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Contents:

• EXPLORE OUR FAVOURE 10 PLAC GAY SRI LANKA
• MEN ONLY GAY HOTEL - GOMEZ PLACE
• CATEGORY: GAY SRI LANKA
• SRI LANKA GAY GUI
• GAY SRI LANKA
• IN 'FUNNY BOY,' A YOUNG SRI LANKAN GAY MAN COM OF AGE AS ETHNIC TENSNS EXPLO
• 54 SRI LANKA HOTELS FOR GAY TRAVELLERS
• ADVICE FOR A 40SOMETHG GAY UPLE - SRI LANKA FOM
• GAY AND LESBIAN HOTELS IN SRI LANKA
• TOP GAY DTATNS: SRI LANKA

EXPLORE OUR FAVOURE 10 PLAC GAY SRI LANKA

Among Sri Lankan society, rather more progrsive views prosper and lols are discreetly acceptg of same-sex lookg for Sri Lanka gay rmatn, is advised to be discreet and acknowledge that most lol gays are still closeted.

In spe of all of this, the Colombo gay scene is quietly thrivg, particularly around the areas of Col 1, Col 3 and Col Sri Lanka safe for LGBTQ travellers? Be that as may, Sri Lanka uld very well be nsired a safe untry for gay travellers as lols are – general – very welg and cur of foreigners, regardls of orientatn. The lack of Sri Lanka gay rights means is possible for bigots and rpt officials to discrimate wh impuny and this is largely why openly gay lols are hard to e by.

A popular first stop on the gay Sri Lanka travel erary, Negombo offers the chance to grow acctomed to the eic energy of the natn amidst stunng astle and lonial-era archecture. Dpe natnal laws mutg explic LGBT culture, gay Negonmo do offer a few unofficial gay hotels, such as the male-only Gomez Place and gay-iendly “adult-only” Dickman and Bnacle hotel rorts. By day, Negombo Beach is a popular gay hangout which turns to a slightly riskier cisg spot for so-lled ‘beach boys’ (or rts) at to simplify luxury travel planng?

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Nudy and sexualy has been an tegrated part of our history, so was homosexualy acrdg to some scholars but sce the many vasns that occurred over the years and relig beliefs that followed along wh a plited mixture of English mon law, Roman-Dutch civil law and Ctomary Law we are actually stuck a bter marriage that the wterners proposed to . Sure, tim have change and the Inter has opened up many door to those cur teenagers, yet there’s no place for Sri Lankan gay men to feel like we belong on the ter.

Even though homosexualy is officially illegal  Sri Lanka, is remarkable that thgs have changed over time and gay people are now more accepted that the past.

The most active anizatn towards the LGBT rights is the Equal Ground, thanks to which there has been nsirable progrs regardg the homosexualy issue.

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This is bee many experience homophobia their personal liv, and so many refe to utilize the anti-discrimatn laws fear of beg outed to those they know.

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His life is proscribed by the law, which outlaws homosexualy Sri Lanka, and proscribed by his fay’s expectatn to obediently follow tradn–take a wife and produce children. Dpe the fact that both India and Sri Lanka men hold hands or walk arm arm and affectnately touch each other–as women do wh women–any overt sign of homosexual behavr is sternly nmned.

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When I suggted that he move to the pol Colombo to live and make ntact wh other gay people, he efully untered, “this is not Cha where so many people are. As Jay and I end our talk, I felt some sadns but also some anger that he was not stronger and rilient enough to avoid beg a victim to his own homophobia. There is a booklet lled ‘The Yogyakarta Prcipl’ (about human and LGBT rights translated to Shala and Ta); also a booklet tled ‘Stgglg Agast Homophobic Vlence and Hate Crim’ (a report on the documentatn and rearch nducted by EQUAL GROUND om April 2010-June 2011 on vlence agast lbian and bi women the ral areas).

