Louis Molnar wants the world to know that, jt like beg gay, beg tistic is nothg to be ashamed of.
Contents:
- THE CHALLENGE OF BEG GAY AND AUTISTIC
- GAY, LBIAN, AND GENR NONNFORMG INDIVIDUALS WH AUTISM
- I, A GAY AUTISTIC MAN, AM SHARG 5 THGS ABOUT MY INTERSECTNAL INTY
- I'M GSTIC (GAY AND AUTISTIC)
- GAY TISTICS EXIST, AND WE NEED A NAME
THE CHALLENGE OF BEG GAY AND AUTISTIC
Jonathan Post discs beg gay, tistic and missg social cu which leads to difficulty fdg relatnships. * gay and autism *
A higher percentage of tistic people intify as lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, or queer (LGBTQ) than the general populatn, acrdg to rearch studi.
Studi vary wily on the percentage of people wh tism who are gay, lbian, or bisexual. Jt, who did not want his last name ed, disvered high school that he was both tistic and gay.
“I knew what beg gay was, but I personally lacked the emotnal self-awarens for a while until I realized that’s what I was feelg toward other guys, ” he explas.
GAY, LBIAN, AND GENR NONNFORMG INDIVIDUALS WH AUTISM
* gay and autism *
“I wasn’t openly gay high school bee I spected very strongly I would be attacked, ” he says. High school stunts found that those who are gay, lbian, and bisexual are almost twice as likely to be bullied at school and onle as heterosexual stunts are.
Shortly after high school, Smh me out to her fay as a gay man. The group wh ASD reported higher rat of homosexualy, bisexualy and asexualy, but lower rat of heterosexualy. Rearch suggts that dividuals wh Autism Spectm Disorr (ASD) report creased homosexualy, bisexualy, and asexualy, but creased heterosexualy.
He said rather exasperatedly, “If you aren’t gay, nobody is!
I, A GAY AUTISTIC MAN, AM SHARG 5 THGS ABOUT MY INTERSECTNAL INTY
I'm Gstic (Gay and Autistic) * gay and autism *
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Practice parameter on gay, lbian, or bisexual sexual orientatn, genr variance, and genr disrdance children and adolcents. Gay, Lbian, and Genr Nonnformg Individuals wh Autism. But I'm not referrg to beg gay -- y, I'm gay -- but my story is also about a send, simultaneo closet: I was 40, a lifelong iend, who is cintally a psychotherapist, suggted I might be tistic.
I'M GSTIC (GAY AND AUTISTIC)
This is the pot where I learned the parallels of my experience as a gay man and that of beg 1973, the year I was born, the Amerin Psychiatric Associatn voted to remove homosexualy om s list of mental illns. A father of morn psychotherapy, Sigmund Frd, believed that homosexualy and paranoia were separable.
What he nsired "symptoms" of homosexualy were very often a reactn to livg an outst life shadows: secln, low self-worth, and self-stctive behavr.
Homosexuals were subjected to behavral nversn therapy, shock therapy, jectns, beatgs, removal om imagary talysts, and social shamg to drive the gay out of very thgs currently happen the tism world. But as wh homosexualy, we now know through better science that tism has a geic and environmental basis.
GAY TISTICS EXIST, AND WE NEED A NAME
It is for this reason that today we don't say I have homosexualy. No, I am a homosexual. Likewise, I don't have tism -- I am a gay man who grew up the transnal s, I am keenly aware of the parallels: the fear, the ignorance, the sire to be out private but closeted public.
Each of the dynamic artistic/scientific pneers displayed well-known characteristics of homosexualy and tism, but sadly we may never know their stat for sure, sce intifitn was not an optn or stigma prevented even is no wonr then that when my psychotherapist iend suggted I might be tistic, I had never heard of Asperger's syndrome -- which, I learned after a thorough five-hour examatn -- is the specific tegory of my type of 's right, this day and age, wh my penchant for all thgs science and beg a hopels news junkie, I had never heard of what I am. I am a proud tistic gay MOLNAR is an bs operatns executive, elected official, thor, and the chair and founr of Twabow, a not-for-prof that advot for those unr the LGBT+/tism double rabow. Rearch has shown that lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and queer/qutng (LGBTQ+) adolcents who have more clive sex tn school have better mental health.
The It Gets Better Project’s missn is to uplift, empower, and nnect lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, and queer (LGBTQ+) youth around the globe.