The shock of disverg that there are gay men Lagos – KoDiari

Contents:

• LAGOS, WHERE ’S STILL A THRILL TO BE GAY
• 'SEX EDUTN'S' ERIC EFFNG IS SPIRATN TO NIGERIA'S GAYS, SAYS ACTIVIST
• INSI NIGERIA'S SECRET GAY CLUB
• #OWOARRT: HOW 70 ALLEGED GAY MEN WERE ARRTED LAGOS
• BLACKMAIL, PREJUDICE AND PERSECUTN: GAY RIGHTS NIGERIA
• THE SHOCK OF DISVERG THAT THERE ARE GAY MEN LAGOS
• CLIC REPORT BACKS HUMAN RIGHTS OF GAY MEN NIGERIA
• JUDGE DISMISS CASE AGAST 47 MEN CHARGED UNR NIGERIA’S ANTI-GAY LAW
• LAGOS: A HAVEN A GAY-FRIENDLY ALGARVE

LAGOS, WHERE ’S STILL A THRILL TO BE GAY

Wele to queer nightlife Nigeria where, on weekends, apartments turn to gay clubs, barred wh pass-guardg doors to protect agast hoe parti, discrete rav, and clubs are now beg creasgly popular amongst young queer Nigerians. In 2014, the Nigerian ernment passed the highly ntroversial and homophobic Same-Sex Marriage Prohibn Act. While there isn’t an extensive rerd of people beg found guilty for the crim Nigeria, the laws embolned many homophobic mobs who took the laws to their hands and would beat dividuals who they intified as queer and stroy spac and parti that they spected were hosted by or for queer people.

One of the most famo stanc was a 2018 se where 57 men were arrted at a party Lagos unr the spicn of beg iated to a gay club. Tamuno, a 31-year-old gay man, tells me of a near-pture experience when he had gone to a party Port Harurt 2020. It is important that atten feel safe om homophobic attacks om civilians and the armed forc.

For the anizers, the secury measur are put place, not agast potential miscreants or robbers but stead to keep off the police force and homophob.

'SEX EDUTN'S' ERIC EFFNG IS SPIRATN TO NIGERIA'S GAYS, SAYS ACTIVIST

But spe laws, the threat of imprisonment and the ath penalty, gay life that untry is pumpg.

If you’ve lived Lagos you probably already know this, but jt se you don’t, and are cur, the gay scene Lagos is poppg. Olr folks live for their weddg, funeral and child-ditn parti, while the gay scene parti even harr whout needg any exce. In Lagos, partyg is fundamental to gay people’s liv sce ’s an easy way to socialise, make iends and to meet potential partners.

INSI NIGERIA'S SECRET GAY CLUB

Bee gay people have stuck their middle fgers to the law and bee they love to party! If you want to get ved to one of the gathergs then you eher have to be gay or have gay iends who love partyg.

Whatever type of social animal you are, the gay folks of Lagos have nfirmed to me that beg a circle is easit way to know what’s on. You will equently fd hot-bodied gay men dancg on tabl wh their shirts off and shots of absthe makg their way around the hoe. Sce I’m so magic and get to pick and choose om the people who flock to me (or I go through them all if I’m feelg slutty) I need to do some diggg on what tak to hook up gay Lagos.

#OWOARRT: HOW 70 ALLEGED GAY MEN WERE ARRTED LAGOS

I’ve even heard mours of gay church Ftac servg as lc meetg grounds.

I’ve even heard mours of gay church Ftac servg as lc meetg grounds, although I have no evince to back this up. The fact is that the gay scene Lagos is really anywhere there is a gay person. Her store is filled wh so much gay activy that I asked her if I uld e and work there my spare time… specifilly near the ftg rooms.

BLACKMAIL, PREJUDICE AND PERSECUTN: GAY RIGHTS NIGERIA

‘Gay guys are crazy and hot-tempered so no one would dare pick a fight. I simply asked where he lik to hang out and he said his favoure hangouts are gay parti. Bis, he said, ‘Gay guys are crazy and hot-tempered so no one would dare.

THE SHOCK OF DISVERG THAT THERE ARE GAY MEN LAGOS

A gay man or woman is probably htg on your hband or wife, girliend or boyiend or mum or dad. But I wanted to know how fast Tanya uld tell if a man was approachg him for, you know, gay stuff. ‘I love tops bee they are always mascule but when I look at a guy who is gay, I know.

They e slang to dite if someone is gay, such as TB, which stands for top bottom, sagba, FB. Tanya showed me pictur of gay marriage ceremoni, legal or not, the parti looked dope as fuck and I n’t wa to be ved to one… not held Nigeria.

He strsed that all gay men need to have their ndoms and lubrints handy. There is somethg lite about the gay scene Lagos bee exists a prer settg where the law forbids you to be gay. Some practic have to rema unrground but all tak is a ltle ncentratn to fd proof that gay people are termed to nurture their own subculture, spe mastream opposn.

CLIC REPORT BACKS HUMAN RIGHTS OF GAY MEN NIGERIA

That hotel you love to vis but was closed to visors last weekend was probably hostg a very gay party or maybe a big fat gay weddg. The character Eric Effng (portrayed by actor Ncuti Gatwa) is an openly gay Brish teen the Netflix seri Sex Edutn.

Eric is a gay teenager this seri about a high school the Uned Kgdom where sex is very much on everyone's md.

Bisi Alimi, an actor-turned-activist, ma headl when he me out as gay on Nigerian televisn. I thk that scenar of the mother who is acceptg of her child and unrstandg the homophobia Nigeria, the expectatn of homophobia, is very, very accurate. She is aaid that this lovg son who is gay is gog to a untry that is homophobic.

JUDGE DISMISS CASE AGAST 47 MEN CHARGED UNR NIGERIA’S ANTI-GAY LAW

In the new season, Eric's mom warns her son to be discreet when they vis Nigeria, but he ends up gog to an unrground LGBTQ party wh a new gay iend. On the TV show, Eric go to the weddg, then sneaks away wh a Nigerian photographer he meets who is gay.

A typil Nigerian driver will have somethg to say, good or bad, will possibly preach at them, exprs his opn why beg gay is bad and God is agast — or exprs some form of support. What did you thk of the rt of the scenar the show's Nigeria episo — Eric's new gay iend tak him to an unrground LGBTQ party.

LAGOS: A HAVEN A GAY-FRIENDLY ALGARVE

This was a big opportuny to show how sometim will be very, very dangero to be a gay man Lagos.