Many parents stggle for years to adjt after learng child is gay, acrdg to a new study om Gee Washgton Universy public health rearchers.
Contents:
- ‘MY PARENTS STILL WON’T ACCEPT THAT I’M GAY!’
- DEAR THERAPIST: MY PARENTS WON’T LET ME TELL MY BROTHER I’M GAY
- HOW N I PE WH MY FAY NOT ACCEPTG ME AS BEG GAY?
- MY MOTHER HAS NEVER ALT WH ME BEG GAY
- MANY PARENTS STGGLE TO ADJT AFTER LEARNG CHILD IS GAY, STUDY FDS
- BEG A GAY PARENT DON’T MEAN MY KIDS WILL BE GAY. BUT SO WHAT IF THEY ARE?
‘MY PARENTS STILL WON’T ACCEPT THAT I’M GAY!’
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Livg wh homophobic parents n be a paful and difficult suatn.
Whether you are gay yourself, have a close loved one or iend who is, or jt support the LGBT movement general, alg wh tolerance is tough.
If your parents have said or done homophobic thgs the past, you might try to ga an unrstandg of their viewpots and work to change them. You may have heard your parents make homophobic ments before, but maybe you don't really unrstand why they feel the way they do.
DEAR THERAPIST: MY PARENTS WON’T LET ME TELL MY BROTHER I’M GAY
In this week’s What Your Therapist Really Thks lumn, an 18-year-old wants to know what to do about his parents, who haven’t accepted that he is gay. * parents won't let me be gay *
Start a dialogue wh them about their feelgs about gay people and e active listeng skills to tly hear their si of thgs. Your parents may try to shg off when you ask "Why are you agast gay people?
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HOW N I PE WH MY FAY NOT ACCEPTG ME AS BEG GAY?
Even if your parents rema homophobic to some gree, they may soften up over time to mata a relatnship wh you.
MY MOTHER HAS NEVER ALT WH ME BEG GAY
Also, if your parents are extremely homophobic, you may need to take preutns to protect your own emotnal well-beg and ensure you will still have a home and fancial support spe their beliefs. Article SummaryXDealg wh homophobic parents n be a challenge but try to listen to their views whout argug so you n unrstand their posn.
If you’re gay yourself, make clear that you’re not askg for your parents’ permissn, sce you didn’t choose your sexualy. "I'm an openly gay teen who has stggled wh prsn and suicidal thoughts. My parents found out I was gay almost three years ago.
Your beg gay, Normal Son, chang your parents’ story, and this plot twist terrifi them precisely bee they want you to be happy. Perhaps they thk that beg gay means that you’ll face prejudice and hatred — and sadly, bee homophobic people are out there, they may be right. Maybe they thk that beg gay means you’ll get AIDS — and while sounds like you know all about safe sex, they’re right that you may be at higher risk than a straight man.
MANY PARENTS STGGLE TO ADJT AFTER LEARNG CHILD IS GAY, STUDY FDS
Maybe they also worry about thgs that have no bearg realy – that you’ll go to Hell or that somebody is “turng you” gay – but the end, they worry that your life will be harr as a gay man than as a straight one.
No matter how many tim you expla that your happs li beg who you are – a gay man – worrisome scenars swirl their mds and they bee nsumed wh anxiety about your future.
Given how misrmed they seem about what means to be gay, I’m gusg that their muny of iends will also have a reactn to their havg a gay son, and that they will be ma to feel ashamed some way. ‘My Parents Still Won’t Accept That I’m Gay! There’s more data out there, lots of , but somewhere between l like 58% of gay homels youth sexually victimized and 44% of them beg approached to engage sex to meet basic needs [5], I h my lim for lookg at leav wh the overridg qutn: Why?
BEG A GAY PARENT DON’T MEAN MY KIDS WILL BE GAY. BUT SO WHAT IF THEY ARE?
Fai who have “ltle guidance on how to support posive velopment for gay and transgenr children” [6]. He wasn’t happy that I was gay, but he didn’t reject me like she had. My sister said that our parents probably thought that my homosexualy would “b off” on him.
Mom and Dad never wanted him to know that I’m gay, but he’s 14 now, and I have his personal email addrs.
My patience has n dry, but I still hate to do this behd their I tell my ltle brother that I’m gay spe our parents’ disapproval?