In s cisn published today, CEDAW found that Sri Lanka has breached the rights of Rosanna Flamer-Calra, the founr and Executive Director of Equal Ground, an anisatn fendg the rights of the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and tersex muny Sri Lanka. In 2012 and 2013, the Women and Children’s Bure of the Sri Lanka Police ed Flamer-Calra’s photo and her posn wh Equal Ground prentatns to assert that the rise of child abe was maly due to the “growg homosexual culture”.

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They claimed that she and her anisatn were rponsible for “spreadg” homosexualy, implyg that they were also rponsible for “spreadg” paedophilia.

“The crimalisatn of same-sex sexual activy has meant that the discrimatn, vlence and harassment on the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and tersex muny Sri Lanka will ntue wh impuny, ” she add. 1 This note provis an asssment of the general suatn of gay men, lbians, bisexuals, trans and tersex persons as well as those perceived as such.

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3 In the untry guidance se LH and IP (gay men: risk) Sri Lanka CG [2015] UKUT 00073 (IAC), promulgated on 18 Febary 2015 (heard on 6–8 Augt 2014) the Upper Tribunal found that, although all LGBTI persons form a PSG, wh regard specifilly to those who are a civil partnership or married, that they ‘…do not nsir that dividuals whose civil partner stat or stat as married homosexuals is not reflected their legal stat their untry of orig form a separate particular social group’ (para 25). Official figur on the prosecutns of gay men and those the LGBTI muny generally Sri Lanka have not been specifilly reported on sce 2018, but has been claimed that between October 2019 and October 2020 6 gay men were prosecuted (see Implementatn and enforcement of the law).

8 In the untry guidance se LH and IP (gay men: risk) Sri Lanka CG [2015] UKUT 00073 (IAC), promulgated on 18 Febary 2015 (heard on 6–8 Augt 2014), the Upper Tribunal (UT) noted ‘…that s. Sourc, cludg the USSD, have reported on isolated cinc of mistreatment of LGBTI persons sce 2017; namely 7 persons who were forced to unrgo physil examatns to provi proof of same- sex nduct, cludg forced anal and vagal examatn, and 6 gay men who were physilly mistreated and threatened ctody followg their arrt October 2019. 16 In 2018, the urts the UK allowed an asylum appeal submted by a Sri Lankan natnal agast the cisn to refe her applitn for asylum on the basis of her profile as a transgenr woman a relatnship wh a gay man.

The Secretary of State appealed the urt’s cisn to grant the appeal on the basis amounted to an error of law, as parted om the tablished posn of the risk to gay men LH and IP. Notwhstandg this, the Upper Tribunal noted that ‘The argument the grounds that the judge approached the se on a syllogistic basis, that jt bee two gay men dulged an cint that breached public orr, did not mean that all gay men Sri Lanka will receive the same treatment do not stand up to analysis.

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We also note that LH and IP the Tribunal accepted that transgenr dividuals might be more at risk than other gay men and the prent se the appellant is seekg to transn to female’ [Para 32]. 36 Some fai prsured LGB persons to seek treatment to ‘cure’ their sexual orientatn, nsirg their children’s behavur as an early ditn of them beg gay (see Societal norms and Conversn therapy).

39 The Upper Tribunal LH and IP found that there is a ‘signifint populatn of homosexuals and other LGBT dividuals Sri Lanka, particular Colombo’ and that ‘while there is more risk for lbian and bisexual women ral areas, bee of the ntrol exercised by fai on unmarried women, … and sex workers the ci, will be a qutn of fact whether for a particular dividual the risk reach the ternatnal protectn standard, and particular, whether extends beyond their home area.

46 The Upper Tribunal LH and IP found that there is a ‘signifint populatn of homosexuals and other LGBT dividuals Sri Lanka, particular Colombo’ and that ‘while there is more risk for … transgenr dividuals and sex workers the ci, will be a qutn of fact whether for a particular dividual the risk reach the ternatnal protectn standard, and particular, whether extends beyond their home area. 4 The Upper Tribunal LH and IP (gay men: risk) Sri Lanka CG [2015] UKUT 00073 (IAC) found that ternal relotn would normally be sufficient to enable an dividual to avoid the risk of ser harm/persecutn sce risks are ually om fay, iends or neighbours pecially for gay men, particularly if they reloted to the more ‘gay-iendly’ ci such as Colombo (paragraph 119).

