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• GAYLE PERRY @GAYLTYLE PERSONAL AND HOME STYLIST ADVIS WOMEN TO LOOK YOUR BT A STYLISH HOME
• THE WIV CLUBBEG MARRIED TO A PLASTIC SURGEON ISN’T ALL EE NIPS AND TUCKS. EXPLORE A WORLD WHERE IMPERFECTN ISN’T AN OPTNWRTEN BY JUDH NEWMAN (FUNCTN() { GOOGLETAG.DISPLAY('DIV-GPT-AD-1453841951663-0'); }); “MY HBAND IS ABOUT TO HAVE THE PERFECT WIFE,” SAYS MUFFIE POTTER ASTON CHEERFULLY. OOH. WHAT DO THAT MEAN? SCE POTTER ASTON, A DOYENNE OF THE NEW YORK SOCIAL CIRCU, IS ALSO MARRIED TO SHERRELL ASTON, ONE OF THE LEADG PLASTIC SURGEONS THE UNTRY, NATURALLY MY THOUGHTS TURN ONE DIRECTN. IS SHE GETTG SCULPTED ABS? THE NEW PERT BREASTS OF A 16-YEAR-OLD? POTTER ASTON LGHS. “NO, NO, I’M HAVG VOL-RD SURGERY,” SHE SAYS. “I WON’T BE ABLE TO TALK FOR A WEEK. SHERRELL WILL BE A VERY HAPPY MAN.”POTTER ASTON IS MAKG A WEE JOKE, OF URSE, BUT HER SLY HUMOR RAIS A QUTN THAT’S OCCURRED TO MANY WHO LIVE THIS BETY-OBSSED CULTURE: WHAT’S LIKE TO BE THE WIFE OF A PROMENT PLASTIC SURGEON? I’VE WRTEN ABOUT THIS MEDIL SPECIALTY FOR YEARS, ATTEND DOZENS OF NFERENC, AND EVERY TIME I’M AT A GATHERG OF THE GUYS (AND THEY’RE OVERWHELMGLY GUYS), I’M REMD OF L OM T.S. ELT’S THE LOVE SONG OF J. ALED POCK: “IN THE ROOM THE WOMEN E AND GO/ TALKG OF MICHELANGELO.” THE SPO ARE, A SENSE, MARRIED TO THE MICHELANGELOS—AND THEY ARE OFTEN THEIR HBAND’S WORKS OF ART. LOOK AT THE WIFE AND YOU SEE THE ATHETIC OF THE HBAND. I ULD NEVER SAY THAT ABOUT ANY OTHER MEDIL SPECIALTY. GENERALLY, DOCTORS OTHER AREAS DON’T OPERATE ON FAY MEMBERS, LET ALONE THEIR MAT. BUT PLASTIC SURGEONS? THERE IS NOT A WOMAN I’VE TALKED TO WHO WOULDN’T GO TO HER SPOE FOR REJUVENATN AND MODIFITN. RECENTLY POTTER ASTON, A FIFTYSOMETHG WHOSE OL HCHCK-BLON LOOKS BELIE A WARM AND WTY MEANOR, HAD A FACE-LIFT URTY OF HER HBAND. WHEN I MENTN THE SOMEWHAT DISTURBG THOUGHT OF A HBAND PEELG OFF HIS BELOVED’S FACE AND SEWG BACK ON, SHE WAV OFF. “I NEVER GAVE A SEND THOUGHT,” SHE SAYS. “I’VE SEEN HIS WORK. I’VE SEEN HIM AT WORK. I KNOW HE’S A PERFECTNIST. WHY WOULD I GO ELSEWHERE?”FIRST, THERE’S A SENSE OF OBLIGATN FELT TO BE A TEAM PLAYER. LISA HOCHSTE IS THE NEWT (AND AT 30, THE YOUNGT, SHE’S QUICK TO TELL ME) OF THE REAL HOEWIV OF MIAMI; HER HBAND IS PLASTIC SURGEON LENNY HOCHSTE, KNOWN AROUND TOWN AS THE BOOB GOD. LISA HAS HAD HER HBAND DO HER BREAST IMPLANTS. (HER NOSE IS URTY OF ANOTHER SURGEON SHE’D GONE TO BEFORE DATG LENNY.) SHE SAYS SHE HASN’T HAD ANY OTHER WORK BUT IS PRETTY SURE THERE WILL BE MORE HER FUTURE: “THERE IS NO SHAME. EVERYONE ON THE SHOW HAS SOMEONE OR SOMETHG THEY ARE PROMOTG, AND BY LOOKG LIKE THIS, I PROMOTE MY HBAND’S BS.”THERE IS ALSO, SIMPLY, A SENSE OF PLEASURE AND PRI HAVG THE BIG MACHER DOC THAT GO BEYOND BEG A LOYAL WIFE. AS POTTER ASTON PUTS , “THERE’S SOMETHG ABOUT BEG MARRIED TO A MAN WHO N AFFECT ONE’S BETY AND TURN BACK THE HANDS OF TIME.”BUT HERE’S AN PABLE THOUGHT: CONSIR BEG BED WH A PLASTIC SURGEON. IS THAT NOT TERRIFYG? THEY SPEND ALL THEIR TIME LOOKG AT WOMEN AS FIXER-UPPERS. HOW THE HELL DO THEY TURN THAT OFF AT THE END OF THE DAY? CAN THEIR CLIL SELV, WHOSE RPONSE TO JIGGLG THIGHS THEIR OFFICE VOLV A SUCTN MACHE AND A NNULA, WALK TO THEIR HO AND SEE IMPERFECTNS AS ENARG AND NOT PROBLEMS THAT MAND AN SOS?APPARENTLY, SIST THEIR WIV, THEY DO. “ALAN’S NOT CRIL AT ALL. HE LOOKS AT ME THE SAME WAY AS HE DID WHEN HE MET ME,” SAYS MELISSA MATARASSO, 56, WHO 27 YEARS AGO MET HBAND ALAN MATARASSO, THE UPPER EAST SI PLASTIC SURGEON MORED TO BE THE MAN BEHD THE FAC OF EVERYONE OM DIANE SAWYER TO KATHLEEN TURNER.“I’M FAR MORE CRIL OF MYSELF THAN HE EVER IS,” ADDS GAYLE SOBEL (AN EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF SAL AT DUJOUR), 41, WHOSE HBAND, RMATOLOGIC SURGEON HOWARD SOBEL, UNTS KATIE COURIC AMONG HIS CLIENTS AND WAS ONCE LLED THE KG OF LIPO BY W MAGAZE. THEY MET WHEN GAYLE WAS HIS PATIENT ABOUT 20 YEARS AGO AND 10 YEARS LATER, WHEN BOTH WERE SGLE, STARTED TO DATE. BY THE NATURE OF THAT SUATN, SHE THOUGHT SHE MIGHT BE HIS LIFELONG PROJECT. “I THOUGHT HE WOULD BE LIKE, ‘OK, WE’LL START OVER HERE AND WORK OUR WAY UP.