Two gay dads share their good, bad and funny experienc of beg a parent. As part of LGBT Pri Month, host Michel Mart speaks wh Dan Butsky thor of the new book Do This Baby Make Me Look Straight? and Marc Mabry dad of two and edor-at-large for the New York Tim.
Contents:
- DAN BUTSKY ON PROS AND CONS OF COMG OUT AS GAY HOLLYWOOD
- HOW A STRAIGHT GUY AND GAY GUY MAKE THE PERFECT UPLE
- ‘SNDAL’S’ DAN BUTSKY TALKS SHOW’S ‘SUBVERSIVE’ GAY RELATNSHIP
- THE VOICE OF CHICAGO'S GAY, LESBIAN, BI, TRANS AND QUEER COMMUNITY SINCE 1985
- EXPOSG THE HILARY OF GAY PARENTG
- OPENLY GAY COUPLE DON ROOS AND HBAND DAN BUTSKY RELATNSHIP FOR 30 YEARS WH 2 ADOPT CHILDREN
- DAN BUTSKY ON ‘SNDAL,’ ‘WEB THERAPY’ AND THE EVOLUTN OF GAY CHARACTERS ON THE SMALL SCREEN
DAN BUTSKY ON PROS AND CONS OF COMG OUT AS GAY HOLLYWOOD
Sndal's Dan Butsky Talks About Comg Out as Gay Hollywood * dan bucatinsky gay *
For his performance the polil thriller, he even won the Primetime Emmy Award for Outstandg Gut Actor a Drama Seri over the years, Butsky, who is openly gay, has also regnized himself as an adherent of the LGBTQ+ muny. He is often found speakg for gay rights, as well as for LGBT actors.
Speakg of one such stance, the Marry Me star opened up about the pros and ns of g out as gay Hollywood at the unn’s Sexual Orientatn & Genr Inty Town Hall meetg Los Angel. In his lengthy speech, the actor add, "Regardls, the ty three-word phrase ‘I am gay’ feels almost nuclear s power.
"Butsky also felt that one uld choose to stay the closet if that is workg for them thentilly so that nobody n tell them who they mt be or to all — the actor implied that g out as gay Hollywood, pecially the 90s, was a very sry thg, as people tried to abe and ignore them.
HOW A STRAIGHT GUY AND GAY GUY MAKE THE PERFECT UPLE
"Back the day, that character was 'the gay one' [...] And now the character is the character." * dan bucatinsky gay *
On the other hand, g out as gay or orientatn of one's choice helped an dividual to create their own inty. Daniel Butsky Talks about Meetg His HbandButsky is a happily married man — and he is married to his gay partner, hband, screenwrer Don two reportedly met his future hband 1992, subsequently after which the screenwrer ved him to be his date at the premiere of Love Field. "Instead, the uple, together wh the film’s producers, actrs Michelle Pfeiffer, and her, at the time, new hband, David Kelley, went to dner sce was not the bt of tim to e out as gay partners the dtry, they kept their relatnship a secret for a long Butsky and Hband Are Parents to Two KidsFast forward to 2008 and Butsky and Roos tied the knot wh each other, durg the four months same-sex marriage California was first, the uple is also parents to two children: Eliza and Jonah.
Will they only be st as gay or lbian characters? A recent survey of SAG-AFTRA members found that 27% of gay actors, 21% of gay actrs, 53% of bisexual actrs, and 68% of bisexual actors have not e out profsnally.
Regardls, the ty three-word phrase ‘I am gay’ feels almost nuclear s power.
‘SNDAL’S’ DAN BUTSKY TALKS SHOW’S ‘SUBVERSIVE’ GAY RELATNSHIP
Dan Butsky is a gay dad real life and also plays one on “Sndal.” He spoke wh CNN about issu gay parents face as the fn of “fay” evolv. * dan bucatinsky gay *
But you thk she hasn’t e face to face wh a homo before? “It took several years before I felt fortable havg people the dtry know that I was gay.
I had nvced myself, ‘It wasn’t a gay film, but a romantic edy that jt happened to have two gays as s protagonists.
’ Isn’t that the fn of a gay film?
THE VOICE OF CHICAGO'S GAY, LESBIAN, BI, TRANS AND QUEER COMMUNITY SINCE 1985
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(Audience lghter) I nvced myself we would cross-over to a straight dience as long as I didn’t ph some kd of ‘gay agenda. (Lghter) In hdsight, I realize what I wanted really was for people to believe I n play any role, not jt gay.
I had wrten a role for myself as a gay man lookg for love and honty and timacy. And by exposg the simple tths about characters who ‘jt happen to be gay, ’ I too was exposg myself. “It’s 20 years later; my soul-bearg stori of beg a gay dad published, released, ‘Do This Baby Make Me Look Straight?
EXPOSG THE HILARY OF GAY PARENTG
Get to know the heartwarmg love story of openly gay uple Don Roos and Dan Butsky, who have been together for 30 years and are proud parents of 2 * dan bucatinsky gay *
But make no mistake; was a role I got bee I was gay.
I am a gay man, which mean I am gay, y, but I’m also a man, and as a man, there are some thgs I n’t do. But as a gay man, the fact of my sexualy, my orientatn, wh which I believe I was born, n many s be hidn om the discrimatg eye; but not always. But to the gay actor who has ma his livg as a heterosexual sex symbol, or to any actors who ntu to rema a mystery to the public, and are able to reap the rewards of employment as a rult, I say: Stay the closet, if that is workg for you thentilly.
(Audience lghter) It’s distractg; as distractg as may be to see a gay actor – an actor you know is gay – playg a straight role, and knowg, ‘Wow!
OPENLY GAY COUPLE DON ROOS AND HBAND DAN BUTSKY RELATNSHIP FOR 30 YEARS WH 2 ADOPT CHILDREN
Emmy wner Dan Butsky, one of the few openly gay actors playg a gay role on prime-time televisn, was killed off of ABC's Sndal last * dan bucatinsky gay *
’ I play mostly gay rol, and I know for a fact that ’s harr for people to image me as a straight man bee they know I am gay.
“So, here we are: ’s 2014 and I’m gay and out, and pigs are flyg.
Jeff Perry, who plays the seri’ Machiavellian Whe Hoe Chief of Staff, didn’t know his character was gay until the fourth episo. Dan Butsky had already played a gay man the 2001 film, “All Over The Guy, ” which he wrote and produced.
DAN BUTSKY ON ‘SNDAL,’ ‘WEB THERAPY’ AND THE EVOLUTN OF GAY CHARACTERS ON THE SMALL SCREEN
Perry is a straight married man wh a dghter, but playg a gay man. “I’m a gay dad and wrer real life, ” says Butsky “and I am a gay dad wrer on the show. Confsns of a Gay Dad.