My aterny years as an out gay man |

Contents:

• THE SECRET GAY HISTORY OF AN AMERIN FRATERNY
• MY ATERNY YEARS AS AN OUT GAY MAN
• GAY AND GREEK: THE EXPERIENCE OF BEG GAY AND A ATERNY
• GAY MEN BLACK FRATERNI
• GAY FRATERNY BROTHER?
• THE FRATERNY: MMM FIRST TIME STRAIGHT TO GAY (MM STRAIGHT TO GAY FIRST TIME BOOK 10) KDLE EDN

THE SECRET GAY HISTORY OF AN AMERIN FRATERNY

This is not a gay g of age story.

No, this is a story about thgs I saw and heard and experienced, but don’t end wh me steppg bravely forward and proudly clarg my homosexualy to the world and fdg my place .

Some of the iends did turn out to be gay, though I had no ia at the time, as they, I thk, had srcely any ia about me. Afterward, my broad-shoulred stoner iend sually told Jason that “What we did was okay, bee I heard you have to do three tim wh a guy to make you gay. In the aterny which I belonged, a small subset of iends began referrg to the annual fall visatn of alumni as “Homog Weekend.

MY ATERNY YEARS AS AN OUT GAY MAN

) he was homosexual. By the time I graduated 1987, I had been through a few Homog Weekends and taken the long walk wh several of my olr aterny brothers, who would awkwardly nfs to beg gay. I was too uptight about my own sexualy and this sort of thg h entirely too close to home (homo?

But he left no doubt that he was totally gay, and ma me unfortable when he looked to my ey wh that perceptive visn of his.

GAY AND GREEK: THE EXPERIENCE OF BEG GAY AND A ATERNY

“But the guy’s a homosexual, and there are guys who say they’re gog blackball him to prevent him om gettg a bid, ” I was told.

And after all, if I took a strong posn on the matter, someone might assume I was gay, and I was not gog to let that happen! Marc was about as openly gay as one uld safely be Lock Haven, Pennsylvania the early 1980s. Much later Marc would fd out I was gay too, spe my self-protective measur, and he would be very supportive, god bls him.

But 1984 I was not ready to be tthful about my sexualy wh anyone, even other gay people.

GAY MEN BLACK FRATERNI

If we we’re gog to blackball a gay guy jt bee he’s gay, then we’re not really about diversy at all, are we? Stori of the “gay murr” Lock Haven, Pennsylvania appeared everywhere, and were read by lns the big cy newspapers Philalphia and Ptsburgh. Well, I don’t want to overstate , but ’s clear that Mike – like most gay people – had been eply and adversely effected by the closet s and homophob that surround him.

GAY FRATERNY BROTHER?

The same year I belatedly disvered that soon after Mike Hoeknecht was found ad on mp, a gay and lbian support group was formed at LHU. It stands to reason, however, that such a high-profile tragedy would galvanize the gay muny and lead to the formatn of such a group.

THE FRATERNY: MMM FIRST TIME STRAIGHT TO GAY (MM STRAIGHT TO GAY FIRST TIME BOOK 10) KDLE EDN

In 1992, when I found out about LHU’s gay and lbian group, I told myself that if such a group were loted near my home New Jersey, I would jo right away.