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• READG MY DIARY OM WHEN I WAS A TEEN MA ME REALIZE I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS GAY
• "I REALIZED I WAS GAY": MEN WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE ARE SHARG WHAT IT WAS LIKE FOR THEM TO REVEAL THAT TTH AND LIVE AUTHENTILLY
• I KNEW I WAS GAY WHEN I WAS FIVE YEARS OLD
• I ASKED GUYS WHEN THEY FIRST KNEW THEY WERE GAY
• WHEN DID YOU KNOW YOU WERE GAY?
• THE MOMENT I KNEW I WAS GAY (HT: ’S NOT WHAT YOU THK.)WE ALL E TO THE REALIZATN ABOUT OUR SEXUALY AT DIFFERENT AG AND MOMENTS. THIS WAS ME.BRIAN ROWE·FOLLOWPUBLISHED P.S. I LOVE YOU·9 M READ·JAN 16, 2020--13SHAREPHOTO BY FREE-PHOTOS AT PIXABAYIT’S SO HARD TO SIGNATE A MOMENT TIME WHEN YOU REALIZE YOU ARE GAY.FROM MY EXPERIENCE, ’S SOMETHG I THOUGHT ABOUT OM A YOUNG AGE AND BASILLY… ALWAYS WAS.IT’S NOT LIKE I THOUGHT ABOUT GIRLS UNTIL ONE DAY TENTH GRA I UGHT A GLIMPSE OF A CUTE GUY AND POW, AN STANT, I WAS A HOMOSEXUAL.IT DIDN’T WORK THAT WAY FOR ME AT ALL.THROUGHOUT MY YEARS GROWG UP, I HAD CSH ON BOTH BOYS AND GIRLS PRETTY MUCH EQUALLY THROUGHOUT HIGH SCHOOL. MY CSH ON THE BOYS WERE ALWAYS A LTLE B STRONGER, FOR SURE. STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE ME STRONGLY NSIR EARLY HIGH SCHOOL THAT I MIGHT BE GAY.BUT I LIKED GIRLS HERE AND THERE TOO, EVEN DATED ONE MIDDLE SCHOOL, AND ME VERY CLOSE TO DATG ONE HIGH SCHOOL.SO I DIDN’T E OUT OF THE CLOSET.
• AM I GAY?
• THE TIM I KNEW I WAS GAY PAPERBACK – OCTOBER 5, 2021
• I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS GAY, BUT IT TOOK ME 21 YEARS TO REALIZE IT
• HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
• AM I GAY? QUIZ – 100% RELIABLE TT
• HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
• AM I GAY? HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY?

READG MY DIARY OM WHEN I WAS A TEEN MA ME REALIZE I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS GAY

Readg my diary nfirmed that I knew way before then that I was gay.

"I REALIZED I WAS GAY": MEN WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE ARE SHARG WHAT IT WAS LIKE FOR THEM TO REVEAL THAT TTH AND LIVE AUTHENTILLY

The clud stuffg my bra, buyg a thong, skny dippg, stealg, kissg a boy, havg cybersex, watchg porn, and wrg "bch" on a school the most movg tail was somethg I had no rellectn of — I always knew I was gay.

I am nfint that, had the Deidre who wrote the words been exposed to healthy reprentatns of queer love om an early age, she would have known that beg gay was OK. When I found out earlier this month, along wh the rt of the world, that one of my favore actors, Kal Penn, is a fellow gay man and now engaged to his long-time partner, I was so happy that he was openly livg his tth. "I realized I was gay last year, after 36 years durg the lockdown.

After seeg a gay guy I uld see myself , I started to qutn myself more.

I KNEW I WAS GAY WHEN I WAS FIVE YEARS OLD

I me out as bisexual at 44 after my stepson me out as gay at 11 years old. "I moved to Ireland jt before the referendum that legalized gay marriage. Once the untry around me changed and I started seeg more gays the muny, felt safer, and I felt more fortable to e out.

I'd fantasize about men and watch gay porn.

Part of me felt rponsible for her ath, as if beg bi or gay and my feelgs of regret somehow ed .

I ASKED GUYS WHEN THEY FIRST KNEW THEY WERE GAY

I also realized that the label of ‘gay’ ma more sense for me than ‘bi.

But when I moved to California and saw more gay people, then I really started to realize . I gus that's the pot I f the fn of 'gay' rather than bi.

I have a lot of stori about folks who were homophobic but me around to acceptg me and honorg me for beg a gay man, once they got to know me beyond what I do bed. In the meantime, I kept watchg gay porn but wouldn't accept and felt guilty after jerkg off to .

WHEN DID YOU KNOW YOU WERE GAY?

I me out to my wife many moons ago but took a long time to realize that prayg the gay away wasn’t workg. I’m a good place right now and share my home wh gay iends, as well as adult children.

I basilly created my own gay muny. "I fally started serly qutng my early 40s and quickly realized I was gay. Pl the ‘80s was not a particularly good time to be gay — I thk fear of AIDS was possibly one thg that had me nial.

