Are You Top or Bottom Gay? ? NSFW-Quiz

Contents:

• GAY MEN'S PREFERENC FOR "TOP" VS. "BOTTOM" CAN BE JUDGED BY THEIR FACE
• ARE YOU TOP OR BOTTOM GAY? ? NSFW-QUIZ
• GEICS MAY DETERME IF GAY MEN ARE TOPS OR BOTTOMS
• IT'S TIME TO STOP PIGEONHOLG GAY MEN AS TOPS AND BOTTOMS

GAY MEN'S PREFERENC FOR "TOP" VS. "BOTTOM" CAN BE JUDGED BY THEIR FACE

For the study, 23 participants were shown the datg profile pics of 200 gay men, 100 tops and 100 bottoms, then asked to intify which was which.

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Legend would have you believe that once you’ve earned your gay rd, a Harry Potter–like ceremony occurs where, stead of the Sortg Hat, a giant magil butt plug divis all gay men to two ho: tops or is clearly not the se, pecially for those people who nsir themselv versatile (HIYA). The two subdivisns have their own l, stereotyp, and -jok, and n sometim seem as if they’re at war wh each other, rather than both workg together for mutual sexual of this n make tryg different thgs dntg, pecially if you’re a baby gay venturg to this world for the first time.

ARE YOU TOP OR BOTTOM GAY? ? NSFW-QUIZ

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But I believe that many gay men pick one si, stick to , and that some of those dividuals choose toppg—you’ll have seen their profil markg them as “masc dom tops” on the apps—bee of s ti to tradnal Miller explas, there are outsi forc that, datg back to the ancient Greeks, have prevented gay men om tly diggg to what sexual behavrs we might actually enjoy. “What I mean by that, ” he says, “is that cultural forc wh the gay muny prize toppg over bottomg.

GEICS MAY DETERME IF GAY MEN ARE TOPS OR BOTTOMS

“Wh bottomg there is the perceptn that you're givg up your masculy bee receivg a penis is somethg that women do, ” Miller Chris Whe, an expert health promotn and the director and prcipal vtigator of the Safe and Supportive Schools Project at the Gay-Straight Alliance Network San Francis, tak this one step further. ”To be (fucked) or not to be (fucked) shouldn’t always be the qutnAcrdg to a 2011 study by The Journal of Sexual Medice that surveyed 25, 000 gay men Ameri about their last sexual enunters, only 36 percent said they had bottomed and 34 percent said they had, realy, we’re not actually fuckg all that much. There is a qutn appropriately asked of nearly every gay or bi man I've ever met.

I'm talkg about the straight uple who ask private after meetg my boyiend and me; the female acquatance who giggl while brazenly askg over cktails; a gaggle of gossipg gays who speculate behd closed doors. Peck, a lerary cric, didn't outright ask the qutn of South Bend's openly gay mayor. I'm apt at bshg off homophobic rhetoric wh the wave of my fairy wand.

But Dale Peck, a gay man himself, triggered the ep-rooted, self-loathg homophobe bred me by Amerin culture. (I me of age when teenage boys would say "that's so gay" about anythg they didn't like. ) Now, wh a gay man nng for the untry's hight office, 's time to expel the mon and set the rerd straight.

IT'S TIME TO STOP PIGEONHOLG GAY MEN AS TOPS AND BOTTOMS

As a gay man, I've grown upsettgly fortable answerg people who aren't my sexual partners when they ask me the qutn. So now, I thk 's time to scream om the ter's mounta tops: Stop askg and assumg what posn gay men pick you plan to vis the nsensual fornitn statn wh Mayor Pete, me, or any other gay man you meet, what we do wh or dicks and ass is none of your bs.

The anecdot of our private sex liv are not fodr for your homoerotic fantasy football leagu. If you are not or do not tend to be a gay man's sexual partner, be hont wh yourself. Newsflash, fellas -- straight or gay, we all have a G-spot our butthol.

Gay men aren't only tops or bottoms. There isn't always someone wh a fed sexual role gay relatnships, and even if there is, that role may be malleable. Stuffg a gay man to a top or bottom box lims the full breadth of their, some men happily f to the top/bottom bary, but the le don't always apply.