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Contents:

• GAY PRI DKTOP WALLPAPER
• AM I GAY?
• 'SORRY MUM, I’M STILL GAY': RSIAN CLUB HELPS PARENTS ACCEPT SEXUAL PREFERENCE
• HOW THE TIM GAVE ‘GAY’ ITS OWN VOICE (AGA)
• MOM, I’M GAY. CAN MY FRIENDS SLEEP OVER?

GAY PRI DKTOP WALLPAPER

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AM I GAY?

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'SORRY MUM, I’M STILL GAY': RSIAN CLUB HELPS PARENTS ACCEPT SEXUAL PREFERENCE

More about Sheryl Gay StolbergA versn of this article appears prt on, Sectn A, Page 15 of the New York edn wh the headle: Virologists Deny to Panel That Fci Swayed Report Agast Lab Leak Theory. The parents’ club has a few l: you n only speak if you’re holdg the navy dragon, a soft toy that has grown shabby the club’s four-year existence; no terptg is allowed; and phon mt be swched an unassumg buildg the centre of St Petersburg, fai of Rsian gay men and women gather each month, hopg for unrstandg and renciliatn. Although the group is ostensibly for parents, they are far outnumbered by sons and dghters who have faced the difficulti of g out a homophobic untry.

She believ that, whatever the circumstanc, talkg helps: “You have to expla to [your parents] that homosexuals are not the people they [are ma out to be] on televisn. Homosexualy was crimalised 1993 after the fall of the Soviet Unn, but rights groups say the suatn for Rsia’s gay populatn has bee more 2014 Human Rights Watch released a report documentg a rise homophobic rhetoric and vlence Rsia.

She sensed stantly that he was troubled, but put down to the difficulti of adaptg to life back Dmry began his g out talk wh the words “I want you to listen to me but this might ighten you”, she says the possibily that her son might be gay had never occurred to her. She expected her son to lead her to a basement where “gays live”, she says, and “when I saw that no one was dancg tights, jt cent people stg around, I was que surprised, ” she adds.

HOW THE TIM GAVE ‘GAY’ ITS OWN VOICE (AGA)

”The mothers om the club believe that the problems wh acceptance lie not wh them, but wh Rsian society as a whole: if gay people are nstantly beg abed on televisn, why should someone sudnly believe a handful of people who take a different view? Mara: ‘The shock lasted 10 days’“After the g out blows your md, the world as was cmbl away, together wh your plans for your child’s future, ” says Mara Melnik, the founr of parents’ club: her son Roman told her he was gay six years ago.

That’s when she went through the last stage, acceptance, followed by her own g out of sorts: “I was sred to tell the people around me [that my son was gay], ” she remembers. ” Photograph: Sergei Chernov/MzaIgor: ‘No one talked about gay people’Igor fally managed to brg his mother to the club two years after g out.

MOM, I’M GAY. CAN MY FRIENDS SLEEP OVER?

No precise statistics exist, but the club’s activists believe that for every LGBT person accepted by their fay, another five are ‘Sorry mum, but I’m still gay’Dmry is one of the five. Photograph: Artem Sokolov/Trend/TASSUnsure of what to do next, he went to the parents’ club, where he was advised to show his mother the film Prayers for Bobby, about a gay man who kills himself bee his relig parents refed to accept him. ”By sayg “gay” s own voice, the newspaper that set the standard for prs verage throughout the untry was acknowledgg the existence of a muny and a movement far broar and richer than “homosexual” — clil, nfg and imposed by others — uld possibly nventnal histori, therefore, 1987 is a there is a longer and more plited story about the acceptance, banishment and subsequent reappearance of the word “gay” the than a half-century ago, The Tim reviewed John Rechy’s novel “Cy of Night, ” a graphic acunt of a gay htler’s transgrsive travels through Ameri.

“The excement of this ‘gay’ world, as Rechy pats , nsists so much s illegaly, s furtive, on-the-lam qualy, ” the reviewer, Peter Buenhuis, wrote 1969, an say the Arts & Leisure sectn ma pla that outlaw sex was only one facet of gay life. In the article, a gay man, who was wrg psdonymoly, exprsed his yearng to be picted popular culture as somethg other than a tragic, doomed socpath. “Unls art has no effect on those portrays, the Amerin Gay Boy and Lbian mt certaly view themselv, at least subnscly, as send-class cizens, ” he wrote.