…’ AND WHO KNOWS? MAYBE WHEN I GET OLR HE’LL BE TELLG ME, ‘YOU NEED TIGHTENG.’ ” BUT NOW, SHE SAYS, THE VERY OPPOSE IS TE. “HOWARD STOPS ME OM GETTG STUFF DONE ALL THE TIME,” SOBEL SAYS. “I’LL ASK, ‘SHOULD I FILL THE L?’ ” SHE POTS AT HER FOREHEAD. “HE’LL BE LIKE, ‘GAYLE.’ OR I’LL THK SOMEONE WHO’S JT HAD A LIP FILLER LOOKS GOOD, AND HE’LL TELL ME, ‘THAT’S A LTLE TOO BLOWFISH.’ HE PREFERS A MUCH MORE NATURAL LOOK.”SURELY THERE HAD TO BE SOME APPROVAL-SEEKG AND NCERN? “I DID WORRY THAT HE’D BE CRIL,” ADMS HOCHSTE ABOUT HER HBAND. “HE’S SEEN MORE BREASTS THAN ANY MAN THIS WORLD. I HOPED HE APPROVED OF MY BREASTS, BUT I GOT OVER THAT QUICKLY.” WELL…SORT OF. LISA HOCHSTE HAD UNRGONE A BAD BREAST JOB PRR TO DATG LENNY. “THEY LOOKED AWKWARD—TOO CLOSE TOGETHER, SAT LOW. I HAD TO HAVE HIM REDO THEM. I DIDN’T WANT TO WALK AROUND AND HAVE PEOPLE THK THIS WAS MY HBAND’S WORK.”FROM LEFT: GAYLE SOBEL WEARS AN ETRO DRS, HER OWN NECKLACE, A CARTIER BRACELET AND SERG ROSSI SHO. LRA TISCH BROUMAND WEARS A TOP, HER OWN PANTS, A ROLEX WATCH AND CHRISTIAN LOUBOUT SHO. MELISSA MATARASSO WEARS A TRA TURK TOP, A CLUB MONA SKIRT AND HER OWN JEWELRY AND SHO. HAIR AND MAKP FOR GAYLE SOBEL: VALERY JOSEPH SALON. PHOTOGRAPHED BY ALEX JOHN BECK.YET THE WIV FEEL MY SKEPTICISM IS MISPLACED. BEG OBSERVANT ISN’T THE SAME AS BEG CRIL, THE WOMEN EXPLA. POTTER ASTON RELLS GOG ON A DATE WH SHERRELL MORE THAN 20 YEARS AGO. WHEN HE TOLD HER SHE WAS PRETTY AND SHE MURRED WH “OH, YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT LOR MY EY ARE,” ASTON REPLIED, “THEY’RE BRIGHT BLUE, AND YOUR LEFT EYE IS SLIGHTLY SMALLER THAN YOUR RIGHT EYE.” “AND I RAN TO THE MIRROR AND HE WAS RIGHT!” SHE SAYS. AS SOMEONE WHO HAS ALWAYS UNTED BAD EYIGHT AS A HUGE BON A MATE, I FOUND THIS STORY EPLY ALARMG. POTTER ASTON, WHOSE OWN FATHER WAS A SURGEON, WAS IMPRSED.“I WAS OLR WHEN WE MET, ALREADY MY THIRTI, AND HAD TWO CHILDREN,” ADDS LRA TISCH BROUMAND, WIFE OF NEW YORK–BASED PLASTIC SURGEON STAFFORD BROUMAND. “I FELY FELT HE WAS ATTRACTED TO ME FOR ME. I DIDN’T FEEL HE WAS LOOKG AT MY FLAWS. I ACTUALLY DON’T FEEL HE’S LOOKG AT ANYONE’S FLAWS. HE ALWAYS FEELS HE’S LOOKG TO ENHANCE WHAT’S THERE.”ARE THE WOMEN SUPREMELY SELF-NFINT, LNAL OR BOTH? HARD TO SAY. A MEDSPE PHYSICIAN LIFTYLE REPORT SURVEYED ALMOST 30,000 DOCTORS 25 DIFFERENT SPECIALTI, ASKG THEM TO RATE THEIR LIV ON A SLE OF ONE TO SEVEN. PLASTIC SURGEONS, TURNS OUT, ARE LS HAPPY THAN THE AVERAGE PHYSICIAN (SEVENTH OM THE BOTTOM ON THE SPECIALTY LIST) AND HAVE A HIGHER DIVORCE RATE THAN MOST OTHER SPECIALTI. (PSYCHIATRISTS HAVE AN EVEN HIGHER RATE.)THIS MAK SENSE; AFTER ALL, THE MEN HAVE A LOT OF OPPORTUNY TO SCREW UP THEIR MARRIAG. CONSIR THE AMOUNT OF ADMIRATN-BORRG-ON-WORSHIP PLASTIC SURGEONS GET. NOW NSIR HOW MANDG THE SPECIALTY IS—HOW MANY OF THEM WERE TOO BY STUDYG TO GET LAID. NOW, THEIR GEEKS HAS EVOLVED TO THAT MOST EFUL OF SOCIAL SKILLS: MAKG WOMEN HAPPY. DRAW YOUR OWN NCLNS.WHILE THE WIV DISMISS MY THEORIZG, THEY DO P TO FEELG MORE PRSURE TO BE JT SO. THEY ARE NO STRANGERS TO DIETG, EXERCISG AND ALL MANNER OF PERSONAL GROOMG. (THOUGH ONE ULD ARGUE THAT THIS IS NOT SO MUCH THE RULT OF BEG MARRIED TO PLASTIC SURGEONS AS BEG THE KD OF WOMEN THE MEN ARE DRAWN TO THE FIRST PLACE. WHO’S A PLASTIC SURGEON GOG TO FALL LOVE WH? JANE GOODALL?) THEY HAVE A LIFETIME OF EE JECTABL AND—PARTICULARLY FOR THOSE WH HBANDS VOLVED CLIL TRIALS WH VAR PANI, AS MANY OF THE MEN ARE—ACCS TO EVERY NEW LASER AND FILLER. SOMETIM THEY WORRY THAT PEOPLE WILL THK THEY’VE HAD MORE WORK THAN THEY ACTUALLY HAVE HAD. “I’VE HAD MY NOSE AND MY BREASTS DONE AND NOTHG ELSE,” SAYS HOCHSTE, WHO AT ONE TIME POSED FOR PLAYBOY. “MY FIGURE IS HARD WORK, DITN, EATG WELL AND WORKG OUT.”