THE MOMENT I KNEW I WAS GAY (HT: ’S NOT WHAT YOU THK.)WE ALL E TO THE REALIZATN ABOUT OUR SEXUALY AT DIFFERENT AG AND MOMENTS. THIS WAS ME.BRIAN ROWE·FOLLOWPUBLISHED P.S. I LOVE YOU·9 M READ·JAN 16, 2020--13SHAREPHOTO BY FREE-PHOTOS AT PIXABAYIT’S SO HARD TO SIGNATE A MOMENT TIME WHEN YOU REALIZE YOU ARE GAY.FROM MY EXPERIENCE, ’S SOMETHG I THOUGHT ABOUT OM A YOUNG AGE AND BASILLY… ALWAYS WAS.IT’S NOT LIKE I THOUGHT ABOUT GIRLS UNTIL ONE DAY TENTH GRA I UGHT A GLIMPSE OF A CUTE GUY AND POW, AN STANT, I WAS A HOMOSEXUAL.IT DIDN’T WORK THAT WAY FOR ME AT ALL.THROUGHOUT MY YEARS GROWG UP, I HAD CSH ON BOTH BOYS AND GIRLS PRETTY MUCH EQUALLY THROUGHOUT HIGH SCHOOL. MY CSH ON THE BOYS WERE ALWAYS A LTLE B STRONGER, FOR SURE. STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE ME STRONGLY NSIR EARLY HIGH SCHOOL THAT I MIGHT BE GAY.BUT I LIKED GIRLS HERE AND THERE TOO, EVEN DATED ONE MIDDLE SCHOOL, AND ME VERY CLOSE TO DATG ONE HIGH SCHOOL.SO I DIDN’T E OUT OF THE CLOSET.

I wonr if I'd accepted I'm gay when I was 20, if thgs would have been much different. After spendg years dog all the manly thgs that were supposed to straighten me out, I had a particular weekend — a men-only whewater raftg trip — when I realized I did all the thgs I was aimg for that were supposed to change me, and I was still 100% gay.

Once I knew the gay wasn't gog anywhere, I figured I wanted to be open and hont wh people om then on, regardls of how the rt of my life went. The last thg, you wanted to be was gay, at least my md.

AM I GAY?

Eventually, after a lot of booze and tears, I fally admted I was gay.

So my iend got me to talk to other gay guys and try and accept myself.

I'm learng that beg gay is normal and not really a big al.

THE TIM I KNEW I WAS GAY PAPERBACK – OCTOBER 5, 2021

He helped me nont that I was gay and fancied blok. In Lat Ameri and my untry of Venezuela, beg gay is associated wh beg ls of a person.

When I was a kid, I went through all the dumb pre-ter gay kid thgs like lgerg the JCPenny's men’s unrwear sectn. I e om a strict Irish tholic fay, so any of my mannerisms or actns that were ‘too gay’ were discsed by my fay. Grad school was the first time I was around people who seemed to genuely not re or treat people different bee they were gay.

But as the years passed, I realized I was fely gay. When I rennected wh my bt childhood iend who me out to me as bi, I was spired and told him I was gay.

I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS GAY, BUT IT TOOK ME 21 YEARS TO REALIZE IT

Growg up was the whole ‘relig upbrgg/ternalized homophobia’ dance: I liked gay porn, but uldn't adm to myself I was gay.

At that pot beme important to e out as the gay man I've always been. My wife and I are gog to unselg together to work through thgs and while ‘’ has a shelf life, I'm foced on figurg out what beg gay means to me.

"At around 28 years old, I had a cent grasp that I'm overwhelmgly gay, wh some rare and specific attractn towards women. After a few months of experiencg very novel and tense sexual feelgs, I overme my fear of masturbatn and started dog to var kds of straight and gay porn.

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

After the divorce, I me out to my close fay and iends and started my journey of figurg out how to be gay.

Tellg my therapist I'm gay and utterg that simple word changed somethg me. But I uldn't open the door even an ch to the ia that I was homosexual.

AM I GAY? QUIZ – 100% RELIABLE TT

And thanks to r/AskGayBrosOver30 for creatg a space for queer men to be vulnerable and empathize wh each other. I suppose I was stg on the fence about everythg — neher straight or gay, neher a believer or a gra 12 I tried datg two different girls. I told her somethg nice to make her feel good about herself and not implite me as a homosexual.

Apparently I was one of the nict guys she had ever gone out wh who didn’t try and take advantage of ’t that exactly how a thoughtful homosexual treats a woman?

HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY

It’s not until outsi factors like high school social prsure, relig tolerance and systemic homophobia e to play that the young people are led to believe those feelgs aren’t normal. I talked to a few of my gay iends about their experienc realizg they were attracted to men, if anyone had explaed homosexualy to them growg up and whether or not at any time they were nvced that beg gay was “wrong. “I had no ia what beg gay was.

I want to say around nth or tenth gra was when I started realizg I was gay.

“There was never really a time that I thought beg gay was herently wrong. So yeah, I pretty much grew up thkg beg gay was wrong. “I remember someone askg me fifth gra if I was gay and I said ‘y.

AM I GAY? HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY?

I thk of beg gay, at least for me, as a spectm. I would say I’m like 80% gay. “No one really explaed to me the ncept of homosexualy.

I pretty much learned what meant to be gay through different social teractns wh kids at school or fay members who ma seem as if were bad or not ‘normal. “When I was younger, people’s attus toward gay people were negative, so that fely hred me om beg myself at tim. I me to learn that my sometim-effemate behavr would lead others to know or thk I was gay.