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width: 100%; height: to;" siz="100vw" srcSet=" 640w, 980w, 1120w, 1200w, 1920w" src="" class="css-335qep exi4f7p0" /></div><style data-emotn="css 285vyd">{le-height:1;}@media(max-width: 73.75rem){{paddg-left:0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 64rem){{paddg-left:0;}}</style><figptn class="css-285vyd enfs9c50"><style data-emotn="css pejqtf">{lor:#595959;paddg-right:0.3125rem;font-fay:GTWalsheim,Helveti,sans-serif;font-size:0.70003rem;le-height:1;letter-spacg:0.05em;text-transform:upperse;}</style><span class="css-pejqtf e6iqd2">Amber Hawks</span></figptn></div></div><style data-emotn="css z6i669">{font-fay:Charter,Geia,Tim,Serif;font-size:1.1875rem;le-height:1.6;paddg-left:0rem;paddg-right:0rem;posn:relative;}@media(m-width: 48rem){{paddg-left:3.5rem;paddg-right:3.5rem;}}@media(m-width: 48rem) and (max-width: 61.25rem){{max-width:45.25rem;marg-left:to;marg-right:to;}}@media(m-width: 61.25rem){{paddg-left:0rem;paddg-right:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 73.75rem) and (max-width: 100rem){{paddg-left:0rem;paddg-right:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 90rem){{paddg-left:0rem;paddg-right:0rem;}} em{font-fay:Charter,Geia,Tim,Serif;font-style:alic;} strong{font-fay:Charter,Geia,Tim,Serif;font-weight:bold;}{clear:both;ntent:" ";display:block;font-size:0.7rem;le-height:1.5rem;height:0rem;visibily:hidn;}</style><div class="article-body-ntent article-body standard-body-ntent css-z6i669 ewisyje7"><style data-emotn="css 18vfmjb">{font-fay:Charter,Geia,Tim,Serif;font-size:1.1875rem;le-height:1.6;} em{font-fay:Charter,Geia,Tim,Serif;font-style:alic;} strong{font-fay:Charter,Geia,Tim,Serif;font-weight:bold;}</style><p data-no-id="0" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">Sick of swipg left or right? You’re not alone. As datg through apps and onle platforms like ntu to bee the norm, people across the globe have embraced searchg for potential match om the fort of their uch. But others are tired of relyg on selectg potential mat om overeded profile pictur. Daters are plag that people show up for -person dat not lookg like their photos, are flaky due to the number of prospects an app like Bumble n provi, and may only be terted sual flgs vers long-term relatnships. </p><p data-no-id="1" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">So, if you’re ready to swear off virtual datg, take note. Even though may not feel like , pecially a panmic-era world, experts say is entirely possible to still meet people face-to-face. And though may seem like everyone you know is meetg their partners onle, that’s not necsarily the se.</p><p data-no-id="2" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">“Statistilly speakg, the number of succsful people meetg someone special on datg apps is very siar to those meetg someone on their own,” says Amber Kelleher-Andrews, a relatnship expert and the CEO of <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Kelleher Internatnal" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>Kelleher Internatnal</u></a>. “In fact, is surprisgly close, wh <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="54 percent" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>54 percent</u></a> sayg they met a signifint other on a datg app.”</p><div supprsHydratnWarng data-no-id="3" data-embed="pullquote" class="embed css-0 e9hzx6g0"><style data-emotn="css 1eiql25">{text-align:center;marg:0rem;paddg-top:0.9375rem;paddg-bottom:0.9375rem;}</style><blockquote class="css-1eiql25 e1pe3zr91"><span aria-hidn="te" class="css-0 eagam8p0"></span><style data-emotn="css 1h5xk02">{font-fay:GTWalsheim,Helveti,sans-serif;font-size:1.625rem;font-weight:bold;le-height:1.2;marg:0rem;}@media(max-width: 48rem){{font-size:1.75rem;le-height:1.2;}}@media(m-width: 64rem){{font-size:1.875rem;le-height:1.2;}} b, strong{font-fay:her;font-weight:bold;} em, i{font-fay:her;font-style:alic;}</style><blockquote class="css-1h5xk02 e1pe3zr90">The more people you expose yourself to wh mon terts, and the more often you see them, the better.</blockquote><span aria-hidn="te" class="css-0 eagam8p1"></span></blockquote></div><p data-no-id="4" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">Kelleher-Andrews explas that while datg apps like Tr have doubled their revenu sce 2015, she and her matchmakg team have been seeg a ph for the return of -person datg as of late. “It feels like we have fally h a tippg pot, and ers themselv are gettg tired of the hookup s,” she says. “Not to mentn they take tremendo effort to keep up wh.” And after a year of lockdowns and social distancg, people are jumpg at the chance to get out and attend parti and barbecu and grab dners out on the town, makg the perfect time to turn back your attentn to mglg wh sgl real life.