“I GUS PEOPLE DO LOOK AT ME AS AN ADVERTISEMENT FOR MY HBAND,” SAYS BROUMAND. (SHE NOT THAT HER VERY FAVORE TREATMENT OM HER HBAND ISN’T EXACTLY FOR BETY. “BOTOXG UNR YOUR ARMPS— STOPS YOU OM SWEATG!” SHE ENTH. “IT’S FABULO, TO BE ABLE TO WEAR THAT LTLE BLACK DRS AND NOT WORRY.”) “IF IENDS LIKE THE WAY I LOOK, MEANS THEY’RE WANTG SUBTLE IMPROVEMENTS, NOTHG RADIL,” SHE SAYS.MUFFIE POTTER ASTON WEARS A TANK, AN OSR LA RENTA SKIRT, EARRGS BY ROBERTO CO, A NECKLACE BY DAVID YURMAN AND HER OWN BRACELETS AND SHO. PHOTOGRAPHED AT THE CHATWAL NEW YORK. PHOTOGRAPHED BY ALEX JOHN BECK.BUT THEY DO ALL KNOW RADIL, THOSE WIV OF SURGEONS WHO’VE HELPED THEMSELV A LTLE TOO GENEROLY TO THEIR HBAND’S BAG OF TRICKS. I RELL GOG TO ONE PLASTIC-SURGERY NFERENCE A FEW YEARS A ROW AND PLAYG A GUSG GAME WH MYSELF ABOUT HOW MUCH LARGER ONE SURGEON WOULD MAKE HIS WIFE’S BREASTS; AFTER A FEW YEARS HE GOT A NEW WIFE, AND HER CUP SIZE BEGAN S UPWARD TRAJECTORY.“WE ALL SEE THEM AT PARTI, THE ON WHO NEVER SAW A NEEDLE THEY DIDN’T LOVE,” SAYS ONE WIFE. ANOTHER ADDS, “THERE ARE THE SERIAL LIPOSUCTNERS: THEY GET DONE, GA A FEW, THEN GO BACK TO GET TAKEN OUT AGA.”WH ALL THE BENEFS, HOWEVER, A SENSE OF RPONSIBILY. IT SEEMS THE NUMBER-ONE CREDO OF THE PLASTIC SURGEON’S WIFE IS FULL DISCLOSURE. YOU AREN’T ALLOWED TO GET SOME WORK AND TELL YOUR IENDS, “OH, I JT HAD A RELAXG VATN.” YOU’VE GOT TO SPILL. “TIM HAVE CHANGED A LOT,” SAYS BROUMAND, WHO GREW UP ON LONG ISLAND AS THE DGHTER OF FANCIER SL STEBERG. “WHEN I WAS A KID, EVERYONE WAS SO SECRETIVE. WHOLE FAI ON LONG ISLAND HAD NOSE JOBS SO THE GIRLS WOULD LOOK THE SAME.” BROUMAND, WHO IS 50, CREDS GOOD GEICS TO HER NOT YET NEEDG A FACE-LIFT, BUT EYE WORK MAY BE HER IMMEDIATE FUTURE—”AND, Y, OF URSE, I’D NEVER HI .”“I TELL EVERYONE: MY BREASTS ARE ME; MY FACE IS HIS,” SAYS POTTER ASTON. “THERE IS NOTHG TO BE ASHAMED OF. WE GET OUR HAIR LORED, OUR NAILS DONE—THIS IS ALL ON A NTUUM. AND LOOK, IF YOU HAVE A GREAT HAIR LORIST OR DRSMAKER, YOU WANT TO SHARE. IT’S THE SAME FOR THIS. I WEIGH 125 POUNDS, I’M MCULAR, I KEEP F, I SWIM, I EAT HEALTHY…TO ME THIS IS ONE MORE THG. IT WOULD BE SILLY IF I PRETEND I LOOK GREAT AND DID NOTHG.”THE JOB OF THE PLASTIC SURGEON’S WIFE, THEY SAY, IS NOT TO ENURAGE PEOPLE TO GO UNR THE KNIFE BUT RATHER TO QUELL ANXIETY, TO MAKE THOSE WHO ARE NSIRG SURGERY FEEL “LIKE THEY ARE NOT TOTALLY BONKERS,” NOT MELISSA MATARASSO. “I SEE MYSELF AS A SOOTHER—BUT NOT, LIKE, ‘OH, MY GOD, WHY DID YOU TAKE SO LONG?’ IT’S A FE LE.”AT THE SAME TIME, THERE’S A KEEN AWARENS OF THE DANGERS: “IT’S NOT A NDY STORE TO ME,” ADDS MATARASSO. TODAY, HER MID-FIFTI, MATARASSO HAS NOT HAD A FACE-LIFT OR MUCH BIS BOTOX AND FILLERS AND LASERS. SHE DON’T SAY SHE WON’T, BUT SHE IS PLEASED HER DGHTERS LIKE HER L AND SAYS OF ALAN, “THE LS I DO, THE HAPPIER HE IS.” SOMETIM THE SIMPLT SOLUTN WORKS. “I JT DON’T BELIEVE TRYG EVERY NEW THG THAT OUT ON THE MARKET,” SAYS BROUMAND. “I HAVE A LOT OF SK SENSIVI, SO I STICK WH THE GENTLT PRODUCTS, LIKE CETAPHIL FOR WASHG MY FACE.”WHILE ALL THE WIV SAY THEIR HBANDS ARE VERY POPULAR DNER PANNS—WHO DON’T LOVE A GOOD SURGERY CHAT?—I WAS CUR ABOUT HOW THE WOMEN AL WH BEG RNERED AT A PARTY AND ASKED, “WHAT DO YOU THK I SHOULD HAVE DONE?” IS THERE SOME SORT OF WIFELY ETIQUETTE? “OF URSE I’M LIKE ANYONE ELSE,” SAYS POTTER ASTON. “I MAY HAVE THE THOUGHT, OH, YOU ULD BE PRETTY IF YOU JT LET MY HBAND SHAVE YOUR NOSE. BUT I WOULD NEVER SUGGT YOU HAVE SOMETHG DONE. PLASTIC SURGERY IS SUCH A PERSONAL CISN—AND SHOULD BE.”MELISSA MATARASSO AGRE. “BEE HERE’S THE TTH,” SHE SAYS, “NO ONE REALLY WANTS YOU TO BE HONT.” TAGS:BETY AND HEALTH,CAREER AND WORK,CELEBRY (FUNCTN() { GOOGLETAG.DISPLAY('DIV-GPT-AD-1453841951663-2'); }); (FUNCTN() { GOOGLETAG.DISPLAY('DIV-GPT-AD-1453737959964-0'); }); GALLERIES JETBLUE DEBUTS ITS MT CABS FOR NEW TRANSATLANTIC ROUT
