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GAY DATG TACTICS: YOUR FIRST DATE DO'S & DON'TS

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THE GAY MAN'S GUI TO DATG AFTER 50

Right, gay datg isn't easy.

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FIRST GAY DATE: 3 WAYS TO LAND A SEND

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I n thk of somethg far worse than beg sgle, gay and olr. Beg upled, gay and unhappy. Brian Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach.

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