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MAKG FETCH HAPPEN: A GUI TO BEG A GAY PUP"I ALWAYS PARE BEG A PUP TO BEG A DRAG QUEEN: NO TWO QUEENS ARE THE SAME."{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}LIFEBY JONATHAN JAMNOVEMBER 29, 2019/12:00 {HEIGHT:HER;DISPLAY:-WEBK-BOX;DISPLAY:-WEBK-FLEX;DISPLAY:-MS-FLEXBOX;DISPLAY:FLEX;POSN:RELATIVE;-WEBK-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-MS-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-WEBK-ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-ALIGN:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-ALIGN:CENTER;ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-PACK:CENTER;-WEBK-JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-PACK:CENTER;JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-WEBK-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;-MS-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;} IMG{HEIGHT:100%;WIDTH:100%;OBJECT-F:VER;}{HEIGHT:3116PX;WIDTH:5184PX;}MARK SCHOLZ/PICTURE ALLIANCE VIA GETTY IMAG04 AUGT 2018, GERMANY, HAMBURG: PARTICIPANTS OF THE CHRISTOPHER STREET DAY (CSD) PARA, DRSED AS "PUPPI" STAND TOGETHER FOR A GROUP PHOTO. PHOTO: MARK SCHOLZ/DPA (PHOTO BY MARK SCHOLZ/PICTURE ALLIANCE VIA GETTY IMAG)BY JONATHAN JAMNOVEMBER 29, 2019 / 12:00 PM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"MAKG FETCH HAPPEN: A GUI TO BEG A GAY PUP","THUMBNAILURL":","DATEPUBLISHED":"2019-11-29T17:00:21.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2019-11-29T17:00:21.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"JONATHAN JAM","ARTICLESECTN":"LIFE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}FOR OVER A YEAR NOW I’VE ENJOYED LEARNG ABOUT THE FUN AND IENDLY WORLD OF PUP PLAY, A FETISH THAT TOOK ME FOUR YEARS TO SUM UP THE URAGE TO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I FIRST DISVERED PUP PLAY DURG LOS ANGEL PRI 2015, WHEN I STUMBLED UPON A HUMAN-SIZED KENNEL FILLED WH SUBMISSIVE MEN DRSED AS PUPS. POPULAR GEAR NSISTS OF A HOOD OR MASK, TAIL, PAWS (TYPILLY LEATHER MTENS), AND LLAR, A SYMBOL OF A PUP BEG OWNED BY A SIR—THE DOM’S PREFERRED TLE—AND/OR BOYIEND. AT FIRST, WAS BIZARRE TO WATCH GROWN MEN PRETEND TO BE DOGS. LTLE DID I KNOW THAT I’D ONE DAY BE AMONG THEM, BARKG ON ALL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}UNLIKE MOST CREATUR THE GAY ANIMAL KGDOM, PUP IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE HARR TERMS TO FE. UNLIKE BEARS, OTTERS, AND TWKS, PUPS ARE NOT CHARACTERIZED BY THEIR BODY TYP. BEARS AND OTTERS N BE PUPS JT AS MUCH AS TWKS AND MCLE QUEENS. THIS N MAKE CHALLENGG FOR FIRST-TIMERS ENTERG THE PUP MUNY. “HOW DO I BEE A PUP?” IS ONE OF THE MORE EQUENT QUTNS I GET THE DAYS. THE EASY ANSWER? “YOU JT DO.”GETTYSAO PLO, BRAZIL - JUNE 03: PEOPLE ATTEND THE GAY PRI PARA ON JUNE 3, 2018 SAO PLO, BRAZIL. PEOPLE GATHERED SAO PLO FOR THE 22ND ANNUAL GAY PRI PARA, WHICH IS NSIRED ONE OF THE BIGGT ON THE WORLD. AT THE PARA, THE PARTICIPANTS MONSTRATED FOR THE RIGHTS OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}YOU CHOOSE TO BE A PUP AND FOR EACH PUP, THE KD OF PLAY VARI. SOME PUPS LEAN TO THE MORE SEXUAL DOM-SUB DYNAMIC OF THE FETISH, WH THE DOM GIVG THE SUB ORRS TO PERFORM. THE DOM MAY TELL HIS PUP TO “S” OR MORE MONLY “LICK HIS BOOT,” AND ONCE THE PUP HAS PERFORMED TO THE DOM’S SATISFACTN, HE MAY REWARD HIS PUP WH SEXUAL ACTS. THIS IS A FORM OF NEGOTIATN BETWEEN SIR AND PUP—AN SENTIAL PART OF BDSM PLAY. AFTER THE EXCHANGE, BOTH SHOULD FEEL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IF