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THE WIV CLUBBEG MARRIED TO A PLASTIC SURGEON ISN’T ALL EE NIPS AND TUCKS. EXPLORE A WORLD WHERE IMPERFECTN ISN’T AN OPTNWRTEN BY JUDH NEWMAN (FUNCTN() { GOOGLETAG.DISPLAY('DIV-GPT-AD-1453841951663-0'); }); “MY HBAND IS ABOUT TO HAVE THE PERFECT WIFE,” SAYS MUFFIE POTTER ASTON CHEERFULLY. OOH. WHAT DO THAT MEAN? SCE POTTER ASTON, A DOYENNE OF THE NEW YORK SOCIAL CIRCU, IS ALSO MARRIED TO SHERRELL ASTON, ONE OF THE LEADG PLASTIC SURGEONS THE UNTRY, NATURALLY MY THOUGHTS TURN ONE DIRECTN. IS SHE GETTG SCULPTED ABS? THE NEW PERT BREASTS OF A 16-YEAR-OLD? POTTER ASTON LGHS. “NO, NO, I’M HAVG VOL-RD SURGERY,” SHE SAYS. “I WON’T BE ABLE TO TALK FOR A WEEK. SHERRELL WILL BE A VERY HAPPY MAN.”POTTER ASTON IS MAKG A WEE JOKE, OF URSE, BUT HER SLY HUMOR RAIS A QUTN THAT’S OCCURRED TO MANY WHO LIVE THIS BETY-OBSSED CULTURE: WHAT’S LIKE TO BE THE WIFE OF A PROMENT PLASTIC SURGEON? I’VE WRTEN ABOUT THIS MEDIL SPECIALTY FOR YEARS, ATTEND DOZENS OF NFERENC, AND EVERY TIME I’M AT A GATHERG OF THE GUYS (AND THEY’RE OVERWHELMGLY GUYS), I’M REMD OF L OM T.S. ELT’S THE LOVE SONG OF J. ALED POCK: “IN THE ROOM THE WOMEN E AND GO/ TALKG OF MICHELANGELO.” THE SPO ARE, A SENSE, MARRIED TO THE MICHELANGELOS—AND THEY ARE OFTEN THEIR HBAND’S WORKS OF ART. LOOK AT THE WIFE AND YOU SEE THE ATHETIC OF THE HBAND. I ULD NEVER SAY THAT ABOUT ANY OTHER MEDIL SPECIALTY. GENERALLY, DOCTORS OTHER AREAS DON’T OPERATE ON FAY MEMBERS, LET ALONE THEIR MAT. BUT PLASTIC SURGEONS? THERE IS NOT A WOMAN I’VE TALKED TO WHO WOULDN’T GO TO HER SPOE FOR REJUVENATN AND MODIFITN. RECENTLY POTTER ASTON, A FIFTYSOMETHG WHOSE OL HCHCK-BLON LOOKS BELIE A WARM AND WTY MEANOR, HAD A FACE-LIFT URTY OF HER HBAND. WHEN I MENTN THE SOMEWHAT DISTURBG THOUGHT OF A HBAND PEELG OFF HIS BELOVED’S FACE AND SEWG BACK ON, SHE WAV OFF. “I NEVER GAVE A SEND THOUGHT,” SHE SAYS. “I’VE SEEN HIS WORK. I’VE SEEN HIM AT WORK. I KNOW HE’S A PERFECTNIST. WHY WOULD I GO ELSEWHERE?”FIRST, THERE’S A SENSE OF OBLIGATN FELT TO BE A TEAM PLAYER. LISA HOCHSTE IS THE NEWT (AND AT 30, THE YOUNGT, SHE’S QUICK TO TELL ME) OF THE REAL HOEWIV OF MIAMI; HER HBAND IS PLASTIC SURGEON LENNY HOCHSTE, KNOWN AROUND TOWN AS THE BOOB GOD. LISA HAS HAD HER HBAND DO HER BREAST IMPLANTS. (HER NOSE IS URTY OF ANOTHER SURGEON SHE’D GONE TO BEFORE DATG LENNY.) SHE SAYS SHE HASN’T HAD ANY OTHER WORK BUT IS PRETTY SURE THERE WILL BE MORE HER FUTURE: “THERE IS NO SHAME. EVERYONE ON THE SHOW HAS SOMEONE OR SOMETHG THEY ARE PROMOTG, AND BY LOOKG LIKE THIS, I PROMOTE MY HBAND’S BS.”THERE IS ALSO, SIMPLY, A SENSE OF PLEASURE AND PRI HAVG THE BIG MACHER DOC THAT GO BEYOND BEG A LOYAL WIFE. AS POTTER ASTON PUTS , “THERE’S SOMETHG ABOUT BEG MARRIED TO A MAN WHO N AFFECT ONE’S BETY AND TURN BACK THE HANDS OF TIME.”BUT HERE’S AN PABLE THOUGHT: CONSIR BEG BED WH A PLASTIC SURGEON. IS THAT NOT TERRIFYG? THEY SPEND ALL THEIR TIME LOOKG AT WOMEN AS FIXER-UPPERS. HOW THE HELL DO THEY TURN THAT OFF AT THE END OF THE DAY? CAN THEIR CLIL SELV, WHOSE RPONSE TO JIGGLG THIGHS THEIR OFFICE VOLV A SUCTN MACHE AND A NNULA, WALK TO THEIR HO AND SEE IMPERFECTNS AS ENARG AND NOT PROBLEMS THAT MAND AN SOS?APPARENTLY, SIST THEIR WIV, THEY DO. “ALAN’S NOT CRIL AT ALL. HE LOOKS AT ME THE SAME WAY AS HE DID WHEN HE MET ME,” SAYS MELISSA MATARASSO, 56, WHO 27 YEARS AGO MET HBAND ALAN MATARASSO, THE UPPER EAST SI PLASTIC SURGEON MORED TO BE THE MAN BEHD THE FAC OF EVERYONE OM DIANE SAWYER TO KATHLEEN TURNER.“I’M FAR MORE CRIL OF MYSELF THAN HE EVER IS,” ADDS GAYLE SOBEL (AN EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF SAL AT DUJOUR), 41, WHOSE HBAND, RMATOLOGIC SURGEON HOWARD SOBEL, UNTS KATIE COURIC AMONG HIS CLIENTS AND WAS ONCE LLED THE KG OF LIPO BY W MAGAZE. THEY MET WHEN GAYLE WAS HIS PATIENT ABOUT 20 YEARS AGO AND 10 YEARS LATER, WHEN BOTH WERE SGLE, STARTED TO DATE. BY THE NATURE OF THAT SUATN, SHE THOUGHT SHE MIGHT BE HIS LIFELONG PROJECT. “I THOUGHT HE WOULD BE LIKE, ‘OK, WE’LL START OVER HERE AND WORK OUR WAY UP.