What means to ‘sound gay’ - The Washgton Post

Contents:

• THE GAY VOICE
• WHY DO *SOME* GAY GUYS SPEAK DIFFERENTLY?
• WHY DO SOME GAY PEOPLE SEEM TO TALK DIFFERENTLY?
• WHY DO GAY MEN TALK SO FUNNY?
• WHY DO GAY PEOPLE TALK DIFFERENTLY?
• GAY STEREOTYP: ARE THEY TE?
• WHAT'S THE LK BETWEEN HOMOSEXUALY AND HAVG A 'GAY VOICE'
• GAY PEOPLE LOOK DIFFERENT, WALK DIFFERENT THAN STRAIGHT PEOPLE
• GAY OR STRAIGHT? HIS SPEECH MAY GIVE A HT
• WHAT MEANS TO ‘SOUND GAY’
• WHY DO GAY MEN WALK SO FAST?

THE GAY VOICE

After intifyg phoic characteristics that seem to make a man’s voice sound gay, their bt hunch is that some gay men may subnscly adopt certa female speech patterns. They want to know how men acquire this manner of speakg, and why – pecially when society so often stigmatiz those wh gay-soundg voic. Rogers and Smyth are also explorg the stereotyp that gay men sound effemate and are regnized by the way they speak.

The straightt-soundg voice the study was fact a gay man, and the sixth gayt-soundg voice was a straight man.

WHY DO *SOME* GAY GUYS SPEAK DIFFERENTLY?

The way that male gays talk don't even really bother me unls 's overtly flamboyant, I fd myself sensive to loud talkg no matter who is.

3) Gay men are no different than straight men, except that they want to have sex wh men stead of women. Some straight men behave very effemate ways, I had a iend my high school years who other people were always askg me, is he gay? So straight, gay, bi or purple, he will feel the prsur of our society breathg down his neck and expectg him to 'be a man', he will munite for the most part, like any other man and al wh thgs much the same way.

My pot is a man is a man, a woman is a woman, some are gay, some are bi and some are straight and beyond that all differenc are dividual, based on personal experience and emotnal history. Why do gays get so sensive easily and talk like a female or try to act as one terms of appearance and behavr?

WHY DO SOME GAY PEOPLE SEEM TO TALK DIFFERENTLY?

I hope this don't e off as offensive but I'm jt cur: Is jt me or do some gays, some guy men specifilly, seem to have a distct accent? In my time as an active member my school's GSA I've noticed that some of the gay mal talked differently. This is what I was thkg sce was always the on that were the most "open" or "enthiastic" about beg homosexual that had .

WHY DO GAY MEN TALK SO FUNNY?

Frankly, I thk the reason certa people general, not jt homosexuals, speak like that is some sort of attempt to sound eher feme, dramatic, or they're jt actg slightly stupid, pretent, and "snooty".

WHY DO GAY PEOPLE TALK DIFFERENTLY?

If I had said I was homosexual myself I'm 100% sure this would have turned out differently and I n guarantee you some homosexuals would agree that there is a difference accent amongst some members gay society. One gay that i know kda talks like a girl, but thats 'e he hangs around wh a lot of girls and don't re about beg "gay", he only do this when talkg excedly other gays/bis i know talk normally. It's ually a lisp or jt an overtly feme tone, but 's still (ually) very easy for me to intify if someone's gay jt by listeng to them speak.

Or uld be that feme gays gravate towards havg female iends which uld affect their accent slightly, the same way someone adopts an accent om livg a certa culture at a young age.

Many gays embrace a more feme self-image, so they e their voice a more feme way, drs differently, etc.

GAY STEREOTYP: ARE THEY TE?

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WHAT'S THE LK BETWEEN HOMOSEXUALY AND HAVG A 'GAY VOICE'

And the wrers of the show "Will and Grace" ma their ma gay character, Will Tman, a high-powered the stereotyp do persist.

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GAY PEOPLE LOOK DIFFERENT, WALK DIFFERENT THAN STRAIGHT PEOPLE

You n tell far better than chance who's a gay man om jt listeng to him say four sentenc, " Bailey Bailey's help, "20/20" ran a tt 2004 to see if people uld tell who was gay and who was straight. The man who most people thought was straight was actually people do thk that gay men are more promiscuo than straight men, and fact, Bailey said, gay men do have more sex partners.

GAY OR STRAIGHT? HIS SPEECH MAY GIVE A HT

"I thk that the typil straight man would have as many sex partners as the typil gay man if he uld, " Bailey, we asked Bailey, isn't stereotypg harmful? Stay ahead of the trend fashn and beyond wh our ee weekly Liftyle Ed newsletterStay ahead of the trend fashn and beyond wh our ee weekly Liftyle Ed newsletter After a particularly bad break-up, David Thorpe, a journalist who’s his forti, cid to take his md off thgs by leavg his ts his Manhattan apartment and drowng his sorrows at a gay beach town on Fire Island. “I knew then that I had to get to the bottom of that feelg and to the importance of the voice as part of gay inty.

”It was the start of a four-year journey of self-disvery durg which Thorpe tried to figure out his so-lled “gay voice”: when did he start talkg that way, what ed , how exactly did sound, and, fally, what was so wrong wh anyway? The rults n be seen his new documentary, Do I Sound Gay?, which featur terviews wh lguists, amics, fay and iends, as well as a number of high-profile personali, cludg David Sedaris and Dan Savage.

WHAT MEANS TO ‘SOUND GAY’

Another expert that he terviews for the film is a Canadian lguist who studi vol microvariatns between gay and straight men and speculat that many gay men more readily pick up speech s om women.

Intertgly, a straight iend of Thorpe’s has what is nsired to be an archetypal “gay voice” and turns that out he was raised entirely by women at an ashram.

When he was younger, Thorpe not, the only “gay voic” on televisn were those belongg to figur such as Liberace and Charl Nelson Reilly, the host of The Match Game. He also wonrs if Disney villas such as Aladd’s Jafar and The Ln Kg’s Sr, wh their soft, threateng voic, have ma young people associate soundg gay wh beg evil. It pleas him to hear so many more “gay voic” reprented today, pecially young vloggers such as Lohanthony and Tyler Oakley.

WHY DO GAY MEN WALK SO FAST?

“Growg up, I was always told that what was wrong wh me was that I was gay, so ’s not hard to unrstand that a moment of vulnerabily I might also feel secure about my sexualy.

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