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3 A report for the UN Commtee on Enomic, Social and Cultural Rights regardg vlatns agast LGBTIQ [Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgenr, Intersex, Queer/Qutng] people piled by Equal Ground and the Center for Internatnal Human Rights (CIHR), dated May 2017, stated:. 4 The Internatnal Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Associatn (ILGA) noted their ‘Trans Legal Mappg Report- Regnn before the law’ published November 2017 that orr to change a person’s sex on their birth certifite they n obta a Genr Regnn Certifite (GIC) issued by the Mistry of Health, Nutrn and Indigeno Medice.

‘…homosexualy Sri Lanka is fely an offence, but nced that is ed open to terpretatn… Homosexualy, among other thgs, unr “unnatural offenc” or acts of a sexual nature that go agast nature, as per sectn 365 of the Penal Co. When asked for any exampl, Kularathne said that although he has not heard of anyone been prosecuted solely for beg gay, there have been s high urt for unnatural offenc that clud acts of a homosexual nature rried out whout nsent.

‘Sri Lanka’s bet rejected a proposal to end discrimatn based on sexual orientatn bee uld legimise homosexualy, which is illegal on the island, a ernment mister said on Wednday, January 18…. “The ernment is agast homosexualy, but we will not prosecute anyone for practisg , ” the mister said, addg that the island’s nservative Buddhist clergy was also opposed to the provisn. ’ The article add: ‘Rights activists say although there have been no known prosecutns recent s, Article 365 of the penal is discrimatory and stigmatis homosexualy.

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3 The Sri Lanka Brief, January 2017, reported that a statement by the Natnal Peace Council rponse to the ernment’s cisn not to proceed wh legal reform that crimaliz homosexualy, said: ‘We note that same sex relatns are rarely if ever prosecuted the Sri Lankan urts. 7 In reference to the 2018 Performance Report of the Sri Lanka police; a report submted to Parliament to measure police effectivens agast objectiv, beg gay is nsired a ‘vice’ which is fed as ‘offenc that impact adversely on moraly and well-beg which is expected om the society. ’[footnote 24] The report reveals that, unr this provisn, the police prosecuted 33 men ‘for homosexualy’ 2016, 6 2017, and 9 2018[footnote 25].

12 Although the law do not crimalise beg gay, lbian or havg any particular sexual orientatn, Equal Ground noted their January 2020 publitn ‘My Rights, My Rponsibily’ that: ‘there have been cints reported where the police has arrted LGBTIQ dividuals g threat of the laws, for socializg public. ‘In a Facebook post, LGBTIQ activist and lawyer, Arha Wickramasghe, highlighted another se where the police had arrted three gay men a hotel room Colombo 2019.

The vio featured unsellor Ama Dissanayake cg her dience to clare loudly that they, as parents, do not wish for their children to “fall prey to a homosexual”. 18 In November 2021 a news article by the Sri Lankan Daily Mirror reported that: ‘Ten civil society activists have filed a wr petn the Court of Appeal challengg the ever-risg abe, harassment and discrimatn agast dividuals of the Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgenr, Intersex and Qutng (LGBTIQ) muny, at the hands of the Police. ‘The petners said the send rponnt Ama Dissanayake was seen and heard, nductg a trag program at the Police Audorium Kandy, proclaimg to the entire dience of police officers, most explicly that homosexuals Sri Lanka are predatory, and quired om the participants of ncern about their children fallg prey to homosexual dividuals.

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3 Human Rights Watch reported September 2019 that: ‘Some lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr (LGBT) people – particularly those who are visibly genr non-nformg – face arbrary arrt, police mistreatment…. ‘On October 20, Human Rights Watch and LGBTQ rights NGO Equal Ground said a statement that thori had subjected at least seven persons to forced physil examatns, cludg forced anal and vagal examatn, sce 2017 an attempt to provi proof of homosexual nduct.