Acceptg yourself for who you are, regardls of your sexual orientatn, isn't easy for everyone. Acceptg yourself as a gay or lbian is an even more difficult task. Here are some suggtns for acceptg onelf as an LGBTQ+ person....
Contents:
- I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
- CAN PEOPLE STOP BEG GAY?
- HOW TO HANDLE BEG GAY OR LBIAN
- THE 12-STEP PROGRAM TO STOP BEG GAY
- HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
Homosexualy is not a choice the sense of beg easily reversed. However, rearch on sexual fluidy suggts some gay people n adjt to heterosexual liftyl. * how to stop being gay book *
You don’t need to be certa you are gay before talkg to someone or attendg an LGBTQ+ meetg.
It is very homogeneo/ hetero-normative and beg a tholic stutn is not the easit environment for queer stunts.
Disregardg all evince that the ex-gay movement is credibly damagg to more than 90% of those who unrgo "treatment" (bee they clearly jt didn't believe God enough), Settg Captiv Free wants you to know that you were not "born this way. " Homosexualy is a s that you need to purge om your system, and the only way to do is to follow their three-parts-a-day the app is only downloadable om Google Play (iTun and the 69, 822+ people who petned them don't believe nversn therapy for some reason), there is an abridged versn available on the mistry’s webse.
CAN PEOPLE STOP BEG GAY?
There is hope for those who don't want to be gay. Bee homosexualy is a rponse to beg wound, there is hope for healg. Probe's Sue Bohl exam paths to te change om a passnate Christian perspective. * how to stop being gay book *
But Hont About Your S (But Not TOO Hont): Adm that you have homosexual tennci, but don’t say anythg else about . Stop Callg Your Homosexualy an "Alternative Liftyle": It's "Wicked, " "Evil, " and a "S": The are the only thgs you should ever ll om now on, preferably hhed ton.
Even better, feel ee to refer to your homosexualy wh water-based metaphors: It's a "broken cistern" that will never satisfy your thirst. Change For the Right Reasons (the Glory Of God): After all, homosexualy is nothg but "lt, porn, and sexual immoraly, " ss that are applible only to gay people and never to straight on. Always Read Scripture, But Only the Parts We Tell You to: Who knew curg homosexualy uld be so much like dog high school homework?
HOW TO HANDLE BEG GAY OR LBIAN
Remove Yourself From Anythg Even Remotely Gay: Don't watch porn (aga, 's only a gay thg), don't go on gay webs, and most of all, certaly don't associate wh gay people. Any of those thgs might make you feel like your homosexualy is a natural part of your inty and n be accepted by those around you. Realize That Beg Homosexual Mak You Feel Alone Fet that we told you to shut yourself away om most of the world, and ignore the ia that maybe gay people feel so alone bee of the discrimatory and hateful attus that they face, helped by people like .
Rencile Wh Those Who Tried to Help You Stop Beg Gay: All those people who lled you "faggot" and told you that you were gog to Hell? If you tly believe God and want to change your sful ways, God will remove all homosexual urg om your md.
But if at the end of this 60-day therapy, you still have homosexual tennci, then you didn't really believe and you didn't really want to change. Relig fundamentalists who believe homosexualy is a matter of choice nsir obv that gay people n reverse their cisns. The oppose mp argu that gays are "born that way, " and th that sexual reorientatn therapy is effective, as well as cel and the latter perspective hs closer to the mark, the science of sexualy supports a more measured stance.
THE 12-STEP PROGRAM TO STOP BEG GAY
There are no verified s of formerly gay people pletely riddg themselv of same-sex attractn, but do appear possible for some people who are predisposed to same-sex attractn to expand their sexual repertoire — velop attractns for oppose-sex partners as well, and even opt for the oppose sex exclively.
As Diamond noted January the Archiv of Sexual Behavr, femal' sexual fluidy may emerge om the fdg that, across the board, they are sexually aroed by imag of both men and women (whereas men are typilly aroed only by members of their preferred sex) erotic plasticy may expla why women wh same-sex predisposns report better succs adjtg to heterosexual liftyl than gay men do.
"Lastly, gay people aren't really "born that way" the sense of havg same-sex attractns om the moment of birth.
HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
Sexual orientatn cements around puberty, and acrdg to Gelf Rieger, a sexual orientatn rearcher at Cornell Universy, " is que possible that there are several fluenc on formg a homosexual orientatn. But nsirg that very few scientists view homosexualy as a problem needg fixg, will the clil reorientatn therapi ever be veloped?
From a Christian perspective, Sue prents some proven paths to revery om homosexual thoughts and practice. He put down his Gay Pri sign, left the para, sat down a nearby stairwell, and repented of his rebelln. When he told his mother he was gay, she threw him out of the hoe, and the only place he uld fd belongg, safety, and inty was the gay muny.
Pl was ved to a Bible study where he met a man who had left the gay liftyle and was livg a changed life. Two months later, he was led to an anizatn that helps people al wh unwanted homosexualy through an timate relatnship wh J Christ. He left his homosexual inty behd and embraced his te inty as a child of God, mted to hols and pury.