Wentworth Miller publicly me out as gay last month, and now he's discsg his stggle g to terms wh his inty. "The first time I tried to kill myself I was 15. I waed until my fay went away for the weekend and I was alone the hoe and I swallowed a bottle of pills," Miller said a speech at the Human Rights Campaign Dner Seattle on Saturday.
Contents:
- RELATIV SAY FORMER X FACTOR CONTTANT WAS KILLED BEE HE'S GAY
- COLORADO MOM SAYS 9-YEAR-OLD SON WHO CAME OUT AS GAY DIED BY SUICI AFTER SCHOOL BULLYG
- FAY REELS AFTER MARRIED DAD VANISH FOR 16 YEARS, REAPPEARS GAY
- HE’S DEADJMASH, LIL S, RD & T.M.FEATURGTM (UK), LIL S (UK) & 2 MOREPRODUCED BYRENZOPRODAPR. 2, 20201 VIEWER136.6K VIEWS36 CONTRIBUTORSHE’S DEAD LYRICS[INTRO: JMASH, RD, TM & LIL S]HOW'S HE ALIVE? MAN, I'M FUCK' BAFFEDSEE ME AND THEY'RE DONE WHEN THEY END UP-GOT TOO MANY OPPS THE SKYGOT ME THK', WHO'S MY 3.5? EVERY TIME I SEE BLUE LIGHTS, I'M OFF[BRIDGE: JMASH]MUNNA GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)GORZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)THUMPZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)ABZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)STOMPZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)S1 GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)CROSE SHOULD BE A PACKHOW'S HE ALIVE? MAN, I'M FUCK' BAFFED (SHOULD BE AD)[VERSE 1: JMASH]ACT FOR THE SNAP AND LADI (DICKHEADS)DON'T GET BLAMMED YOUR LEGTHEN CRAWL ON THE FLOOR LIKE A FUCK' BABY (BAP, BAP)CALL ME A NEEK, EP DOWN THEY RATE ME (THEY RATE ME)OPPS THE N 'H THEY LOVE GET RAPEY (UGH)DON'T LACK A DANCE FOR A BARBIE (DON'T DO )AM DONE GOT CHGED UP RNI' (AM, MAN)WHAT'S ALL THE TALK ON MY DARGI?NUTTY GOT CHGED AND LEFT BY HIS DARGI (HAHA)BLACKZ GOT CHGED A SHOP LIKE WOAH (UGH)TSKENG GOT TWO O, DIDN'T YOU KNOW? (ARGH)SAME WEEK R1 TOOK A BIG MAN'S SOUL (FREE MY NIGGA)BRO'S THE N 'H HE TURNED MAN CRO' (HE'S AD)IN URT YR WEREN'T CLAIM' CT (WHAT?)DON'T HI URT LIKE PSY KASHIF (DON'T DO )THIS IS THE TTH, NON FICTN (JT FACTS)FREE UP SNOW THAT'S DOT-DOTS KICK'THEM CLOCKS DON'T STOP, NTU TICK' (TICK)CHEFF ANYONE LIKE BARBECUE CHICKEN (TST ME)SOLOMON'S LE GOT PUT TO RT (EUGH)FREE R1, THAT'S SHANKS CHTS (FREE MY BRO)I'M ON THE OPP BLOCK WH MY STAB-PROOF VTCAN'T BE ON MY BLOOD, THAT'S LTLE S (CAN'T BE ON BRO)CAN'T BE ON MY BLOOD, THAT'S LTLE SYOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[VERSE 2: RD]IN THE