</p><p data-no-id="5" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">Here are some tips on how to fd love outsi of datg apps — a very digal datg world.</p><style data-emotn="css 18pb4rg">{borr:0;borr-bottom:th solid black;marg:1.875rem 0;clear:both;}</style><hr data-no-id="6" class="css-18pb4rg et3p2gv0" /><style data-emotn="css 1msc">{font-fay:GTWalsheim,Helveti,sans-serif;font-weight:bold;marg-bottom:0.625rem;marg-top:0.625rem;}@media(max-width: 48rem){{font-size:1.625rem;le-height:1.1;}}@media(m-width: 48rem){{font-size:1.5rem;le-height:1.1;}}@media(m-width: 64rem){{font-size:1.5rem;le-height:1.1;}} b, strong{font-fay:her;font-weight:bold;} em, i{font-fay:her;font-style:alic;}</style><h2 data-no-id="7" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Dch the “I’m undatable” attu</strong></h2><p data-no-id="8" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">If you have “failed” on a datg app, don’t take this as a sign that you have failed fdg love, as, statistilly, not fdg love on an app n be a mon oute. “It is so mon to be trated not fdg love onle that I personally feel those that have met their signifint love on a datg app got lucky,” Kelleher-Andrews says. Tammy Shaklee, founr of the gay and lbian matchmakg service <a href=" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="H4M" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>H4M</u></a>, says to look at onle datg this way: “The apps may work for half the populatn of sgl, and you are simply the other half.” And celebry matchmaker <a href=" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Bonnie Wston" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>Bonnie Wston</u></a> remds that many people on apps aren’t always tthful about their stat and may be married, a relatnship, or simply lookg for swip orr to boost their ego. “In my experience, after speakg wh hundreds of people who tried datg apps, for every 20 swip, one might be a match; therefore, seems like 19 people are rejectg you,” she says. “You’re not a failure; ’s the algorhm that is simply not your favor.”</p><style data-emotn="css 1736von">{--data-embed-display:flex;-webk-align-ems:center;-webk-box-align:center;-ms-flex-align:center;align-ems:center;clear:both;display:-webk-box;display:-webk-flex;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;marg-bottom:0.9375rem;marg-left:to;marg-right:to;width:100%;}@media(m-width: 20rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 30rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 40.625rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 48rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 64rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 73.75rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 75rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}}@media(m-width: 90rem){{width:100%;marg:0 to 0.9375rem;}} a span{right:1rem;} img{width:to;height:85vh;} a{display:-webk-le-box;display:-webk-le-flex;display:-ms-le-flexbox;display:le-flex;posn:var(--posn, relative);} img:not(.ewcw41w1){display:block;width:100%;height:to;-webk-align-self:flex-start;-ms-flex-em-align:flex-start;align-self:flex-start;}</style><div size="medium" data-embed="body-image" data-no-id="9" class="align-center size-medium embed css-1736von e1xqj1sx4"><style data-emotn="css uwraif">{width:100%;display:-webk-le-box;display:-webk-le-flex;display:-ms-le-flexbox;display:le-flex;-webk-flex-directn:lumn;-ms-flex-directn:lumn;flex-directn:lumn;marg-left:to;marg-right:to;-webk-box-pack:center;-ms-flex-pack:center;-webk-jtify-ntent:center;jtify-ntent:center;}</style><div class="css-uwraif e1xqj1sx3"><img alt="smartphone wh heart shape on screen" tle="Smartphone wh heart shape on screen" loadg="lazy" width="1416" height="2124" dg="async" data-nimg="1" style="lor: transparent; width: 100%; height: to;" siz="100vw" srcSet=" 640w, 980w, 1120w, 1200w, 1920w" src="" class="css-0 exi4f7p0" /><style data-emotn="css swqnqv">@media(m-width: 20rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 30rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 40.625rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 48rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 64rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 73.75rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 75rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}@media(m-width: 90rem){{paddg-left:0rem;}}</style><div class="css-swqnqv