…’ AND WHO KNOWS? MAYBE WHEN I GET OLR HE’LL BE TELLG ME, ‘YOU NEED TIGHTENG.’ ” BUT NOW, SHE SAYS, THE VERY OPPOSE IS TE. “HOWARD STOPS ME OM GETTG STUFF DONE ALL THE TIME,” SOBEL SAYS. “I’LL ASK, ‘SHOULD I FILL THE L?’ ” SHE POTS AT HER FOREHEAD. “HE’LL BE LIKE, ‘GAYLE.’ OR I’LL THK SOMEONE WHO’S JT HAD A LIP FILLER LOOKS GOOD, AND HE’LL TELL ME, ‘THAT’S A LTLE TOO BLOWFISH.’ HE PREFERS A MUCH MORE NATURAL LOOK.”SURELY THERE HAD TO BE SOME APPROVAL-SEEKG AND NCERN? “I DID WORRY THAT HE’D BE CRIL,” ADMS HOCHSTE ABOUT HER HBAND. “HE’S SEEN MORE BREASTS THAN ANY MAN THIS WORLD. I HOPED HE APPROVED OF MY BREASTS, BUT I GOT OVER THAT QUICKLY.” WELL…SORT OF. LISA HOCHSTE HAD UNRGONE A BAD BREAST JOB PRR TO DATG LENNY. “THEY LOOKED AWKWARD—TOO CLOSE TOGETHER, SAT LOW. I HAD TO HAVE HIM REDO THEM. I DIDN’T WANT TO WALK AROUND AND HAVE PEOPLE THK THIS WAS MY HBAND’S WORK.”FROM LEFT: GAYLE SOBEL WEARS AN ETRO DRS, HER OWN NECKLACE, A CARTIER BRACELET AND SERG ROSSI SHO. LRA TISCH BROUMAND WEARS A TOP, HER OWN PANTS, A ROLEX WATCH AND CHRISTIAN LOUBOUT SHO. MELISSA MATARASSO WEARS A TRA TURK TOP, A CLUB MONA SKIRT AND HER OWN JEWELRY AND SHO. HAIR AND MAKP FOR GAYLE SOBEL: VALERY JOSEPH SALON. PHOTOGRAPHED BY ALEX JOHN BECK.YET THE WIV FEEL MY SKEPTICISM IS MISPLACED. BEG OBSERVANT ISN’T THE SAME AS BEG CRIL, THE WOMEN EXPLA. POTTER ASTON RELLS GOG ON A DATE WH SHERRELL MORE THAN 20 YEARS AGO. WHEN HE TOLD HER SHE WAS PRETTY AND SHE MURRED WH “OH, YOU DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT LOR MY EY ARE,” ASTON REPLIED, “THEY’RE BRIGHT BLUE, AND YOUR LEFT EYE IS SLIGHTLY SMALLER THAN YOUR RIGHT EYE.” “AND I RAN TO THE MIRROR AND HE WAS RIGHT!” SHE SAYS. AS SOMEONE WHO HAS ALWAYS UNTED BAD EYIGHT AS A HUGE BON A MATE, I FOUND THIS STORY EPLY ALARMG. POTTER ASTON, WHOSE OWN FATHER WAS A SURGEON, WAS IMPRSED.“I WAS OLR WHEN WE MET, ALREADY MY THIRTI, AND HAD TWO CHILDREN,” ADDS LRA TISCH BROUMAND, WIFE OF NEW YORK–BASED PLASTIC SURGEON STAFFORD BROUMAND. “I FELY FELT HE WAS ATTRACTED TO ME FOR ME. I DIDN’T FEEL HE WAS LOOKG AT MY FLAWS. I ACTUALLY DON’T FEEL HE’S LOOKG AT ANYONE’S FLAWS. HE ALWAYS FEELS HE’S LOOKG TO ENHANCE WHAT’S THERE.”ARE THE WOMEN SUPREMELY SELF-NFINT, LNAL OR BOTH? HARD TO SAY. A MEDSPE PHYSICIAN LIFTYLE REPORT SURVEYED ALMOST 30,000 DOCTORS 25 DIFFERENT SPECIALTI, ASKG THEM TO RATE THEIR LIV ON A SLE OF ONE TO SEVEN. PLASTIC SURGEONS, TURNS OUT, ARE LS HAPPY THAN THE AVERAGE PHYSICIAN (SEVENTH OM THE BOTTOM ON THE SPECIALTY LIST) AND HAVE A HIGHER DIVORCE RATE THAN MOST OTHER SPECIALTI. (PSYCHIATRISTS HAVE AN EVEN HIGHER RATE.)THIS MAK SENSE; AFTER ALL, THE MEN HAVE A LOT OF OPPORTUNY TO SCREW UP THEIR MARRIAG. CONSIR THE AMOUNT OF ADMIRATN-BORRG-ON-WORSHIP PLASTIC SURGEONS GET. NOW NSIR HOW MANDG THE SPECIALTY IS—HOW MANY OF THEM WERE TOO BY STUDYG TO GET LAID. NOW, THEIR GEEKS HAS EVOLVED TO THAT MOST EFUL OF SOCIAL SKILLS: MAKG WOMEN HAPPY. DRAW YOUR OWN NCLNS.WHILE THE WIV DISMISS MY THEORIZG, THEY DO P TO FEELG MORE PRSURE TO BE JT SO. THEY ARE NO STRANGERS TO DIETG, EXERCISG AND ALL MANNER OF PERSONAL GROOMG. (THOUGH ONE ULD ARGUE THAT THIS IS NOT SO MUCH THE RULT OF BEG MARRIED TO PLASTIC SURGEONS AS BEG THE KD OF WOMEN THE MEN ARE DRAWN TO THE FIRST PLACE. WHO’S A PLASTIC SURGEON GOG TO FALL LOVE WH? JANE GOODALL?) THEY HAVE A LIFETIME OF EE JECTABL AND—PARTICULARLY FOR THOSE WH HBANDS VOLVED CLIL TRIALS WH VAR PANI, AS MANY OF THE MEN ARE—ACCS TO EVERY NEW LASER AND FILLER. SOMETIM THEY WORRY THAT PEOPLE WILL THK THEY’VE HAD MORE WORK THAN THEY ACTUALLY HAVE HAD. “I’VE HAD MY NOSE AND MY BREASTS DONE AND NOTHG ELSE,” SAYS HOCHSTE, WHO AT ONE TIME POSED FOR PLAYBOY. “MY FIGURE IS HARD WORK, DITN, EATG WELL AND WORKG OUT.”