THIS DYNAMIC ISN’T YOUR CUP OF TEA, THERE IS A PLATONIC PORTN OF THE MUNY THAT ENJOYS THE HEADSPACE OF PUP PLAY ABOVE ALL ELSE. THE FOLKS WILL HOLD NON-SEXUAL PLAY PARTI WHERE PUPS N WRTLE, PLAY WH CHEW TOYS, AND N AROUND TOGETHER. WHILE SIRS MAY NOT TYPILLY ATTEND THE EVENTS, THEY OFTEN ATTEND ANNUAL PET PLAY NTTS. AS I’VE SCRIBED TO MANY OF MY IENDS, THK OF THE MOVIE BT SHOW, BUT WH HUMANS PERFORMG AS THE ANIMALS. ONE OF MY FAVOR TO WATCH IS THE HERDG CHALLENGE: A NON-PARTICIPANT—THIS ULD BE A PUP OR ANY VOLUNTEER—DRS UP AS A SHEEP AND THE PUP MT HERD THAT PERSON TO A {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WHILE THERE IS OVERLAP BETWEEN THE FURRY AND PUP MUNI, THE HISTORY OF PUPS IS MORE CLOSELY TIED TO THE LEATHER MUNY. THAT IS BEE OF THEIR PARALLELS WH “SLAV” OR “BOYS” WHO ARE SERVG A DOM OR MASTER. HOWEVER, PUPS STAND OUT BEE OF THEIR PLAYFUL NATURE AND SPIR. BEG ON ALL FOURS IS A PLEASURABLE AND NATURAL FORM FOR A PUP. WHEREAS SLAV OR BOYS ARE TYPILLY LOOKG TO BE MEANED SERVICE TO THEIR MASTER, A PUP’S GOAL IS TO BE A “GOOD BOY” AND RECEIVE “SCRCH” (THE PUP TERM FOR BELLY BS OR HEAD BS).JOSH EDELSON/AFP VIA GETTY IMAGA MAN WHO GAVE HIS NAME AS PUP COMBO (C) HOLDS UP A SIGN WHILE PARTICIPATG THE SAN FRANCIS PRI PARA SAN FRANCIS, CALIFORNIA ON JUNE, 24, 2018. (PHOTO BY JOSH ELSON / AFP) (PHOTO CRED SHOULD READ JOSH EDELSON/AFP VIA GETTY IMAG){BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE’S NO SGULAR WAY TO ENGAGE PUP PLAY. IT’S NOT LIKE PISS PLAY OR FISTG, WHICH IS, FOR THE MOST PART, PRETTY CUT AND DRY. IT’S WHY I ALWAYS PARE BEG A PUP TO BEG A DRAG QUEEN: NO TWO QUEENS ARE THE SAME. THERE’S NO RIGHT OR WRONG WH DRAG. ONCE YOU REALIZE THIS, EVERYTHG SEEMS TO FALL TO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MANY PUPS GET UGHT UP ON FDG A SIR OR A PACK. I WISH I ULD SAY I HAD NCRETE ADVICE, BUT THE TTH IS THAT THE THGS OFTEN JT E TIME. PUPS FD THEIR SIRS BY ATTENDG MANY PUP EVENTS AND PUTTG THEMSELV OUT THERE; OTHERS FD THEIR SIRS ONLE. IT’S SIAR TO DATG; SIRS’ TAST, KKS, AND PERSONALI OFTEN HAVE TO MATCH WH THEIR PUPS. IF YOU’RE A PUP WHO DO NOT LIKE FORCEFUL PLAY THEN STEPPG TO A RELATNSHIP WH A SIR THAT DO MAY NOT BE THE BT {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}A PUP WHOUT A SIR OR PACK IS UALLY NSIRED A FERAL PUP. PUPS N STAY FERAL IF THEY PREFER, ’S UP TO THEM. OVER TIME, A FERAL PUP MAY FD A PACK OR SIR OF HIS OWN, OR, MANY S, HE WILL START HIS OWN PACK. BEG FERAL IS NOT A BAD THG–’S HOW WE ALL START. THE PUPS N PLAY WH OTHER PACKS AND SIRS WHOUT RTRAT, TTG THEIR LIMS AND DISVERG THE ASPECTS OF THE FETISH THEY LIKE OR DON’T LIKE.GETTYPHILALPHIA, PA, USA - JUNE 9, 2019: A BDSM HUMAN PUP WEARS A LORFUL DOG MASK DURG THE PHILLY PRI {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}LIKE A GOOD LOVE STORY, I FOUND MY SIR AND PACK WHEN I WAS JT FOCG ON MYSELF AND GROWG AS A PUP, RATHER THAN OUTRIGHT SEARCHG. I HAVE A MORE UNUAL DYNAMIC WH MY SIR, AS HE IS ALSO MY BOYIEND. WHILE HE IS NOT AS DOMANT AS OTHERS, HE DO ENJOY THE SAME SILLS OF PUP PLAY THAT I ENJOY. HE WILL GIVE ME TREATS FOR WHEN I PERFORM ACTS OF SERVICE FOR HIM, ANYTHG OM DOG THE DISH TO PLAYG {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE IS NO LE BOOK WHEN TO PUP PLAY, AND THIS IS THE ELEMENT I LOVE MOST ABOUT . MY SIR AND I NTUE TO LEARN OM EACH OTHER, AND OUR DYNAMIC AND RELATNSHIP NTUE TO GROW. AND WHILE EVOLUTN PUP PLAY IS NON-STOP, THE STRONG SENSE OF BELONGG REMAS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS

dogs love gays * gay men and dogs *

So are gay dog lovers somehow different om straight on? A Gay Man’s Gui to Dogs (Bow Tie Prs).

DOGS LOVE GAYS AND YOU SHOULD TOO

Is my dog gay if he humps another dog? Answerg this qutn requir unrstandg the many reasons dog hump one another - we'll expla this post! * gay men and dogs *

“Dogs wele any chance to be outdoors wh a group of half-drsed homosexuals, whether ’s for a gay pri para, a Lady Gaga ncert, or a Log Cab nventn the Ozarks,” says the charmg thor, who unts Joan Rivers and Carson Krsley among his book’s many fans. As turns out, there are a few key factors makg dogs grateful for Gay Pri Month, DePris explas.

“Here are three reasons a dog prefers to be ‘owned’ by [gay people] stead of hets: 1) The gay ‘fay’ dog ually don’t have to play send oboe to two-legged children.

Gay men are sentially jt as greedy, though we will share our toys wh men if they buy a meal first. 3) Dogs love to be the spoiled ‘kids’ of a gay uple — two and all the bbl and nylon bon that money n buy.” DePris has rted Azi, his lovely Shiba Inu, to the New Jersey Pri event Asbury Park.

NO, WHEN MALE DOGS MOUNT OTHER MAL, IT DON'T MEAN THEY'RE GAY

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“And, y, there are dozens of other dogs there, most on rabow and lavenr leash, though Azi prefers leather to dyed polyter.” What’s the, ahem, biggt difference between gay dog lovers and straight on?

“There are wonrful gay and straight dog owners out there, and there are horrible gay and straight dog owners out there, too. When a sensible, rponsible gay man — if such a creature exists — ms to a dog, the dog be his fay, his kid, and a tly important part of his world.

