What to Do When You Learn a Brother/Sister is Gay

what can i do if my brother is gay

There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly...

Contents:

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU LEARN A BROTHER/SISTER IS GAY

I don't mean your actual brother, I mean your bt iend. If somethg is odd about your bro, like him actg spic around other boys - or somethg else that jt seems odd - take this quiz to fd out if he might be gay. * what can i do if my brother is gay *

If you jt have a feelg that your brother is gay, that's okay. If you thk your brother is gay bee he watch a "girly" TV show or his voice sounds a certa way, that's relyg on stereotyp. If you live a particularly homophobic or transphobic area, discs safety plans wh the fay member se of vlence om others.

If your fay member has e out as gay or bisexual, accept that they will end up seeg someone of their own genr, and that's perfectly okay.

Don't be aaid to rearch beg gay, bisexual, transgenr, asexual, or whatever your fay member me out as. I thk he might be gay.

IS MY BROTHER GAY? QUIZ (BOYS ONLY)

I have a gay brother and I hope this helps you figure out if your brother is gay ^_^ remember that outg people is not kd and that if your brother is gay, he will e out when he is ready!: P If you want to e this quiz for your iends and not brother, that's okay, but I n't guarantee that 'll be as accurate XD * what can i do if my brother is gay *

If you saw your brother kissg another guy and he said he is not attracted to women, y, he is gay.

How do I tell if a child is gay? They might have a lack of tert the oppose sex if they’re homosexual or asexual. As a rult, many aterny brothers and sorory sisters more than likely have never knowgly enuntered someone who is gay, lbian, or bisexual and/or may not know what to do when they learn a brother/sister is gay.

Such lack of knowledge and preparatn perpetuat the ignorance and fear surroundg homosexualy and jeopardiz brotherhood/sisterhood for both gay and straight aterny brothers and sorory sisters. This list provis some suggted ias to keep md when a aterny brother or sorory sister learns that another brother/sister is gay, some remendatns on what you need to do when you learn that a Brother/Sister is Gay.

WHAT SHOULD I DO IF MY BROTHER IS GAY?{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}LIFEBY MATTHEW THARRETTMAY 1, 2015/12:11 PMBY MATTHEW THARRETTMAY 1, 2015 / 12:11 PM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"WHAT SHOULD I DO IF MY BROTHER IS GAY?","DATEPUBLISHED":"2015-05-01T16:11:21.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2015-05-01T16:11:21.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"MATTHEW THARRETT","ARTICLESECTN":"LIFE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THIS WEEK'S REDD GEM OM AN ANONYMO 17-YEAR-OLD BOY, WHO DISVERED HIS 12-YEAR-OLD BROTHER MAY BE GAY AFTER RIFLG THROUGH HIS IPHONE WHOUT PERMISSN:{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IM 17 AND MY LTLE BROTHER IS 12YRS OLD AND IS CURRENTLY MIDDLE SCHOOL. HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN SHY AND SLIGHTLY SOCIALLY AWKWARD, BUT LATELY HAS GOTTEN MUCH WORSE. HE HAS DROPPED ALL OF HIS HOBBI AND NOW PLAYS VIO GAM EVERY CHANCE HE GETS. BEE OF THIS HE DOSEN'T HAVE VERY MANY IENDS AND HAS GAED A NSIRABLE AMOUNT OF WEIGHT. I AM WORRIED THAT HE WONT GROW OUT OF THIS PHASE ANYTIME SOON IF AT ALL. I STARTED WONRG IF HE HAD ANY IENDS SO ONE DAY I LOOKED THROUGH HIS TEXT MSAG ON HIS IPHONE. HE ONLY HAD LIKE SIX NTANCTS CLUDG ME AND OUR PARENTS. I FOUND A KID HIS AGE OM SCHOOL WHO HE WAS TALKG TOO AND SHOCKED ME. MY LTLE BROTHER WAS TRYG TO NVCE THE KID TO "SEXT" HIM AND THE KID KEPT RPONDG "NO THATS GAY LOL". HE THEN LATER SENT THE KID A LK TO A PORN SE. IS MY LTLE BROTHER ACTUALLY GAY? ULD THAT BE THE REASON HE IS BEG SO DISNNECTED OM THE RT OF OUR FAY? ULD JT BE A PHASE? AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, SHOULD I TALK TO HIM ABOUT ?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THE 17-YEAR-OLD, WHO POSTED HIS THOUGHTS WH A TEMPORARY THROWAWAY ACUNT APRIL, SCRIB HIS YOUNGER BROTHER EXHIBG ALL THE CLASSIC SYMPTOMS OF PRSN (WHDRAWG OM SOCIAL SETTGS, DROPPG IENDS, LOSG TERT HOBBI).{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}RELATED: GAY KIDS WHO COME OUT AT SCHOOL ARE HAPPIER, STUDY {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}OVERLOOKG THE, HE THEN ASSUM WHAT'S 'WRONG' WH HIS BROTHER IS NOT PRSN, 'S THAT HE MT BE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}"COULD BE A PHASE?" HE ASKS. "SHOULD I TALK TO HIM ABOUT ?"{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}A SANE MENTER RPONDS:{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IF HE IS GAY AND PRSED THIS IS PROBABLY A REALLY DIFFICULT TIME FOR HIM AND IF YOU WERE TO SAY ANYTHG TO HIM SHOULD BE 100% SUPPORTIVE AND NON-NONTATNAL, ALG WH THE ISSU AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE IS STRSFUL ENOUGH. SCE YOU'RE POSTG HERE I ASSUME YOU ONLY WANT THE BT FOR HIM, SO MY ADVICE IS TO JT BE THERE FOR HIM AND KEEP AN EYE ON {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS

Rpect his/her choice to tell you by lettg him/her know you will not tell anyone he/she is gay. How long have you known that you were gay?

Do other brothers/sisters or iends know that you are gay?

A aterny brother/sorory sister is spected or perceived to be gay…. Remember that your brother/sister may be gay, but he/she may not be ready to acknowledge this to himself/herself or others. Be supportive of your brother/sister, possibly brg up gay topics to munite that you would be a person wh whom he/she n talk.

HIS BROTHER IS GAY; WHAT ARE HIS RPONSIBILI TOWARDS HIM?

Unrstand that your brother/sister may not be gay. Your Brother/Sister may need support to al wh shameful feelgs that someone the fay is gay.

IS YOUR BROTHER GAY?

They will also need assistance nouncg and bullyg their peers when others fd out that they have a gay or lbian siblg. As a siblg, here’s a list of what NOT to do when you already know you have a gay brother/sister:.

Do not be aaid to ask qutns about beg gay and/or about his/her g out procs. Accept her as beg gay. Do not be ashamed or fail to fend a brother/sister who is gay if, otherwise, he/she is a good sister.

HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY

Do not be aaid to e the word gay/lbian or bisexual, and do not ignore him/her when he/she brgs up gay topics. Do not try to rtrict the brother’s/sister’s eedom to share beg gay and/or to be a public role mol.

Lead by example, and remember that there are gay men/women every hoe. Do not kick your brother/sister out of the aterny/sorory for beg gay. Do not be aaid to approach a gay brother/sister if you thk his/her actns are appropriate.

DEAR THERAPIST: MY PARENTS WON’T LET ME TELL MY BROTHER I’M GAY

Hold a gay brother/sister to the same standards as all brothers/sisters. Revised om Out on Fraterny Row: Personal Acunts of Beg Gay a College Fraterny, eded by Shane L.

If somethg is odd about your bro, like him actg spic around other boys - or somethg else that jt seems odd - take this quiz to fd out if he might be gay. ya she gay i been cshg on her for a long time im gog to ask her out. Yeah my bro is gay 100%.

omg he is gay?

ARE YOUNGER BROTHERS MORE LIKELY TO BE GAY?

my bro is really gay. Omg I'm a girl and I'm only 11 and my bro is 9 I thk he is gay and why would he watch gay ?OR?? Ya he’s gay af.

*BEAR-MAGAZINE.COM* WHAT CAN I DO IF MY BROTHER IS GAY

His brother is gay; what are his rponsibili towards him? - Islam Qutn & Answer .

TOP