A man livg wh bipolar disorr scrib realized he had supprsed the trma of beg told he was gog to hell for beg gay.
Contents:
- WHAT IS GAY ATTACHMENT TRMA AND WHY DO WE ALL HAVE IT?
- GAY MEN AND MOVG ON IN LIFE AFTER TRMA
- GAY MEN AND TRMA REVERY: RECLAIMG YOUR LIFE
- GAY MEN AND TRMA
- THE SUPPRSED TRMA OF BEG TOLD I WAS GOG TO HELL FOR BEG GAY
WHAT IS GAY ATTACHMENT TRMA AND WHY DO WE ALL HAVE IT?
Ken discs how gay men and movg on life after trma, such as experienc child abe, crime, terpersonal betrayal, and accints the long term. * gay and friends trauma *
Introduc the viewer to the needs of lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and qutng (LGBTQ) youth who have experienced trma. DUNEDIN, New Zealand, July 26, 2010 ()—A recent Otago Universy study has found that homosexual or bisexual dividuals are more likely to have unrgone a variety of of trmas childhood, cludg sexual asslt, rape, vlence, and wnsg vlence the home. “People who eher intify themselv as homosexual or bisexual, or have had a same-sex enunter or relatnship, tend to e om more disturbed backgrounds, ” said Rearch Associate Profsor Elisabeth Wells.
8% intified as homosexual; 0. Of people who reported certa trmatic childhood events, 15% were not heterosexual; of those whout such experienc, only 5% were not heterosexual, suggtg that such experienc tripled the chance of later profsg homosexual or bisexual clatns. Some homosexualist lears took issue wh the study’s fdgs: Tony Simpson, chairman of the natnal homosexualist group Rabow Wellgton, said that the rearch should not be taken to mean that homosexuals are not born that way.
“I have no doubt that the relig right will leap to the ncln that this go to show nclively that homosexuals are ma rather than born, ” he said. “I spect there might be some gay and lbian people who will be dignant, but is not my tentn to anger them, ” she said.
GAY MEN AND MOVG ON IN LIFE AFTER TRMA
Gay men and trma revery -- reclaimg your life -- is the topic of this blog article by Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, specialist therapy for gay men. * gay and friends trauma *
“You uld say that if someone was sexually abed as a child, choos to live as a homosexual and liv life well, then that is not a bad thg. But if they are livg a homosexual life and regrettg , that is another matter. Although sexual or physil abe childhood was associated wh adult homosexualy, other trmatic experienc, such as the sudn ath of a loved one or ser childhood illns or accint, were only slightly associated wh non-heterosexual inty or behavur.
Of femal who self-intified as homosexual, more than 40% had been married and had children, whereas 13% of male homosexuals had done so. The associatn between child abe and later homosexual intifitn is not young.
One 1992 study found that 37% of homosexual and bisexual men attendg sexually transmted disease clics had been enuraged or forced to have sexual ntact before age 19 wh an olr or more powerful partner. Recently my iend sent me a very helpful vio by relatnship ach and psychotherapist Alan Robarge, “Growg Up Gay and Attachment Wounds: Impact on Relatnships, ” and ’s the first time I’ve ever enjoyed listeng to a man expla somethg to the voice of a wise rtoon owl who’s jt had six iced ffe, Robarge breaks down how growg up gay n create or worsen “attachment wounds, ” which then permeate our nervo system and psyche, and affect how we velop relatnships.
GAY MEN AND TRMA REVERY: RECLAIMG YOUR LIFE
At Penn Medice Prceton Hoe Behavral Health, gay men stgglg wh trma and s effects have accs to re that is clive and acceptg of all patients. * gay and friends trauma *
Gay attachment trma is the rult of beg the “target of aggrsn, ” whether overt or vert, when growg up, sentially disptg your personal velopment. Can Childhood Trma lead to Homosexualy? I intify as pletely gay but havg to al wh long standg issu and problems om my trmatic childhood wh my mother I was told that me beg a homosexual uld be part of how I alt wh the problems and issu I received om growg up.
Basilly they were sayg that my mother turned me gay and turned me off om women. Sce I was 13 I knew I was gay and really put myself through hell and back over hurtg myself bee I was gay. Eventually I learned to accept and don't bother me anymore and I'm happy I'm gay.
Beg told that I was turned gay really bothers me and mak me feel as that uld be possible that I was, but thkg that I am so broken and fucked up that I was turned gay aga bothers me. I know the person wasn't beg mean or homophobic if anythg is bee she knows my mother and how evil she is and how she really has fucked up her children (me beg the only one to get away and make a life for myself) that might be a possibily, or I uld of been born that way. What do you thk r/LGBT, uld childhood trma be a factorg a persons homosexualy?
GAY MEN AND TRMA
The crease the number of visible gay and trans people is sometim treated as a cursy or a e for ncern by crics, but ’s not a surprise. It’s normal. * gay and friends trauma *
Gay men overg a trmatic experience helps you nfintly reclaim your life.
THE SUPPRSED TRMA OF BEG TOLD I WAS GOG TO HELL FOR BEG GAY
Gay Men and Movg On In Life After Trma.
As a long-term gay men’s specialist psychotherapist and life/reer/relatnship ach, I often work wh some of the most mon psychologil and psychiatric challeng any person n have, but they take on a eper meang for gay men and others the LGBT+ muny, or any group that might also experience “mory strs” addn to their ndn. In earlier blogs and podsts, I’ve discsed the different kds of trmatic experienc a person (specifilly, my long-term profsnal foc on gay men’s mental health and qualy of life) n go through, and how to pe wh them. Gay Men and Trma: Reclaimg Your Life was one of them, addn to my two-part seri, Gay Men and Copg wh Specific Trmas, Parts 1 and 2, and Covid’s End as Trma Revery Gay Men.