The dog is not a re of passage to a future wife, two kids, and a send home New England.” When breers, rcuers, or shelter-dog adoptn unselors see a potential dog owner/adopter who is gay, they tend to jump for joy, figurg that dog will enjoy a great, pampered life. “Y, gay men tend to spoil their dogs, treatg them like te fay and givg them high prry.

CAN DOGS BE GAY? WELL, Y AND NO…

A dog who ma natnal headl this month after beg abandoned by his owners for beg “gay” has been adopted by a same-sex uple. * gay men and dogs *

For lots of gay men, dogs exist as substut for lovers, children, close fay, and maybe even good iends. Secretly, most gay men want to be like dogs, even when they’re standg.” Acceptance, tolerance, unndnal love … the are thgs dogs give everybody, but gay people haven’t always been the beneficiari of such gifts om their fellow humans.

MY GAY DOG AND OTHER ANIMALS REVIEW – THIS HUMP-FILLED HOUR IS A REAL SLOG

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Are gays pecially appreciative of that ne love — more, perhaps, than someone who’s never experienced tolerance or prejudice? “Gay men have a lot to learn om dog love,” DePris says. In fact, they’d prefer you share your bone wh everyone as long as they’re not left out the ld.” But serly, he adds, “Many gay men feel a disnnect wh their own fai.

Dogs live to nnect, and the unndnal love a dog offers when he rais a paw or bs his nose his new owner’s crotch may be the first te moment of ‘fay’ a gay man experienc. Might gay people be more likely to overlook “what everybody else thks” by boldly selectg a maligned breed as a ne pann? “Who’s more keenly aware of stupidy this world than gay people?

If dogs let some gay people experience fay at s nonjudgmental bt for the first time, do dogs livg wh gay folks feel the difference, not beg objectified as “pets”?

DOG ABANDONED FOR BEG 'GAY' IS ADOPTED BY SAME-SEX UPLE

Unlike gay men, dogs are fairly discrimate about the tails of their liftyle. Is a gay man quicker to give his whole heart to a dog? “I don’t see gayns havg much to do wh how open you are to givg of your heart or yourself,” the thor says.

GAY DOGS STUCK TOGETHER

“I know plenty of gay men who wouldn’t expend the energy to water a Christmas ct, no ls re for a needy, four-legged animal.

But I thk ’s fair to say that most gay dog owners are equally, if not more, as voted to their ne panns as our straight unterparts. “Gay men — some gay men — are unaaid of exaggeratn, moved by strong emotn and passn, and tend to go a wee b over the top.

For gay men who tly live for our dogs, we give our whole hearts to everythg we love, and our dogs are on the top of the list, right above our partners, parents, and personal traers.” Illtratns om Woof! Ltle did I know that I’d one day be among them, barkg on all most creatur the gay animal kgdom, pup is probably one of the harr terms to fe.

ABANDONED ‘GAY AS HELL’ DOG FDS HOME WH GAY NORTH CAROLA UPLE

Go to gayrelatnships. So many gay men that I meet are almost married to their dog. While the pup muny is a broad church, human pups tend to be male, gay, have an tert drsg leather, wear dog-like hoods, enjoy tactile teractns like stomach bbg or ear ticklg, play wh toys, eat out of bowls and are often a relatnship wh their human “handlers” the documentary, we see Tom, AKA Spot, take part the Mr Puppy Europe petn Antwerp, a mix of bety pageant, talent show and Cfts; David, AKA Bootbsh, talk to mera a leather dog mask; two pups walk through London pretendg to wee on lampposts to raise awarens of their inty; and lots of men jumpg up for “treats”, barkg and waggg their mechanil I speak to Tom, he is keen to pot out that puppy play is about more than jt outfs and surface-level power gam: ’s about beg given licence to behave a way that feels natural, even primal.

WHAT IS WH GAY MEN AND SMALL DOGS?

” The realisatn was not whout s repercsns: led to a breakup wh his former fiancee Rachel and a move to a gay relatnship wh his new handler. The gay scene n be very ser, sry and offputtg.

“It feels like you n be gay, straight, bisexual, trans and be accepted, ” he says.

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Abandoned 'gay' dog fds home wh gay North Carola uple .

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