e1xqj1sx2"><style data-emotn="css 37rghg">{font-fay:GTWalsheim,Helveti,sans-serif;font-size:0.875rem;le-height:1.2;m-width:100%;paddg-top:0.625rem;width:0;}@media(m-width: 64rem){{font-size:1rem;le-height:1.2;}} em, i{font-fay:her;font-style:alic;}</style><div class="css-37rghg e1xqj1sx1">If you ci to qu the datg apps, ’s important to know that you didn't fail. </div><style data-emotn="css 1am3yn9">{paddg-left:0rem;le-height:1;}</style><figptn class="css-1am3yn9 enfs9c50"><span class="css-pejqtf e6iqd2">Eugene Mymr</span><style data-emotn="css cd1d2u">{paddg:0 0.3rem;lor:#595959;paddg-right:0.3125rem;font-fay:GTWalsheim,Helveti,sans-serif;font-size:0.70003rem;le-height:1;letter-spacg:0.05em;text-transform:upperse;}</style><span class="css-cd1d2u e6iqd0">//</span><span class="css-pejqtf e6iqd1">Getty Imag</span></figptn></div></div></div><h2 data-no-id="10" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Let a profsnal do the work for you</strong></h2><p data-no-id="11" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">“Datg apps are an optn, not a requirement,” explas Shaklee. “They n supplement your search, or they n steer you towards volum of sgl wh which you have absolutely nothg mon.” When leavg the apps, she suggts makg a list of thgs that were missg your search. Ask yourself what quali and valu you are tly seekg a patible sgle that would make for a staable long-term relatnship. You n take this list to a certified matchmaker and tell them the particulars of what you are lookg for a patible partner. “Outsource your search, and let a profsnal b through your optns and troduce you to someone seekg what you are seekg,” Shaklee suggts.</p><h2 data-no-id="12" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Put yourself out there — but only thentic ways</strong></h2><p data-no-id="13" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">You n’t meet someone person unls you put yourself out there. But make sure that you aren’t jt flockg to where you thk you may fd eligible sgl. Choose plac and experienc that align wh your terts. “Spend time outsi of your home dog thgs that make you happy,” says Moni Berg, the thor of <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Rethk Love" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><em><u>Rethk Love</u></em></a> and -host of the <em>Spirually Hungry Podst</em>. “Don’t go to a club unls you want to dance. Don’t s a ffee shop for four hours unls you really like their sn,” she warns. Berg remends focg on explorg your terts and makg yourself happy, and says that eventually that joy will attract the right someone.</p><h2 data-no-id="14" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Network</strong></h2><p data-no-id="15" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">“Cast a through your iends, fay, and others your life,” says Eri Cramer, a licensed clil social worker wh <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Cobb Psychotherapy" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>Cobb Psychotherapy</u></a> New York Cy. She suggts “tellg everyone and anyone you know that you’re sgle and ready to mgle.” A bld date may feel risky, but havg iends troducg you to a match, says Kelleher-Andrews, is very mon and n make for a succsful nnector. “Friends work well for troductns bee they know you. However, is important that you share wh them your standards and requirements so ’s not a mismatch,” she says. And expandg your social group is a great way to e to ntact wh new people. Wh the panmic rtrictns easg, Berg suggts planng group outgs and dner parti. “Enurage your iends to brg people you’ve never met,” she says. “The broar your social work, the greater your chanc of makg a nnectn.”</p><h2 data-no-id="16" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Volunteer</strong></h2><p data-no-id="17" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">Givg back is good for the soul — and you never know who you’ll be volunteerg next to. “Volunteer one time at your area’s botanil garns, wildflower center or sculpture garns, or animal-rcue center,” suggts Shaklee. “Fd your f for givg back, and you’ll meet like-md sgl also there.” Search for lol volunteerg opportuni at <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="VolunteerMatch" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>VolunteerMatch</u></a> and <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u></u></a>, and sign up for everythg om sortg food at a lol food bank to cleang up an area beach or mentorg a child.