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Contents:
- ARE ELV GAY?
- GAY NIGHT ELF MARRIAGE IS NOW PART OF LORE SPOILERS
- BT GAY ELV, GODS, DEY & WIZARDS
- THREAD: HOW ARE BLOOD ELFS GAY DUE TO /SILLY?
- ON GAY ELV
- THE LORD OF THE RGS FAN SE EMBARRASS ITSELF BY PROMOTG EASILY DISPROVABLE GAY ELV THEORY
ARE ELV GAY?
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Wh the tyrannil homophobia of the sports world, that any man would e out as gay (let alone a black man) is not only an LGBT triumph but also a triumph for pranksters everywhere who thrilled to the ia that what should be nsired jt another ntral fact that is nobody's bs was stead a shock heard around the world, one that add another jolt of transparency to an creasgly transparent pla. But the subsequent fawng over Colls simply statg he is gay still seemed to me, as another gay man, like a new kd of victimizatn. Whose sole purpose is to be put the posn of remdg only about Tolerance and Our Own Prejudic and To Feel Good About Ourselv and to be a symbol stead of jt beg a gay du, is--lamentably--still media play.
The Gay Man as Magil Elf has been such a tricky part of gay self-patronizatn the media that you would by now expectthe chill members of the LGBT muny to rpond wh ol difference.
GAY NIGHT ELF MARRIAGE IS NOW PART OF LORE SPOILERS
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The Sweet and Sexually Unthreateng and Super-Succsful Gay is supposed to be sted to transform The Hets to noble gay-lovg protectors--as long as the gay qutn isn't msy or sexual or difficult.
The straight and gay sanctimonns that says everyone gay needs to be nonized when g out still mak some of who are already out feel like we're on the sil. I'm all for g out on one's own terms, but heraldg as the most important news story of the week feels to me, as a gay man, well, kd of alienatg.
BT GAY ELV, GODS, DEY & WIZARDS
God help the gay man who out and don't want to reprent, who don't want to teach, who don't feel like part of the homogenized gay culture and rejects .
Where's the gay du who mak c jok about other gays the media (as straight dus do of each other nstantly) or exprs their hopelsns seeg Morn Fay beg reward for s pictn of gays, a show where a heterosexual plays the most simperg ka-ween on TV and Ws.
THREAD: HOW ARE BLOOD ELFS GAY DUE TO /SILLY?
Why isn't the gay du I have always known and the gay du I have always wanted to be not ont and center the media culture now? At the time I received the vatn I really had no ia that GLAAD harbored any rentment agast a gay man who sometim exprs his distaste wh the stereotypil way Hollywood reprents gays transgrsive language on my Twter acunt. (GLAAD had even nomated The Rul of Attractn as movie of the year 2003-- lost to The Hours, where of urse a tormented gay du wh AIDS ms suici by throwg himself out of a wdow ont of Meryl Streep, whereas Rul, ol-wh-beg-gay llege stunt Ian Somerhalr only falls love wh Jam Van Der Beek and be bummed by his rejectn.
) It's dumbly obv to state, but ever sce I realized I was gay I have always supported gay rights--as a gay person jt be part of your DNA. I have not, however, supported the way gay people have been portrayed the media, and that's where the Twter ranr exprs self.
ON GAY ELV
But sce I know so many gay men who feel like I do--that they are reprented some kd of unendg gay mstrel show movi and on TV often created by gay wrers and producers, or jt nveniently ignored (not a sgle Bt Picture nomee last year had a gay character )--I assumed that the muny I was supposedly a part of was as clive as I was harmlsly cril--'s a Twter acunt, gays, move on. I was stg the ArcLight wh my boyiend of four years about to watch a matee of Oblivn (I don't even want to get to the layers of gay irony surroundg that) when I got the news.
A lot of gay people me out support of me, but was GLAAD's party and they're allowed to ve or disve anyone they want to. For all the good has done, many gays have seen as a group that uld be almost fascistilly polilly rrect and nfed ways: an anizatn that preached tolerance but would also bch-slap anyone who didn't necsarily agree wh their agenda. GLAAD was at the red-hot center of creatg The Gay Man as Magil Elf the culture and often award the stereotyp paradg around embarrassg queer movi and gradg retro ss as simply "gay posive" bee they were, um, gay, and nveniently disregard the fact that there is a silent majory of gay men who actively loathe and rist the ritur on display.
THE LORD OF THE RGS FAN SE EMBARRASS ITSELF BY PROMOTG EASILY DISPROVABLE GAY ELV THEORY
Gay activists dive-bombg other gays who exprs an opn that don't lean toward their agenda means that wh the gay world we are livg a very simplistic place.
A barbed observatnal opn tweeted by a gay man about gay men Hollywood--and not directed at anyone--be, the world of GLAAD, hate-speech. When a muny pris self on s differenc and uniquens and bans the gay man bee of the way the gay man exprs himself--then a rporate PC fascism has been put to play that needs to be serly rensired by the LGBT muny.
This is a problem: If you are a gay man who is not The Gay Man as Magil Elf, then you n the risk of beg ostracized by the ele gay muny. An anizatn holdg an awards ceremony that they thk reprents all gays and also feels that they n choose which gays n and nnot be a member of the party is, on the face of , ridiculo.