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IN THE FACE OF HOSTILY AT CHIGO GAY BARS, TWO BLACK LBIANS CREATE THEIR OWN

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Chigo’s Black LGBTQ bargoers — historilly ncentrated on the South and Wt sis due to the cy’s bter legacy of segregatn — have long reported racist behavr gay and lbian bar spac, rangg om unduly thorough ID checks to mic polici that ban hip-hop and rap to explicly racist ments om lol bar owners. “I uldn’t tell you the last time I saw that kd of te diversy a space: gay men and queer women, nonbary and trans folks, people who are Black, Brown, whe, younger, olr… Havg that power is super important and that’s what I’m hopg to see — more spac that are owned, occupied, and ma by . CHICAGO — Last year, this cy’s Boystown gayborhood faced a racial reckong after one bar owner tried to ban rap mic and others were acced of opprsive drs s and unrpayment of non-Whe staff.

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”In short, they’ve created the only thg better than a bar for regulars: a bar for Tunney, a Whe man who reprents Boystown as Chigo’s first openly gay alrman, cled to ment on his neighborhood’s tensns. “You go to a gay bar, and you feel like an var, vadg their misogyny, ” Angeve ntued.

“Funnily enough, my therapist told me to e here ‘before the cis Whe gays take over, ’ ” Morse said. “I’ve been groped Boystown gay bars by gay men. ’ ” Phipps chimed : “And they thk gay men n grope women bee ‘ don’t unt.

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DANIEL RADCLIFFE: EVERYONE NEEDS TO CHILL OUT ABOUT MY GAY SEX SCENETHE 23-YEAR-OLD TELLS MTV NEWS THERE'S NOTHG "SHOCKG" ABOUT THE SEX HIS SUNDANCE DRAMA, "KILL YOUR DARLGS"{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.25 "GRAVY",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NONE;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#FFFFFF;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.25 "GRAVY",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NONE;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#FFFFFF;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}MOVIBY ERIC DZIANJANUARY 20, 2013/12:55 {HEIGHT:HER;DISPLAY:-WEBK-BOX;DISPLAY:-WEBK-FLEX;DISPLAY:-MS-FLEXBOX;DISPLAY:FLEX;POSN:RELATIVE;-WEBK-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-MS-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-WEBK-ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-ALIGN:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-ALIGN:CENTER;ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-PACK:CENTER;-WEBK-JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-PACK:CENTER;JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-WEBK-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;-MS-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;} IMG{HEIGHT:100%;WIDTH:100%;OBJECT-F:VER;}{HEIGHT:574PX;WIDTH:1020PX;}BY ERIC DZIANJANUARY 20, 2013 / 12:55 AM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"DANIEL RADCLIFFE: EVERYONE NEEDS TO CHILL OUT ABOUT MY GAY SEX SCENE","THUMBNAILURL":","DATEPUBLISHED":"2013-01-20T05:55:33.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2013-01-20T05:55:33.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"MTV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"MTV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","WIDTH":1280,"HEIGHT":720}},"CREATOR":"ERIC DZIAN","ARTICLESECTN":"MOVI"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#F3F3F3;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}PARK CITY, UTAH -- BEFORE, DURG AND AFTER THE SUNDANCE FILM FTIVAL PREMIERE OF "KILL YOUR DARLGS" ON FRIDAY NIGHT (JANUARY 18), ALL ANYONE ULD TALK ABOUT, SO SEEMED, WAS DANIEL RADCLIFFE'S SEXUAL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#F3F3F3;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MAYBE WAS BEE THIS EROTILLY CHARGED BEAT GENERATN DRAMA REPRENTS THE 23-YEAR-OLD'S MOST HIGH-PROFILE FILM SCE HE GRADUATED OM HOGWARTS SCHOOL OF WCHCRAFT AND WIZARDRY. 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“This is a post-vid gay bar, one where we know how much we need each other. But Chigo — where Verna Gray ran a queer hotle wh the phone number FBI-LIST — has been sential to queer life 1924, Henry Gerber, a German immigrant postal clerk Chigo, created the Society for Human Rights, the natn’s first gay rights anizatn.

” In 1939, Aled Ksey disvered what he lled “a scientific gold me” the sexual histori of gay men Chigo, upon whom the amic foundatns of human sexualy were based when Ksey lerally wrote the book on the matter. Angela Barn and Renda Riddle, -owners of Nobody’s Darlg, scribe as “a lbian bar, and a gay bar, and a queer bar, and a trans bar. ”Riddle said other women the queer muny share her personal experience of feelg unfortable spac that are gay cis male-domated, so was important Nobody’s Darlg, which opened late May, was tentnal about welg those who have felt exclud and unsafe.

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