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I’M A FAT GAY MAN. I KNOW. PLEASE STOP TELLG ME

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I’m wrg this lumn bee as fat gay men, our experienc are so different than most others the LGBTQ+ muny. Perhaps we should start when I was 11 and I had jt got my chubby ltle fgers on a lol queer magaze and was flippg through, raveno for any glimmer of the unknown gay world outsi of my very nservative hoehold ral Arizona. Feelg worse than before I picked up the magaze, I attempted to hi the thg my sock drawer, only to disver the next day had been replaced wh a Jehovah’s Wns pamphlet on the dangers of homosexualy.

Fast forward a few years and some gay sex scen on MTV’s The Real World, and I was jt as baffled as to where my fat self was gog to f to all of the gay shenanigans.

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It wasn’t until my hman year of high school when I got a crash urse on gay subcultur om my bt iend Ryan, who had accs to the ter and an fatuatn wh AOL chatrooms.

Anythg more than an average dad-bod or slightly chubby figure seems to stir up a sense of disda om the majory of this is certaly not the posn of all gay men, the experienc seem to be very mon for those of who don’t f this image of perfectn. Even to this day, much more battle-worn than I once was, I’m always so shocked and repulsed by the posn of most gay men to be so unacceptg of fat dividuals, knowg how unkd the outsi world is to those who are different. For lover of meaty feet, wi feet, chubby, chub, bear, boyfeet, gayfeet, malefeet, malefootfetish, gaybear, feet, fetish, gay, smellyfeet, foot, gayfeetmaster, gayfeetfetish, malol, sexymalefeet, barefeet, gayfeetlover, manfeetlover, maleto, masterfeet, menfeet, teenboyfeet, guyfeet.

The imag I saw of gay men were no better. There was the effortlsly mascule Jack McPhee on Dawson’s Creek, the h teen show of my generatn, and the tall, sexy Brian and prec blond twk Jt on Queer as was before Alex Newell or Daniel Franze or Ady Del Valle provid any pl-size role mols for young gay boys. Gay magaz, which clud eher waifish twks or mcled jocks, ma me feel like I would never belong, never be sired, never be worthy even my own muny.

I’M FAT AND GAY. HERE’S WHAT I’VE LEARNED.

I mataed a relatively healthy weight for most of my twenti, though I was still regularly the fattt person the gay club. Yet acrdg to one survey, 77 percent of gay men have felt judged or objectified bee of their body, wh 58 percent reportg prsure to look attractive.

It’s cliché to say , but only bee is te: the prsure to be th or to be f is lerally killg gay men like me.

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