BANDO, DISH' OUT PEBSAND I N'T STOP 'TILL I'M RICH ON ENDSON THE FAST LANE I GOT NO IENDSJT BILL AND KWENG WHEN THEY LL FOR THE PENGON THE OPP BLOCK LURK' FOR THEMSEE ME AND THEY'RE DONE WHEN THEY END UP AD (WHERE THEY AT?)AND I GOT ONE BROWN AND LENGSHE WHIPS FOR ME THE BANDO N (WHIP )SHE'LL LE UP WHEN SHE SE GEMSAND SMOKE FOR HIM, AND SMOKE FOR HIS IENDAND THIS WHE TG KEEPS LLG MY PHONEBUT I MIGHT PICK UP, THAT'S MAYBE IF I LIKE HERIN THE FIELD NIGGAS KNOW I'M A STRIKERTWO ZK'S, ME AND BRO JT SLICE UPI'M NOT NO TER TYPERCIRCLED THERE TWICE AND I STILL N'T FD YA (WHERE THEY AT?)I RELOAD ON BOX OF 9ERS ONE FOR TEN NOT TWO FOR A FIVERAND THE OTHER SI THEY ALWAYS JT LIETHEY TALK ABOUT DRILLGS THAT THEY NEVER DOCS GOT CHGED BY ME AND MY BORER TOOTWO HOURS LURK, WHERE'S THEM YUT? (WHERE THEY AT?)HANDTGS, DOTS AND KCHENS TOOI N UP YOUR HOE AND I TAKE ALL THE FOOD (LEMME GET THAT)I N UP YOUR HOE AND I TAKE ALL THE FOOD (GET THAT)[VERSE 3: TM]TST ME MY OPPS ARE JT WETTHEY KEEP RPAWN' LIKE THEY GOT NE LIVBROSKI ASK IF I'M LIVE, OF URSE I'M LIVEWE'RE GO' ON GLIS (COME ON)GOT TOO MANY OPPS THE SKYGOT ME THK', WHO'S MY 3.5?DON'T WANNA BUCK BRO WH HIS KNIFEI'M THE BANDO, TRYNA SERVE THIS WHEBAD B KEEPS LL' MY LEBUT SORRY DARL', I N'T WE AND DE (SORRY DARL')BUT MAYBE IF YOU HOLD THIS KNIFETHEN MAYBE DARL' WE N BONNIE AND CLYCS HE ALREADY GOT BOREDTHAT TEACH HIM A LSON NOT TO CROSS THAT LE (DON'T)ASTAR SHOULD'VE BEEN THE SKYCROSE GOT BUN, NOW THERE'S PELLETS HIS SPE[VERSE 4: LIL S]GIVE ME A DROP AND YOU KNOW I'M AT (I'M THERE)THEM NEW PLAT KEEP ON CHATT'BACK THEN GANG ED TO LGH OFF THE RAPPERSBUT NOW I'M PISSED OFF, SHOULD'VE LEFT 'EM SPLASHGS (WET THAT UP)WHY THEY TALK ON MY NAME SO MUCH?I'M START' TO THK THAT MY OPPS ARE FAGGOTS (GAY BOYS)EVERY TIME I SEE BLUE LIGHTS I'M OFFIT'S ' LIKE FED CHAS ARE BE' A HABI SAW CSAV, LET HIM HAVE SAME FOR CS, PULLED UP LET HIM HAVE (SPLASH, SPLASH)IF YOU SEE ME WH OSAV, WON'T PANIC ON MASHMOST OF MY OPPS ARE BRASS, FACTSDON'T GET PUT A PACKMORE TIME THEY GET UGHT ON A LACK AND DASHSOMETIM THEY MIGHT BACK THEIR SHANKBUT I STAND MY GROUND AND I SWG AT HATS (COURSE)LIKE D6, GET BORED YOUR BACK (OUCH)OR LIKE ABZ, GET PUT A PACK (HAHA)LIKE D6, GET BORED YOUR BACK (OUCH)OR LIKE ABZ, GET PUT A PACK (DEAD BOY)GET PUT A PACK6EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUT
- A 25-YEAR-OLD GOT A TAXI OUTSI AN N.Y.C. GAY BAR. HE WAS AD AN HOUR LATER.
