If a loved one tells you he’s gay, ask God to give you wise love, urageo clary, and prayerful endurance.
Contents:
- HOW TO RENCILE YOUR CHRISTIAN FAH WH YOUR GAY LIFE
- THE GOSPEL FOR A GAY FRIEND
- 10 REASONS GOD LOV GAY CHRISTIANS
- GAY J – WHO WAS THE BELOVED DISCIPLE?
- DO GOD STILL LOVE ME IF I’M GAY?
- THE JOURNEY OF A GAY J
- WAS J GAY?
- WAS J GAY? PROBABLY
- 'WAS J GAY?’: THE CLASS UNVERG HIDN QUEER HISTORI
- CHRISTIAN COLLEGE FIR GAY SOCCER COACH OVER INSTAGRAM STORI
HOW TO RENCILE YOUR CHRISTIAN FAH WH YOUR GAY LIFE
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In a 2012 article for Slate onle, Will Orem asked a provotive qutn: Was J a homophobe? The article was ocsned by a story about a gay teenager Oh who was sug his high school after school officials prohibed him om wearg a T-shirt that said, “J Is Not a Homophobe. Orem suggts that J’s views on homosexualy were more clive than Pl’s.
While ’s reasonable to assume that J and his fellow Jews first-century Palte would have disapproved of gay sex, there is no rerd of his ever havg mentned homosexualy, let alone exprsed particular revulsn about .... Never the Bible do J himself offer an explic prohibn of homosexualy. Orem seems to suggt that sce J never explicly mentned homosexualy, he mt not have been very ncerned about .
THE GOSPEL FOR A GAY FRIEND
Realizg that you're gay is sometim difficult. Matag your fah while livg thentilly as an LGBT person is even more difficult - sometim you feel ostracized or isolated om both groups. But you n fd a balance, and... * i gay for jesus *
Get a ee py of the ebook ‘What Do the Bible Really Teach about Homosexualy? It is credible to suggt that the words om J have no bearg on the qutn of homosexualy.
So Orem has misnsted the relevance of J’s teachg to the homosexual qutn.
Even if J viewed homosexualy as a s, he had a penchant for reachg out to sners rather than shunng them.... In Romans 1, Pl nounced gay sex as unnatural—an egreg example of pagan nce—and said would brg the wrath of God.
10 REASONS GOD LOV GAY CHRISTIANS
When I started wrg my new book, God and the Gay Christian, I was well aware that Christians who oppose same-sex marriage the church have long ed the Bible to fend their pot of view. As a gay Christian om an evangelil church Kansas, that stat quo has had a damagg impact on my life, which is one reason I'm settg out to change the flty perspective. Here are 10 reasons why God accepts gay Christians. * i gay for jesus *
On the one si is J: peace-lovg, enemy-fivg, egalarian, and clive wh regard to homosexuals. On the other si is Pl: war-lovg, ath penalty–supportg, patriarchal, and exclnary wh regard to homosexuals.
Wh clary and passn, this book sets forth the Bible’s teachg on sexualy om a plementarian perspective, alg wh ntroversial issu such as homosexualy and polygamy. The Pew Rearch Center shared last year that the majory of people who approved of homosexual liftyl didn’t nsir relign important their daily liv.
And holdg to God’s revealed tth His Word ncerng homosexualy is even more dangero, ” Becket Cook wrote his book, A Change of Affectn: A Gay Man’s Incredible Story of Remptn. “If you believe that homosexualy is a s, you are immediately labeled a bigot or homophobic. Cook remds his rears, there are gay pri paras but not gossip pri paras.
GAY J – WHO WAS THE BELOVED DISCIPLE?
If the J of History was gay, he mt have had someone to be gay wh. Who is the strongt ndidate for the role of J’ GBF. * i gay for jesus *
“Homosexual orientatn affects the whole person: the md, will, emotn and body, ” he wr.
“The nscienc of today’s Christians are beg rpted by the opprsive cultural i and the extreme social prsure surroundg the issue of homosexualy, but we know that the law of the Lord is wrten on our hearts (Jeremiah 31:31-33) and though we may succeed mutg our nscience, the Word of God is eternal, ” Cook said.