“I GUS PEOPLE DO LOOK AT ME AS AN ADVERTISEMENT FOR MY HBAND,” SAYS BROUMAND. (SHE NOT THAT HER VERY FAVORE TREATMENT OM HER HBAND ISN’T EXACTLY FOR BETY. “BOTOXG UNR YOUR ARMPS— STOPS YOU OM SWEATG!” SHE ENTH. “IT’S FABULO, TO BE ABLE TO WEAR THAT LTLE BLACK DRS AND NOT WORRY.”) “IF IENDS LIKE THE WAY I LOOK, MEANS THEY’RE WANTG SUBTLE IMPROVEMENTS, NOTHG RADIL,” SHE SAYS.MUFFIE POTTER ASTON WEARS A TANK, AN OSR LA RENTA SKIRT, EARRGS BY ROBERTO CO, A NECKLACE BY DAVID YURMAN AND HER OWN BRACELETS AND SHO. PHOTOGRAPHED AT THE CHATWAL NEW YORK. PHOTOGRAPHED BY ALEX JOHN BECK.BUT THEY DO ALL KNOW RADIL, THOSE WIV OF SURGEONS WHO’VE HELPED THEMSELV A LTLE TOO GENEROLY TO THEIR HBAND’S BAG OF TRICKS. I RELL GOG TO ONE PLASTIC-SURGERY NFERENCE A FEW YEARS A ROW AND PLAYG A GUSG GAME WH MYSELF ABOUT HOW MUCH LARGER ONE SURGEON WOULD MAKE HIS WIFE’S BREASTS; AFTER A FEW YEARS HE GOT A NEW WIFE, AND HER CUP SIZE BEGAN S UPWARD TRAJECTORY.“WE ALL SEE THEM AT PARTI, THE ON WHO NEVER SAW A NEEDLE THEY DIDN’T LOVE,” SAYS ONE WIFE. ANOTHER ADDS, “THERE ARE THE SERIAL LIPOSUCTNERS: THEY GET DONE, GA A FEW, THEN GO BACK TO GET TAKEN OUT AGA.”WH ALL THE BENEFS, HOWEVER, A SENSE OF RPONSIBILY. IT SEEMS THE NUMBER-ONE CREDO OF THE PLASTIC SURGEON’S WIFE IS FULL DISCLOSURE. YOU AREN’T ALLOWED TO GET SOME WORK AND TELL YOUR IENDS, “OH, I JT HAD A RELAXG VATN.” YOU’VE GOT TO SPILL. “TIM HAVE CHANGED A LOT,” SAYS BROUMAND, WHO GREW UP ON LONG ISLAND AS THE DGHTER OF FANCIER SL STEBERG. “WHEN I WAS A KID, EVERYONE WAS SO SECRETIVE. WHOLE FAI ON LONG ISLAND HAD NOSE JOBS SO THE GIRLS WOULD LOOK THE SAME.” BROUMAND, WHO IS 50, CREDS GOOD GEICS TO HER NOT YET NEEDG A FACE-LIFT, BUT EYE WORK MAY BE HER IMMEDIATE FUTURE—”AND, Y, OF URSE, I’D NEVER HI .”“I TELL EVERYONE: MY BREASTS ARE ME; MY FACE IS HIS,” SAYS POTTER ASTON. “THERE IS NOTHG TO BE ASHAMED OF. WE GET OUR HAIR LORED, OUR NAILS DONE—THIS IS ALL ON A NTUUM. AND LOOK, IF YOU HAVE A GREAT HAIR LORIST OR DRSMAKER, YOU WANT TO SHARE. IT’S THE SAME FOR THIS. I WEIGH 125 POUNDS, I’M MCULAR, I KEEP F, I SWIM, I EAT HEALTHY…TO ME THIS IS ONE MORE THG. IT WOULD BE SILLY IF I PRETEND I LOOK GREAT AND DID NOTHG.”THE JOB OF THE PLASTIC SURGEON’S WIFE, THEY SAY, IS NOT TO ENURAGE PEOPLE TO GO UNR THE KNIFE BUT RATHER TO QUELL ANXIETY, TO MAKE THOSE WHO ARE NSIRG SURGERY FEEL “LIKE THEY ARE NOT TOTALLY BONKERS,” NOT MELISSA MATARASSO. “I SEE MYSELF AS A SOOTHER—BUT NOT, LIKE, ‘OH, MY GOD, WHY DID YOU TAKE SO LONG?’ IT’S A FE LE.”AT THE SAME TIME, THERE’S A KEEN AWARENS OF THE DANGERS: “IT’S NOT A NDY STORE TO ME,” ADDS MATARASSO. TODAY, HER MID-FIFTI, MATARASSO HAS NOT HAD A FACE-LIFT OR MUCH BIS BOTOX AND FILLERS AND LASERS. SHE DON’T SAY SHE WON’T, BUT SHE IS PLEASED HER DGHTERS LIKE HER L AND SAYS OF ALAN, “THE LS I DO, THE HAPPIER HE IS.” SOMETIM THE SIMPLT SOLUTN WORKS. “I JT DON’T BELIEVE TRYG EVERY NEW THG THAT OUT ON THE MARKET,” SAYS BROUMAND. “I HAVE A LOT OF SK SENSIVI, SO I STICK WH THE GENTLT PRODUCTS, LIKE CETAPHIL FOR WASHG MY FACE.”WHILE ALL THE WIV SAY THEIR HBANDS ARE VERY POPULAR DNER PANNS—WHO DON’T LOVE A GOOD SURGERY CHAT?—I WAS CUR ABOUT HOW THE WOMEN AL WH BEG RNERED AT A PARTY AND ASKED, “WHAT DO YOU THK I SHOULD HAVE DONE?” IS THERE SOME SORT OF WIFELY ETIQUETTE? “OF URSE I’M LIKE ANYONE ELSE,” SAYS POTTER ASTON. “I MAY HAVE THE THOUGHT, OH, YOU ULD BE PRETTY IF YOU JT LET MY HBAND SHAVE YOUR NOSE. BUT I WOULD NEVER SUGGT YOU HAVE SOMETHG DONE. PLASTIC SURGERY IS SUCH A PERSONAL CISN—AND SHOULD BE.”MELISSA MATARASSO AGRE. “BEE HERE’S THE TTH,” SHE SAYS, “NO ONE REALLY WANTS YOU TO BE HONT.” TAGS:BETY AND HEALTH,CAREER AND WORK,CELEBRY (FUNCTN() { GOOGLETAG.DISPLAY('DIV-GPT-AD-1453841951663-2'); }); (FUNCTN() { GOOGLETAG.DISPLAY('DIV-GPT-AD-1453737959964-0'); }); GALLERIES JETBLUE DEBUTS ITS MT CABS FOR NEW TRANSATLANTIC ROUT