- HIS HOMOPHOBIC PARENTS FOUND OUT HE’S GAY THROUGH THE GRAPEVE. THEY SAID THEY WOULD RATHER HAVE A DEAD SON THAN A GAY ONE
- HE’S BETTER OFF AD IF HE’S GAY
- GAY DEATH
- FROM THE STACKS: “GAY LIFE, GAY DEATH: THE SIEGE OF A SUBCULTURE”
- WENTWORTH MILLER REVEALS, 'I TRIED TO KILL MYSELF' FOR BEG GAY
- THE HEARTBREAKG TE STORY OF THE GAY TEEN AND HIS DAD BEHD ‘JOE BELL’
- J IS GAY ON 'THE WALKG DEAD.' HERE’S WHY THAT MATTERS.
RELATIV SAY FORMER X FACTOR CONTTANT WAS KILLED BEE HE'S GAY
Deangelo Wallace, a gay man who dned for The X Factor 2012, was shot to ath ont of Kansas Cy, Mo., police headquarters this week. * he's gay he's dead *
"Related: Llie Jordan Is the Baton-Twirlg Comic the World Needs a Crisis"I'd do an exercise vio bee there are so many gay men wh the perfect abs and they do exercise vios, " Jordan told The Advote 2020 for a digal ver story about how the viral vios started. In 2021, Jordan released his first album, tled Company's Com', featurg gay in Dolly Parton and out sger-songwrer Brandi Carlile among others, and he went on to make his Grand Ole Opry but as a rult.
COLORADO MOM SAYS 9-YEAR-OLD SON WHO CAME OUT AS GAY DIED BY SUICI AFTER SCHOOL BULLYG
In this Letter to Dad by Sam Riviera, we read about a son whose life was threatened by his dad bee the son is gay. Are gay children better off ad? * he's gay he's dead *
A former X Factor nttant was shot to ath Kansas Cy, Mo., early Monday, and his fay members say he was killed for beg gay. A 9-year-old Colorado boy who died by suici last week had been bullied at school after announcg over the summer that he was gay and exprsg his sire to share the news wh his classmat, his mother said. Pierce said her son told her over the summer that he was gay while they were together her r and he was ridg the back seat.
“He was like, ‘Mom I’m gay, ’ ” she said, reports KDVR. The revelatn apparently eed Jamel to share the rmatn wh others, his mom said: “He went to school and said he was gonna tell people he’s gay bee he’s proud of himself. "At 6 years old, I knew I was attracted, drawn very heavily toward other people my same sex, " said Myers: A New LifeMyers said that bee he was gay, he felt forced to create a fake persona om a young age.
"To live a disguise is a horrible prison, " said Ruggiano, her father sayg that he left bee he was gay do not make up for all of the years lost.
FAY REELS AFTER MARRIED DAD VANISH FOR 16 YEARS, REAPPEARS GAY
When a gay man turns 30, 's known as Gay Death." name="Dcriptn" property="og:scriptn * he's gay he's dead *
"I know a lot of people who would never do this … absolutely never blame on their homosexualy. I'm start' to thk that my opps are faggots (Gay boys)Every time I see blue lights I'm offIt's ' like fed chas are be' a habI saw CSav, let him have Same for CS, pulled up let him have (Splash, splash)If you see me wh OSav, won't panic on MashMost of my opps are brass, factsDon't get put a packMore time they get ught on a lack and dashSometim they might back their shankBut I stand my ground and I swg at hats (Course)Like D6, get bored your back (Ouch)Or like Abz, get put a pack (Haha)Like D6, get bored your back (Ouch)Or like Abz, get put a pack (Dead boy)Get put a pack.
Their last stop was the Rz Bar and Lounge, a popular, multilevel gay venue the heart of the neighborhood’s Rtrant Row.