DO GOD STILL LOVE ME IF I’M GAY?
Sam Allberry livered a msage tled “Is God Anti-Gay?” sprgboardg om his own personal stggle wh homosexualy. * i gay for jesus *
I would enurage them to be reful not to fe themselv as "homosexual.
There was a Christian brother our church who had AIDS due to his history the homosexual liftyle. He also helped me draft a one-page statement of nvictn and passn wh regard to homosexualy.
THE JOURNEY OF A GAY J
He, Joe, said to me: "Don't ever let any man tell you he is a homosexual. Jt like John Piper is a new creature Christ, even though he still stggl wh the ss of impatience, lt, and pri, Christians who stggle wh homosexual sir are not homosexuals. In Christ they are new creatur who stggle wh the temptatns of homosexualy.
WAS J GAY?
It talks about people experiencg te change, healg and victory over homosexual temptatns. It don't mean that those feelgs go away entirely, but many time are able to enjoy heterosexual liv or liv of ntented, chaste sglens spe a history of homosexual s. In a world where submissn to God’s holy law is labeled “homophobia” and hate, how do we stand firm on the Bible’s clear teachg?
The qutns take on add urgency when they e om arly loved fay members: whether an adult child who intifi as gay, or a fay member who stggl wh his genr — or even transns and then mands that you e a new name and new pronouns.
Space don’t allow me to rehearse all of the biblil teachg related to the issu, but I would remend a few excellent books on homosexualy, transgenrism, and lovg LGBTQ+ people, as well as an article by biblil unselor Mike Emlet, “Five Mistry Prri for Those Stgglg wh Same-Sex Attractn. When a fay member tells you he is gay, or stggl wh his genr, or is attracted to the same sex, much more is at work than mere sexualy.
WAS J GAY? PROBABLY
Your loved one may be throwg off rtrat and pursug open sexual s, but is also possible that the label “gay” or “trans” has ltle to do wh physil appet and much to do wh distorted hop and longgs.
Especially for the young, “gay” and “trans” often reprent an inty, a muny of unrstandg, and a source of meang for sufferg and alienatn.
” Sam Allberry has some excellent thoughts on what to say this kd of nversatn the ncln to his book Is God Anti-Gay? When a person plung headlong to a gay inty, there will rarely be a simple “return to normal. But you n fd a balance, and ntue to be a person of ep fah even as you live as an out gay or lbian.
'WAS J GAY?’: THE CLASS UNVERG HIDN QUEER HISTORI
Christiany is a relatnship, not a relign, and is open to all who believe - gays clud. Anyone who tells you that beg gay will e you to lose your salvatn is wrong.
Even if you accept the ia that beg gay is a s (which most, if not all church do), remember that is jt a s - is the same to God as any other s (any s is enough to keep you out of Heaven, if not for J' vir atonement). You have an opportuny to show them that gay people aren't ntag or perverted. People who don't have a gay person their liv (or at least, don't realize that they do) may surprise you wh their reactns.
CHRISTIAN COLLEGE FIR GAY SOCCER COACH OVER INSTAGRAM STORI
Try to mata a sense of humor if they make cluels or homophobic remarks, and remember that you are as cluels about other thgs as they are about you - try to keep a passnate perspective. Read "The Gay Fah: Christ, Scripture, and Sexualy" by Sphero, which explas great tail how the Bible is actually very pro-gay and supportive of the homosexual believer...
Th, even if we are ad wrong and homosexualy actually is a s, is the same to God as stealg a pack of gum terms of the ultimate effect - eher one is enough to e a person to be separated om God. However, you may fd that people are not willg to give up on their "hierarchy of s" - they nsir one s worse than another, and for many, homosexualy is still near the top of the list. After the Supreme Court legalized gay marriage 2015 (Obergefell),.
A mon argument for the acceptance of homosexualy and same-sex marriage is that, if God is love, He would not nmn the love of others. The world and maybe even our own sensivi might say that allowg others to live a homosexual relatnship is to see to their well-beg. First Corthians 6:18 says that sexual immoraly, cludg homosexualy, is a s agast one’s own body.