Why Some Straight People Might Have Gay Sex | Psychology Today

Contents:

• IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
• HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
• COMPLETE GAY GUI ON HOW TO GET A STRAIGHT GUY
• WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX
• IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?
• GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS

IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?

Of urse, some intify as straight but are realy closeted bisexuals or gays by sexual orientatn—perhaps likely to e out at a later age (if ever). • Could a straight guy get dnk enough to fool around wh another guy jt bee “felt good”, or is more likely that he has some gay/bi/cur feelgs that perhaps he’s been reprsg? Even acuntg for the fact that he might remember some of what happened, don't mean he's bisexual, secretly gay, or that you're his magil "exceptn.

I don't know many gay men (myself clud) who hasn't veloped a csh or had feelgs for a straight guy - cludg straight iends. They are not terted a romantic relatnship wh you; if they were they'd e out as bisexual or gay. I've seen other gay guys that fell for a straight guy (typilly a iend) and wanted to lu themselv to believg that a relatnship was possible.

HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)

It don't bother me that I fooled around wh another guy (other than the fact I enabled him to cheat); I'm gay after all.

COMPLETE GAY GUI ON HOW TO GET A STRAIGHT GUY

Ok, you experienced your straight csh g te, so now back off and al wh the 100 percent gays or bis that are sgle.

The guy happened wh is gay and is one of my clost iends and we have known each other for years. You know your iend is gay, so your bra now se that as an opportuny to have that physil need fulfilled. I’ve told you that I don’t thk this mak you gay or even bi, but ’s not like you n jt prt off this post and show to your girliend as proof.

So until they fd themselv a siar suatn, they don’t see how n be possible for a straight person to have a sexual experience wh a person of the same sex and not be gay or at least bisexual. I read this thread earlier and told one of my very few gay iends about and he said the same thg had happened to him.

WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX

The differenc between gay and straight men are much harr to discern the days, cludg the ways that affectn is shown. It simply don’t matter so much who is gay and who isn’t ( most quarters), and hangg out wh gay men when you are straight is no big al. Asi om the grooms and me, I didn’t know, nor uld I tell after many enunters, who was gay and who was straight.

” It mak sense, a shrewd nice-lookg younger man his charm and don’t happen to re if the teractn is wh a gay man. Several gay male iends and I somehow started talkg about how gay and straight men teract so differently than they once did (not so long ago).

The lson is that everyone n loosen up, pecially gay men who, for so long, have had to be reful about lettg others really know them.

IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?

For example, when a “closeted” gay or bisexual man has sex wh another man, he views that sex as reflectg his secret gay/bisexual inty. A mory of the men I terviewed were homophobic and held prejudice agast LGBTQ2+ people and this prejudice mak the thought of an LGBTQ2+ inty unappealg to them.

Often is nfg to the man as well who feels he r for and is genuely attracted to his female partner.Straight men who are terted gay sex are not at all unmon. Rearch nducted by found that 13% of straight men have had gay sexual experienc and another 5% have not but would like to. Their report maps out the ncentratns of gay cur men across the Uned Stat and Canada showg some tertg rults.So there are a number of ways clicians n thk about this type of suatn.Some believe that the fact that the man is havg sexual experienc wh men dit the possibily that he is vertly gay and is need of help to overe his shame and e out.But I believe is impossible to nclu that a man is or is not gay or bisexual simply based on his actg out sexually wh men.

GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS

In such a se, the man may jt be sexually adventuro and terted any sirable sexual opportuny wherever prents self.In some s the man qutn is very addicted to real or virtual experienc of gay sex.

He uld be a gay or bisexual man who is a sex addict or he uld be a straight man whose actg out behavr scenar is wh gay men.As sex addictn therapists we are often unable to answer the qutn of orientatn until the addictn has been addrsed. You uld say that some suatns addictn tmps orientatn, and is only after the person has worked through the unnsc issu drivg the addictn and e to some level of sobriety om the dg of his actg out behavr that we n beg to see whether he actually has a gay or bi or straight orientatn. Some of the largt LGBTQ events clu Madrid Gay Pri, NYC Pri, the São Plo Gay Pri Para, and Sydney Gay and Lbian Mardi Gras.