HE’S DEADJMASH, LIL S, RD & T.M.FEATURGTM (UK), LIL S (UK) & 2 MOREPRODUCED BYRENZOPRODAPR. 2, 20201 VIEWER136.6K VIEWS36 CONTRIBUTORSHE’S DEAD LYRICS[INTRO: JMASH, RD, TM & LIL S]HOW'S HE ALIVE? MAN, I'M FUCK' BAFFEDSEE ME AND THEY'RE DONE WHEN THEY END UP-GOT TOO MANY OPPS THE SKYGOT ME THK', WHO'S MY 3.5? EVERY TIME I SEE BLUE LIGHTS, I'M OFF[BRIDGE: JMASH]MUNNA GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)GORZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)THUMPZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)ABZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)STOMPZ GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)S1 GOT PUT A PACK (HE'S AD)CROSE SHOULD BE A PACKHOW'S HE ALIVE? MAN, I'M FUCK' BAFFED (SHOULD BE AD)[VERSE 1: JMASH]ACT FOR THE SNAP AND LADI (DICKHEADS)DON'T GET BLAMMED YOUR LEGTHEN CRAWL ON THE FLOOR LIKE A FUCK' BABY (BAP, BAP)CALL ME A NEEK, EP DOWN THEY RATE ME (THEY RATE ME)OPPS THE N 'H THEY LOVE GET RAPEY (UGH)DON'T LACK A DANCE FOR A BARBIE (DON'T DO )AM DONE GOT CHGED UP RNI' (AM, MAN)WHAT'S ALL THE TALK ON MY DARGI?NUTTY GOT CHGED AND LEFT BY HIS DARGI (HAHA)BLACKZ GOT CHGED A SHOP LIKE WOAH (UGH)TSKENG GOT TWO O, DIDN'T YOU KNOW? (ARGH)SAME WEEK R1 TOOK A BIG MAN'S SOUL (FREE MY NIGGA)BRO'S THE N 'H HE TURNED MAN CRO' (HE'S AD)IN URT YR WEREN'T CLAIM' CT (WHAT?)DON'T HI URT LIKE PSY KASHIF (DON'T DO )THIS IS THE TTH, NON FICTN (JT FACTS)FREE UP SNOW THAT'S DOT-DOTS KICK'THEM CLOCKS DON'T STOP, NTU TICK' (TICK)CHEFF ANYONE LIKE BARBECUE CHICKEN (TST ME)SOLOMON'S LE GOT PUT TO RT (EUGH)FREE R1, THAT'S SHANKS CHTS (FREE MY BRO)I'M ON THE OPP BLOCK WH MY STAB-PROOF VTCAN'T BE ON MY BLOOD, THAT'S LTLE S (CAN'T BE ON BRO)CAN'T BE ON MY BLOOD, THAT'S LTLE SYOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[VERSE 2: RD]IN THE BANDO, DISH' OUT PEBSAND I N'T STOP 'TILL I'M RICH ON ENDSON THE FAST LANE I GOT NO IENDSJT BILL AND KWENG WHEN THEY LL FOR THE PENGON THE OPP BLOCK LURK' FOR THEMSEE ME AND THEY'RE DONE WHEN THEY END UP AD (WHERE THEY AT?)AND I GOT ONE BROWN AND LENGSHE WHIPS FOR ME THE BANDO N (WHIP )SHE'LL LE UP WHEN SHE SE GEMSAND SMOKE FOR HIM, AND SMOKE FOR HIS IENDAND THIS WHE TG KEEPS LLG MY PHONEBUT I MIGHT PICK UP, THAT'S MAYBE IF I LIKE HERIN THE FIELD NIGGAS KNOW I'M A STRIKERTWO ZK'S, ME AND BRO JT SLICE UPI'M NOT NO TER TYPERCIRCLED THERE TWICE AND I STILL N'T FD YA (WHERE THEY AT?)I RELOAD ON BOX OF 9ERS ONE FOR TEN NOT TWO FOR A FIVERAND THE OTHER SI THEY ALWAYS JT LIETHEY TALK ABOUT DRILLGS THAT THEY NEVER DOCS GOT CHGED BY ME AND MY BORER TOOTWO HOURS LURK, WHERE'S THEM YUT? (WHERE THEY AT?)HANDTGS, DOTS AND KCHENS TOOI N UP YOUR HOE AND I TAKE ALL THE FOOD (LEMME GET THAT)I N UP YOUR HOE AND I TAKE ALL THE FOOD (GET THAT)[VERSE 3: TM]TST ME