man, I say, “Consir whether you n really keep your homosexual feelgs and sir check. You might be able to claim your inty by meetg ocsnally wh gay men, stayg touch on Facebook, and lettg your gay iends know that you want to rema sexually fahful to your wife.

GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS

I warn mixed-orientatn upl that he may feel differently later life and his gayns may surface more strongly and bee more of an inty for him and th bee an issue their marriage. Both the gay man and the straight spoe share the risk of stayg married. Both straight and gay muni put enormo prsure on the man and woman a mixed-orientatn marriage, and few marriag n stand up unr this social, fay, and relig prsure.

Some upl try to “live straight” and image that they will be able to not acknowledge the hband’s gayns any way. Generally, a gay man will feel a lot of emotnal distrs, grief, and prsn if he is livg so eply the closet. This will happen even if, or maybe I should say pecially if, he is nial about his gayns.

WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY

If your hband says he didn’t know he was gay when he married you, he most likely didn’t know. Most of my male clients who are gay and married to women didn’t know that their inty was gay when they married. They often don’t know their inty is gay when they first e to see me.

He most likely terpreted his gay terts as sexual “kks, ” and he nvced himself they would fa away after he married. Typilly the men are homophobic and want me to reassure them and their wiv that they aren’t gay.

【中字】GAY MEN WILL MARRY YOUR GIRLIENDS

I’ve heard more than once, “I’m not gay. ” The gay men intify their behavr as “only sexual. A gay man n tly love a woman, have satisfyg and regular sex wh her, and want to stay married to her while beg unterted other women sexually.

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY

That is, the man is still gay, and he lov you. She may fear that bee he is gay, he will leave her.

He may fear that if he adms he is gay, she will leave him. The big qutn is: How n a gay man affirm his inty wh other gay men and at the same time rema te to his wife? Matag a mixed-orientatn marriage requir endurg the strs of keepg the secrets that one of them is gay and beg discreet how they live their liv.

'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN

Remember the College Humor viral vio ‘Gay Men Will Marry Your Girliends, ’ the sarstic rponse to the many stat that still don’t allow gay marriage.

Gay men answered that they’ll jt marry all the straight men’s girliends, sce they are more attentive to her needs. Instead of threateng men that they will marry their girliends, gay women make the oppose threat that if gay marriage isn’t legal, they’ll jt marry all the straight women’s boyiends. I recently spoke wh Bonnie Kaye, thor of Straight Wiv, Shattered Liv: Stori of Women wh Gay Hbands, among other books, and host of Bonnie Kaye’s Straight Wiv Talk Show on BlogTalkRad.

Bonnie has spent much of her adult life first livg wh and attemptg to love a gay hband and then helpg other women the same mis-marriage suatn.

LADI – SUPPORT GAY MARRIAGE! – OR GAY WOMEN WILL MARRY YOUR BOYIENDS

Bee I know untls gay men who were once married to straight women, wh varyg gre of short and longer-term happs and misery, I wanted to discs this topic, and I wanted to do so om the straight wiv’ perspective. Our discsn was wi-rangg, begng wh her own marriage to a gay man and progrsg to how she was able to move on post-marriage, eventually beg a rock for other women siar suatns. So if somebody told me they’d tried somethg but they didn’t like , there would be no reason for me to thk that the person was gay.

But I certaly didn’t want to marry a gay man. He was a karate teacher, martial arts, a strong guy, looked like Sylvter Stallone, and gay was not one of the issu I thought about wh him. There were issu wh him om the start, but nothg to make me thk that he might be gay.

Then somebody who was part of my social work rmed me, a uple of weeks before we were supposed to get married, that he had spicns that Robert was gay. I thought, “How uld he be gay? Gay men have gaydar.