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Contents:
- Q&A: ETIQUETTE FOR GAYS, LBIANS AND THEIR STRAIGHT FRIENDS
- IS IT GAY HBAND? LBIAN WIFE? OR WHAT?
- THE DOS & DON'TS OF GAY CLUBBG
- THE GAY HOOK UP OF NDUCT
- MALE GAY BAR ETIQUETTE
- ASK A HOMO: GAY BAR ETIQUETTE
Q&A: ETIQUETTE FOR GAYS, LBIANS AND THEIR STRAIGHT FRIENDS
* gay etiquette *
When to etiquette for members of the gay, lbian, bisexual and transgenr muny — as well as their straight iends, fay members and workers — thor and journalist Steven Petrow is the thory. His new 400-pl-page book, Steven Petrow’s Complete Gay & Lbian Manners (Workman), vers virtually every gay etiquette issue that may nont Ameri’s evolvg society — om how to handle g out at work to how straight people should refer to their gay iends’ signifint others (is “roommate” really appropriate? ” TIME spoke wh Petrow Manhattan, jt after New York beme the sixth and largt state to legalize gay marriage.
IS IT GAY HBAND? LBIAN WIFE? OR WHAT?
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TIME: Why is there need for a separate gay etiquette book? PETROW: It’s not like gay people set our tabl differently, or that we treat our hoeguts differently.
THE DOS & DON'TS OF GAY CLUBBG
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The longer answer is, tak most gays and lbians a while to figure out who they are, to articulate to themselv what inty or what label.
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THE GAY HOOK UP OF NDUCT
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MALE GAY BAR ETIQUETTE
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ASK A HOMO: GAY BAR ETIQUETTE
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