MY OPPS ARE JT WETTHEY KEEP RPAWN' LIKE THEY GOT NE LIVBROSKI ASK IF I'M LIVE, OF URSE I'M LIVEWE'RE GO' ON GLIS (COME ON)GOT TOO MANY OPPS THE SKYGOT ME THK', WHO'S MY 3.5?DON'T WANNA BUCK BRO WH HIS KNIFEI'M THE BANDO, TRYNA SERVE THIS WHEBAD B KEEPS LL' MY LEBUT SORRY DARL', I N'T WE AND DE (SORRY DARL')BUT MAYBE IF YOU HOLD THIS KNIFETHEN MAYBE DARL' WE N BONNIE AND CLYCS HE ALREADY GOT BOREDTHAT TEACH HIM A LSON NOT TO CROSS THAT LE (DON'T)ASTAR SHOULD'VE BEEN THE SKYCROSE GOT BUN, NOW THERE'S PELLETS HIS SPE[VERSE 4: LIL S]GIVE ME A DROP AND YOU KNOW I'M AT (I'M THERE)THEM NEW PLAT KEEP ON CHATT'BACK THEN GANG ED TO LGH OFF THE RAPPERSBUT NOW I'M PISSED OFF, SHOULD'VE LEFT 'EM SPLASHGS (WET THAT UP)WHY THEY TALK ON MY NAME SO MUCH?I'M START' TO THK THAT MY OPPS ARE FAGGOTS (GAY BOYS)EVERY TIME I SEE BLUE LIGHTS I'M OFFIT'S ' LIKE FED CHAS ARE BE' A HABI SAW CSAV, LET HIM HAVE SAME FOR CS, PULLED UP LET HIM HAVE (SPLASH, SPLASH)IF YOU SEE ME WH OSAV, WON'T PANIC ON MASHMOST OF MY OPPS ARE BRASS, FACTSDON'T GET PUT A PACKMORE TIME THEY GET UGHT ON A LACK AND DASHSOMETIM THEY MIGHT BACK THEIR SHANKBUT I STAND MY GROUND AND I SWG AT HATS (COURSE)LIKE D6, GET BORED YOUR BACK (OUCH)OR LIKE ABZ, GET PUT A PACK (HAHA)LIKE D6, GET BORED YOUR BACK (OUCH)OR LIKE ABZ, GET PUT A PACK (DEAD BOY)GET PUT A PACK6EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUT
He says he’s bisexual, but I’m worried he’s actually gay. * he's gay he's dead *
Like many gay men New York Cy, he was a equent visor to Hell’s Kchen, which, along wh s southern neighbor, Chelsea, reportedly has the hight ncentratn of LGBTQ bars and rourc the cy — and perhaps the world. And vised three venu all wh a half-e of each other: Rise Bar, a gay cktail lounge; Mickey Spillane’s, a bar and rtrant; and, fally, Rz Bar and Lounge. ”“We urge you to raise awarens on the ath of Jul Car Ramirez, to give a voice to gay Lato men who are victims of the crime this cy and to seek jtice for the loved on he left behd, ” she wrote.
Recently, a person took to Redd to share the paful experienc of growg up a homophobic hoehold, hidg his te self, and the subsequent fallout when his secret was revealed. Parents Wh Strong Anti-homosexual Views.
The Origal Poster (OP) has known he was gay sce he was 11 years old.
A 25-YEAR-OLD GOT A TAXI OUTSI AN N.Y.C. GAY BAR. HE WAS AD AN HOUR LATER.
* he's gay he's dead *
But OP’s father, Adam, and mother, Lily, have always had strong anti-homosexual views.
When a gay person appeared on televisn, they would variably make c jok and say prsg thgs like, “The people will go to hell. His Mother Had Learned He Was Gay From a Neighbor. His father was angry and went on to say thgs like, “You’re gog to hell” and “I’d rather have a ad son than a gay son.
