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Contents:
- HOW N I EXPLA TO MY GAY ROOMMATE WHY I’M MOVG OUT?
- "I FOUND OUT MY SON'S ROOMATE IS GAY"
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- GAY ROOMMATE: WHAT TO DO?
- THE JOYS OF LIVG WH A GAY ROOMMATE
- I DON'T KNOW IF MY ROOMMATE IS BI OR GAY
HOW N I EXPLA TO MY GAY ROOMMATE WHY I’M MOVG OUT?
My roommate is straight and I'm gay. He keeps teasg me to do thgs and I don't know what to do. Should I sleep wh my straight llege roommate? * my roommate is gay *
The guy assigned to me as a dormory roommate is gay. I don’t want to be a homophobe, and I don’t want to alienate him away om Christiany even more — he’s an atheist.
I have my reasons for movg, plenty of them, like wantg to be fortable my home, not wantg iends and fay to thk I’m gay myself, and wantg to have somethg mon wh my roommate.
I recently found out that my roommate is gay.
"I FOUND OUT MY SON'S ROOMATE IS GAY"
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * my roommate is gay *
I am not homophobic, nor do I thk beg gay is morally wrong any sense, but this mak me slightly unfortable. I also happen to be gay. I uldn’t tell you if your roomie is [closeted] gay, bi or simply cur.
The reason is that sometim, gay men end up fallg for guys who are emotnally unavailable.
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HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
Someone's sexualy is personal, so 's important to rpect their privacy. However, you might want to know if a person is gay bee you're terted datg them or want to support them as a iend. Beg open wh them n be... * my roommate is gay *
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There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted. For example, his fay may be vlently homophobic and by cidg that he's gay, you may out him by accint by treatg him different or implyg somethg whout meang to.
If you're tryg to figure out if your iend is gay bee you want to date him (as a woman), 's important to remember that jt bee he might be terted men don't mean he's not terted women. Even if he is gay, that should not rm your opn of him.
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
* my roommate is gay *
Another important thg to remember is that 's not very important whether or not he's gay. How do you know if you’re gay?
This n be another ditor that he's gay.
If you're not seeg any of that, then he might be gay. One of the theori about why some people are gay has to do wh the hormon that they're exposed to before they're born. The hormone exposure levels may manift actual, physil ways which n be a vague ditor that a guy might be gay.
GAY ROOMMATE: WHAT TO DO?
Gay men are slightly more likely to have even fgers than straight men. It is possible that your guy iend is not gay but stead falls somewhere else on the Ksey sle of unirns and awomens. Although some people the gay culture may put on a certa voice or a way of speakg, your iend talkg a siar or "effemate" way is still not a very good way to judge.
What a guy enjoys is also not a very good way to judge if he is gay or not. Everyone n enjoy different thgs; jt like a woman might enjoy watchg football, guys n also enjoy thgs that are more monly associated wh women or the gay muny.
THE JOYS OF LIVG WH A GAY ROOMMATE
The movi he watch and the mic he listens to are also not fair methods to gge if he is straight or gayer than Elton John and Gee Takei put together.
There's the stereotype that if a guy is a good drser or if he spends a bunch of time on his hair, he's gay. Sometim you might assume that jt bee a guy only hangs out wh girls or jt bee his bt iend also seems gay, then he might also be gay. Show him you're okay wh your iends beg gay.
Subtly brg up subjects that show him that you're okay wh your iends beg gay and that he don't need to hi his nature around you. You n talk about another iend that is gay or even jt about someone hypothetilly g out if you don't know someone who's gay. He do a great job of showg people that there's more to gay people than all those offensive stereotyp.
I DON'T KNOW IF MY ROOMMATE IS BI OR GAY
But if he is gay, he will probably tell you once he's fortable and feels like he tsts you.
This is the bt way to fd out if someone is gay and much ls offensive than makg assumptns about them. Say somethg like, "You know you're stuck wh me as a iend no matter what, but I jt have to ask bee I don't want to make assumptns and e to the wrong nclns: are you gay? It do not at all mean that he's gay.