Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- DO HE LIKE YOU? (FOR GAY OR BI BOYS)
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- WHETHER YOU ARE GAY OR STRAIGHT, SIGNS A GUY LIK YOU BUT IS TOO SHY TO TELL YOU
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GAY FRIEND HAS A CSH ON YOU - HOW TO REACT
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
HOW TO KNOW IF A GAY FRIEND LIK YOU (FOR MEN)
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Sexualy is highly plex and sensive, and there are a lot of accurate stereotyp out there that don't tly... * how to know if a guy is gay and likes you *
However, don't jt straight up go up to him and say: "Are you gay? How do you know if you’re gay?
If you fd out he is gay, or are really sure he is, jt ask him. If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Keep readg for a thorough list of potential signs that your boyiend might be gay.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * how to know if a guy is gay and likes you *
There are many reasons why someone might act this way, so this by self is not a surefire sign that he’s gay.
If you believe your boyiend lov and r for you but he "seems to be gay, " keep md that he uld be bisexual, pansexual, or terted men. There are several inti which someone n be terted more than one genr, so don't thk he's "jt gay". If you stumble upon evince of gay porn on his puter or phone, though, that may be a ltle different.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
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You fd pop-ups of gay porn on your/his puter or stored vio fil.
DO HE LIKE YOU? (FOR GAY OR BI BOYS)
How to tell if your gay iend has a csh on you are subtle ways to notice the signs that your gay iend wants you to romantilly get closer to him. * how to know if a guy is gay and likes you *
He aggrsively ni searchg for or watchg gay scen. If he’s gay, he might thrive on other men’s attentn, equently touch or hug them, or exchange flirty ments wh them (pecially about their physil appearance).
He may surround himself wh gay panns to fill an unrequed need. Notice if he equently hangs out wh his gay iends, or jos them on nights out at LGBTQ+ bars and clubs. They thk, “If I act like I don’t like gay men, no one will thk I am one.
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
” Notice if he acts unfortable around gay men, regularly mak homophobic ments or jok, or liberately never talks about anythg remotely gay. This is often referred to as ternalized homophobia. If his relativ are highly anti-gay, he may not feel safe or wele to e out to them.
WHETHER YOU ARE GAY OR STRAIGHT, SIGNS A GUY LIK YOU BUT IS TOO SHY TO TELL YOU
He might also be wrtlg wh ternalized homophobia or self-loathg bee of the nflict between his inty and his upbrgg. This is the biggt sign your boyiend may be gay.
A prev gay relatnship or enunter n be a major ditor. An enunter his teen or llege years is more likely to mean he’s gay or queer than an experience later life, which uld have more plex explanatns. Remember, sexualy is highly plex and clus more than jt gay and straight.
Don’t rely on gay stereotyp like an effemate voice or walk, flashy or tight clothg, his TV and mic preferenc, or beg a neat eak to terme your boyiend’s sexualy. There are many gay men that exhib none of the tras, as well as many straight men that do.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GAY FRIEND HAS A CSH ON YOU - HOW TO REACT
You did not e your boyiend to be gay or to engage secretive behavr.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
"I didn't know if my boyiend was gay (I am also a guy). There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted.
For example, his fay may be vlently homophobic and by cidg that he's gay, you may out him by accint by treatg him different or implyg somethg whout meang to.