Meet Gayle Perry, an New York Cy based personal and home stylist, closet edor, makeover specialist, -hoe Daily Mail Fashn Stylist, and proud mother of two who has built a reer out helpg men, women, and hom look their bt, which turn impacts their surroundg environment. As the years have gone by, Gayle has tablished herself as a force to be reckoned wh the stylg bs.

Gayle strongly believ that how we drs n have a huge impact on how we feel and relate to the world around . Nohels, Gayle erat that lookg good rults feelg well and feelg well is motivatg and powerful.

Hence, Gayle has dited her life to creatg betiful outf batns as well as betiful spac for her clients to ensure they always look and feel their bt makg them better able to acplish their goals.

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On Episo 2 of STYLE PHILOSOPHERS, host Michael Perris wel very special gut, GAYLE PERRY. Gayle is a personal stylist, closet edor, makeover specialist and Instagram blogger @gayltyle. Gayle is also the Daily Mail’s Fashn Stylist and Personal Stylist.

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Explorg her background fashn and gettg a few style tips om her will balance the program out perfectly for more rmatn about Gayle Perry please go to @gayltyle on InstagramFor updat and more rmatn about this exclive seri, follow STYLE PHILOSOPHERS on Instagram @stylephilosophersSTYLE PHILOSOPHERS is sponsored by THE BUBBLE COLLECTION, A llectn of liftyle agranc created around bubbl we choose to live … break out of … or nnect to. But this don't mean that style should be rerved only for those wh sky-high salari and bulgg bank is somethg Gayle Perry knows all too well. Here, Gayle brgs ten of her favore fall looks she's posted at @gayltyle.

