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what can i do if my brother is gay

I have a gay brother and I hope this helps you figure out if your brother is gay ^_^ remember that outg people is not kd and that if your brother is gay, he will e out when he is ready!: P If you want to e this quiz for your iends and not brother, that's okay, but I n't guarantee that 'll be as accurate XD

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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU LEARN A BROTHER/SISTER IS GAY

I don't mean your actual brother, I mean your bt iend. If somethg is odd about your bro, like him actg spic around other boys - or somethg else that jt seems odd - take this quiz to fd out if he might be gay. * what can i do if my brother is gay *

If you jt have a feelg that your brother is gay, that's okay. If you thk your brother is gay bee he watch a "girly" TV show or his voice sounds a certa way, that's relyg on stereotyp. If you live a particularly homophobic or transphobic area, discs safety plans wh the fay member se of vlence om others.

IS MY BROTHER GAY? QUIZ (BOYS ONLY)

* what can i do if my brother is gay *

If your fay member has e out as gay or bisexual, accept that they will end up seeg someone of their own genr, and that's perfectly okay. Don't be aaid to rearch beg gay, bisexual, transgenr, asexual, or whatever your fay member me out as. I thk he might be gay.

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HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN SHY AND SLIGHTLY SOCIALLY AWKWARD, BUT LATELY HAS GOTTEN MUCH WORSE. HE HAS DROPPED ALL OF HIS HOBBI AND NOW PLAYS VIO GAM EVERY CHANCE HE GETS. BEE OF THIS HE DOSEN'T HAVE VERY MANY IENDS AND HAS GAED A NSIRABLE AMOUNT OF WEIGHT. I AM WORRIED THAT HE WONT GROW OUT OF THIS PHASE ANYTIME SOON IF AT ALL. I STARTED WONRG IF HE HAD ANY IENDS SO ONE DAY I LOOKED THROUGH HIS TEXT MSAG ON HIS IPHONE. HE ONLY HAD LIKE SIX NTANCTS CLUDG ME AND OUR PARENTS. I FOUND A KID HIS AGE OM SCHOOL WHO HE WAS TALKG TOO AND SHOCKED ME. MY LTLE BROTHER WAS TRYG TO NVCE THE KID TO "SEXT" HIM AND THE KID KEPT RPONDG "NO THATS GAY LOL". HE THEN LATER SENT THE KID A LK TO A PORN SE. IS MY LTLE BROTHER ACTUALLY GAY? ULD THAT BE THE REASON HE IS BEG SO DISNNECTED OM THE RT OF OUR FAY? ULD JT BE A PHASE? 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If you saw your brother kissg another guy and he said he is not attracted to women, y, he is gay. How do I tell if a child is gay?

They might have a lack of tert the oppose sex if they’re homosexual or asexual. As a rult, many aterny brothers and sorory sisters more than likely have never knowgly enuntered someone who is gay, lbian, or bisexual and/or may not know what to do when they learn a brother/sister is gay.

Such lack of knowledge and preparatn perpetuat the ignorance and fear surroundg homosexualy and jeopardiz brotherhood/sisterhood for both gay and straight aterny brothers and sorory sisters.

HIS BROTHER IS GAY; WHAT ARE HIS RPONSIBILI TOWARDS HIM?

This list provis some suggted ias to keep md when a aterny brother or sorory sister learns that another brother/sister is gay, some remendatns on what you need to do when you learn that a Brother/Sister is Gay. Rpect his/her choice to tell you by lettg him/her know you will not tell anyone he/she is gay.

IS YOUR BROTHER GAY?

How long have you known that you were gay? Do other brothers/sisters or iends know that you are gay? A aterny brother/sorory sister is spected or perceived to be gay….

Remember that your brother/sister may be gay, but he/she may not be ready to acknowledge this to himself/herself or others.

Be supportive of your brother/sister, possibly brg up gay topics to munite that you would be a person wh whom he/she n talk.

HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY

Unrstand that your brother/sister may not be gay.

Your Brother/Sister may need support to al wh shameful feelgs that someone the fay is gay.

DEAR THERAPIST: MY PARENTS WON’T LET ME TELL MY BROTHER I’M GAY

They will also need assistance nouncg and bullyg their peers when others fd out that they have a gay or lbian siblg. As a siblg, here’s a list of what NOT to do when you already know you have a gay brother/sister:. Do not be aaid to ask qutns about beg gay and/or about his/her g out procs.

ARE YOUNGER BROTHERS MORE LIKELY TO BE GAY?

Accept her as beg gay. Do not be ashamed or fail to fend a brother/sister who is gay if, otherwise, he/she is a good sister.

*BEAR-MAGAZINE.COM* WHAT CAN I DO IF MY BROTHER IS GAY

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