A rear submted the followg qutn: “I am a straight and happily married man, but lately I have had fantasi about other men. Some of them are jt about me and another man, while others volve my wife and I am wh a gay or bi man. The qutn I have has several parts to .…
Contents:
- THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT
- AM I GAY IF I HAVE SAME SEX FANTASI?
THE FACT NO ONE LIK TO ADM: MANY GAY MEN ULD JT HAVE EASILY BEEN STRAIGHT
“I’m gay, ” he said.
I said he looked gay when he was wearg those whe pants. ”Conversatns between three men their late twenti about their gay iend are eerily siar to nversatns between boys their early teens about girls. For this article, I gossiped wh every straight man I know about gay guys.
In the r one afternoon, entirely unprovoked, my iend Eric, who do tech support, offered this about a bar we equent: “There were a bunch of gay upl at the Taproom. Whout thkg too much of , we gge the affluence of whatever place we’re suckg down beers by the number of gay men we n pick out the crowd.
AM I GAY IF I HAVE SAME SEX FANTASI?
” My brother Jon works luxury retail, and ntends that his gay clients have more expendable e and take better re of themselv. But they agreed, almost unanimoly, that overly flamboyant gay men are, to put gently, hard to take. I’m not talkg about crossg your legs at the knee or speakg like … well, like a gay guy.
It has nothg to do wh the fact that the guys are gay. “Girls love havg gay guys around bee they’re to fashn and they don’t feel threatened, ” Mike says. Whereas if he wasn’t gay, one of them would have been for him.
Their reasong, however skewed may be, is that ’s not gay if a girl is dog , and unr no circumstanc would they nsir actually nng a few plays for your team. At least not out might thk the fellas are already straddlg that third rail of sexualy (I certaly do), but there are still fort issu when to gay guys flirtg wh .