The perfect batn of high/low fashn, Gayle paired her Gucci at wh relaxed Zara jeans and trilour Schutz wboy boots for this sual fall-wter look. The chunky snake-embossed leather boots are currently 33 per cent off at Nordstrom, and you n fd boyiend f jeans siar to Gayle's at Topshop.

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Gayle's are om Zara, but she remends mimickg this look wh the 7 For All Mankd high-waisted jeans that you n fd on Shopbop. Her distrsed shmere sweater is om Mnie Rose (and you n get 20 per cent off g Gayle20), while the tpe sue booti are om Steven Madn.

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Gayle is wearg a KES jacket here, but she shows how you n get this profsnal yet relaxed look for ls wh a Munrgskompagniet grey moto jacket teamed wh Rachel Parcell cream wi leg pants that are unr $100 at Nordstrom. Complete the outf by pyg Gayle's Chanel boots wh the whe croc ankle boots priced at jt $62 on Pretty Ltle Thg.

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Gayle's oversized Bottega pouch is on the pricier end of the sle, but if you want to splash out you n fd the same one onle for $2, n't go wrong wh a black jumpsu if you want to look elegant and stylish (and be fortable at the same time).

Gayle wore this ba&sh jumpsu and Jimmy Choos to an event New York Cy last month, but she says she's jt as obssed wh the look for ls. Gayle nails here wh jeans by Stella McCartney and a vtage Givenchy bloe, but this look works for all budgets. Gayle remends this bright prted P.

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Gayle scrib this look - a pair of Rag & Bone jeans topped wh a Belstaff jacket and ffle Chloe shirt - as her signature style. A siar versn of Gayle's waxed-tton jacket n be found on Match, and she remends pairg this wh the popular cut-off Rag & Bone jeans you n fd on Revolve.

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Gayle's YSL heels are no longer available, but you n py them - at a actn of the price - wh the Ramsey strappy sandal om Vce Camuto. 95, but for more affordable versns of her bloe and rdigan, Gayle suggts this $15 H&M shirt and a ble twist long sweater that is currently ls than $30 on n't go wrong wh an all-black ensemble (pecially on the streets of New York).

Mimic Gayle's Jt Drew at wh this stctured wool versn om Mango, while you n fd a more affordable versn of her Victoria Beckham pants at It's a ltle pricy, but Gayle says that the Zadig & Voltaire Tk bloe she's sportg here is a 'mt-have' for her clients, so might be worth the 're now firmly sweater season, and this Banana Republic puff-sleeve one is a sound wardrobe staple.

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Gayle styl hers wh Prada pants and Manolo pumps, but you n get the look for ls on Shopbop and Asos wh the Helmut Lang Rir pants and black snakk-effect stilettos that are jt $50. The one Gayle is wearg here is Balma, but you n get a near-intil one om Zara wh the same gold button tail.

Gayle suggts pairg this wh Cizens of Humany Amelia Vtage Flare Jeans and Steve Madn Daisie black leather heels, as an affordable alternative to the vtage Levi's and Manolos she's rockg may earn missns on sal om the lks on this page. “I’m far more cril of myself than he ever is, ” adds Gayle Sobel (an executive director of sal at DuJour), 41, whose hband, rmatologic surgeon Howard Sobel, unts Katie Couric among his clients and was once lled the Kg of Lipo by W magaze.