<p>Hi</p> <p>I am gay and am startg llege this fall. I don't want to miss out on havg a roommate but I'm nervo about roomg wh a straight guy who might feel unfortable roomg wh a gay guy. Im not really flamboyant or anythg and I do have a lot of straight iends. Havg a roommate uld eher go really great or be really bad. What should I do?</p>
Contents:
- 'I'M NOT GAY BUT I'M IN LOVE WH MY ROOMMATE' -- REDD STORY
- THE JOYS OF LIVG WH A GAY ROOMMATE
- STRAIGHT GUY WORRI HE’S BEG HOMOPHOBIC TO GAY ROOMMATE, REALIZ HE’S FALLEN LOVE WH HIM
- HOW N I EXPLA TO MY GAY ROOMMATE WHY I’M MOVG OUT?
- BEG GAY AND HAVG A ROOMMATE, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
- AM I GAY?
'I'M NOT GAY BUT I'M IN LOVE WH MY ROOMMATE' -- REDD STORY
My roommate is straight and I'm gay. He keeps teasg me to do thgs and I don't know what to do. Should I sleep wh my straight llege roommate? * i am not gay but i am in love with my roommate *
Referrg to his roommate whout any real name, the guy who go by the redd ername u/Outrageo-Author-98, scrib his roommate and their dynamic on “I’m sure I’m Not Gay, but I really love my roommate om llege.
” The man's roommate is gay and had jt recently e out to the OP the past April. Dpe his clear tert, the man sists he is not gay. Now I fd myself livg a hoehold full of gay men.
THE JOYS OF LIVG WH A GAY ROOMMATE
Dear Apartment Gu, I am an openly gay man wh a very big csh on my closeted roommate. I know you will wonr how is that I know that my roommate is closeted. Well, he told me that he is fely cur about gay sex, has a * i am not gay but i am in love with my roommate *
I enjoyed all my roommat before, some more than others, but there’s somethg special about havg gay roommat and the environment I fd myself now.
But beg a space where others talk about gay life, love and sex is so … nice.
The joy havg a gay roommate or two is beg able to know that you’re not beg judged for the queer life you live and breathe. The joy of livg wh a gay roommate is the joy of livg where you feel you’re your tt.
STRAIGHT GUY WORRI HE’S BEG HOMOPHOBIC TO GAY ROOMMATE, REALIZ HE’S FALLEN LOVE WH HIM
We’re pretty sure this story is pretty much better than any romantic edy, but you be the judge!This straight guy, who we’ll ll Mike, has been roommat wh Alex for a year. When Alex told Mike he was gay, he was absolutely fe wh . But then when Alex started to brg guys home…he started… * i am not gay but i am in love with my roommate *
A space wh gay roommat giv you a chance to live that joy. Do you have gay roommat? I also happen to be gay.
I uldn’t tell you if your roomie is [closeted] gay, bi or simply cur. The reason is that sometim, gay men end up fallg for guys who are emotnally unavailable.
HOW N I EXPLA TO MY GAY ROOMMATE WHY I’M MOVG OUT?
* i am not gay but i am in love with my roommate *
Email Jack, the Gay Datg Coach at: [email protected].
Furthermore, i have many gay iends and i am not terted the gay life/society, or rather, I prefer the life of a straight man. (Ially I would like my life to be eher gay or straight bee the way I'm operatg now prevents anythg om happeng.
Perhaps experimentatn would be the right way to sort out your feelgs, and you should ci if you want to be gay, straight or bisexual even. Incintally, if he rejects your advancement (and not particularly fond of homosexuals), uld make your time spent wh him progrsively more awkward and difficult. Gay guys are not attracted to any man, jt like straight guys prefer certa girls until to closg time.
BEG GAY AND HAVG A ROOMMATE, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
People thk that is what gay people are. 's or nstctn workers aren't gay.
Gay men work everykd of job, they jt keep their personal lif personal. Most of all, all gay guys do not have anal terurse.
People always assume that all gay men, do the same thg. Maybe when you have spent more time together, you n have a beer and start a discsn on the typ of guys who people never spect are gay. When you say youre not terted gay life/society I seems youre referrg to the gay scene and culture.
AM I GAY?
However, "gay life" is really not much different if at all to "straight" life.
Jt like straights, gay people live the burbs, go to work, have fai, social life, enjoy sport, travel etc etc. The separatn of gay vs straight life is really no more than a ncept. Its te that people like to be around like md people and so socially may spend more time among their own however s not set stone and many lbgt people cludg myself have a mixture of gay/bi/straight iends.
You talk about gay life / society but here you are misunrstandg what beg gay is actually about. The prs / TV only show a very small, flamboyant, sectn of the gay world. The vast majory of gay men are distguishable om their straight unterparts, they do all the same sorts of thgs their daily liv, except perhaps bed.