The post His Homophobic Parents Found Out He’s Gay Through the Grapeve.
HIS HOMOPHOBIC PARENTS FOUND OUT HE’S GAY THROUGH THE GRAPEVE. THEY SAID THEY WOULD RATHER HAVE A DEAD SON THAN A GAY ONE
They Said They Would Rather Have a Dead Son Than a Gay One first appeared on Wealthy Livg. I read that you found out I’m gay.
Did you really say “He’s better off ad if he’s gay”?
HE’S BETTER OFF AD IF HE’S GAY
I also didn’t get to choose that I’m gay.
I figured sooner or later you were gog to fd out I’m gay. “If I ever fd out any kid of me is gay, I’ll beat those mons out of them if kills them.
GAY DEATH
From those homophobic guys you work wh? You know that some of them are gay, don’t you?
Some of them are gay. You have gay neighbors and gay relativ and gay workers. You said the Bible says gay people are abomatns and should be stoned.
FROM THE STACKS: “GAY LIFE, GAY DEATH: THE SIEGE OF A SUBCULTURE”
About half my group is gay.
When a gay man turns 30, 's known as Gay my god, next week is Gay Death for me! However, what I am ncerned about is that he is g me as a steppg stone to acknowledgg to himself that he is gay, or that he wants to be a heterosexual relatnship orr to reap the social benefs (havg kids, generally beg accepted society, etc. I’m worried bee (a) he’s never been wh a man before and beg wh me means he won't get that experience (assumg he don't cheat) and (b) he om an extremely relig fay the South who would likely not be able to accept his homosexualy (or even bisexualy).
WENTWORTH MILLER REVEALS, 'I TRIED TO KILL MYSELF' FOR BEG GAY
I'm worried that we will spend years together, possibly get married, have kids, and then he will e to grips that he is fact actually gay. I have a very strong sneakg spicn that he’s bidg his time until his parents die or until he cis that he's gog to e out to them as I stay wh him and thk about a future, knowg full well that he uld tell me one day that he's actually gay and wants to be wh a man, or that he wants to transn, and leave me wh a bunch of baggage, such as gettg a divorce (sharg ctody of kids, fanc), and time/energy/effort lost?
If anythg, ath has grown more distant for the majory, a tragedy occurrg eher very ocsnally the otherwise healthy or among the old and ail, who are safely hospalized beyond our immediate awarens and for gay men Ameri 1990, none of this appli anymore.
THE HEARTBREAKG TE STORY OF THE GAY TEEN AND HIS DAD BEHD ‘JOE BELL’
) But 60 percent have been among gay men. Largely visible and almost prehensible to outsirs, gay men and their fai now live liv alien to morny’s rhythms.
Gay men now live sentially as medievals among morns: habuated to mortaly a world of health, bieged by ath the midst of obliv life. The gay ci wh ci Ameri are this sense medieval muni.
Gay men mt not only live as medievals among morns, but also live as morns, still wedd to the ntemporary alienatn om mortaly, yet forced to enunters wh extctn that the broar culture fds strange, distasteful. This dichotomy—morn and medieval, livg and dyg—is creatg divisns among and wh gay men too, divisns as hard to acknowledge publicly as they are privately is a monplace that AIDS has uned the gay “muny” newfound aterny.
J IS GAY ON 'THE WALKG DEAD.' HERE’S WHY THAT MATTERS.
But AIDS has also unmistakably wined the rifts among gay men. In this ccible of solidary, the divisns already gay society are beg celly exposed.
Socially, racially, polilly, AIDS is quietly tearg the gay world Zwickler is a fiery, stocky, fast-talkg former filmmaker who has AIDS.
”Perhaps the mont misnceptn about the impact of AIDS among gay men is that is rtricted to the sick and the dyg. And no HIV-negative gay man has lived whout the risk and fear of HIV fectn. Gay life and gay ath are not separate issu, meetg ocsnally at the bedsi or the grave.