</p><div size="medium" data-embed="body-image" data-no-id="18" class="align-center size-medium embed css-1736von e1xqj1sx4"><div class="css-uwraif e1xqj1sx3"><img alt="red hearts background" tle="Red Hearts Background" loadg="lazy" width="6016" height="4016" dg="async" data-nimg="1" style="lor: transparent; width: 100%; height: to;" siz="100vw" srcSet=" 640w, 980w, 1120w, 1200w, 1920w" src="" class="css-0 exi4f7p0" /><div class="css-swqnqv e1xqj1sx2"><div class="css-37rghg e1xqj1sx1">Consir different ways to teract wh new people — like volunteerg or workg.</div><figptn class="css-1am3yn9 enfs9c50"><span class="css-pejqtf e6iqd2">Eija Manevska</span><span class="css-cd1d2u e6iqd0">//</span><span class="css-pejqtf e6iqd1">Getty Imag</span></figptn></div></div></div><h2 data-no-id="19" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Work an angle</strong></h2><p data-no-id="20" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">Cramer suggts lookg for your potential match amongst people wh mon terts. “Jo a -ed softball team, club, or any group of people you’d normally enjoy beg around — and ’s a great way to add new potential datg ndidat to your mix,” she says. “Love craft beer and h air? Look for a kickball team. Avid hiker? There’s a club for that. Bookworm? Jo some book clubs and start to vis some of the bt small-bs shops.” The more people you expose yourself to wh mon terts, and the more often you see them, the better. Acrdg to Cramer, when you tablish meangful nnectns wh like-md people, you’re openg up your chanc at love. “Datg is a numbers game, but terts spark the flame; the possibili are endls here.”</p><h2 data-no-id="21" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Get chatty</strong></h2><p data-no-id="22" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">Engage nversatn wh new people even if you’re out of practice. “Connectg tak effort, 2D or 3D,” says Cramer. “You have to be willg to make the effort to speak to people.” She challeng clients to talk to one new person a day. “It don’t have to be a prospective match, but they uld know someone, and once you get yourself talkg, ’s a great exercise learng to ask the right qutns and when to be a great listener,” she says. “Who knows? That guy you chatted up the grocer about the bt brocli Midtown loved your nversatn so much, they may offer to fix you up wh their dghter, the chef.” The nversatns, says Cramer, aren’t for the purpose of fdg your soul mate; they n broan your horizons and sharpen those skills for nnectg.</p><h2 data-no-id="23" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Attend lol sgl events</strong></h2><p data-no-id="24" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">Search for lol sgl mixers your area and try your hand at thgs like speed datg. Even if sounds chey, you very well may nnect wh another person who attempted “jt to see who showed up” as well. Dan Kras recently found an At-based datg startup lled <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Mixmosa" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>Mixmosa</u></a> to brg sgl together at plac like cktail bars and edy clubs. “One gut said that Mixmosa was a ‘rehg change of pace om the brals swipg on mastream apps’ and that the event was like ‘swipg left and right real life — wh no prsure,’ shar Kras, who is still very much a believer that people n fd love away om a screen. </p><div size="medium" data-embed="body-image" data-no-id="25" class="align-center size-medium embed css-1736von e1xqj1sx4"><div class="css-uwraif e1xqj1sx3"><img alt="aerial view of uple holdg hands at rtrant table" tle="Aerial View Of Couple Holdg Hands At Rtrant Table" loadg="lazy" width="2124" height="1416" dg="async" data-nimg="1" style="lor: transparent; width: 100%; height: to;" siz="100vw" srcSet=" 640w, 980w, 1120w, 1200w, 1920w" src="" class="css-0 exi4f7p0" /><div class="css-swqnqv e1xqj1sx2"><div class="css-37rghg e1xqj1sx1">Remember to signal that you’re potentially terted, like wh eye ntact or sg.</div><figptn class="css-1am3yn9 enfs9c50"><span class="css-pejqtf e6iqd2">Tom Werner</span><span class="css-cd1d2u e6iqd0">//</span><span class="css-pejqtf e6iqd1">Getty Imag</span></figptn></div></div></div><h2 data-no-id="26" class="body-h4 css-1msc et3p2gv0"><strong>Put out some signals</strong></h2><p data-no-id="27" class="css-18vfmjb et3p2gv0">The most important thg to do when you enunter someone you may be terted is to “make eye ntact and se,” says Treva Brandon Scharf, a datg ach wh <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Done Beg Sgle" class="body-lk css-5z6rvi et3p2gv0"><u>Done Beg Sgle</u></a>. “That’s your icebreaker and llg rd,” she explas. 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