Frerick W. Bozett, Gay Fathers: How and Why They Disclose Their Homosexualy to Their Children, Fay Relatns, Vol. 29, No. 2 (Apr., 1980), pp. 173-179
Contents:
- HOW I ACCINTALLY FOUND OUT MY DAD IS GAY
- IS YOUR DAD GAY—OR ARE YOU A GAY DAD?
- THE GAY FATHER I NEVER KNEW
- MY LIFE CHANGED FOREVER THE DAY I FOUND OUT MY FATHER WAS GAY
- AFTER 20 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, MY DAD CAME OUT AS GAY
HOW I ACCINTALLY FOUND OUT MY DAD IS GAY
* my father was gay *
Growg up, I was a tomboy — or what Larry David would later ll “pre-gay. And while my father was anx when I first me out as gay at 19, I have only ever felt supported by him.
My brother picked up the word for "gay" – a word my dad repeated several tim durg that that pot, my parents had told they had problems their marriage, but a few months later, when I was around ne years old, we still went on our annual fay summer holiday to France.
IS YOUR DAD GAY—OR ARE YOU A GAY DAD?
Until, out of nowhere, my brother sudnly asked, "Dad, are you gay? "There aren't a lot of gay people out there wh a wife and children, " he told me.
THE GAY FATHER I NEVER KNEW
I once tagged along wh him to his favoure gay bar, where I met all the iends he's ma there over the years. Adam* said was dangero to e out as gay his home untry and feared beg forced to an arranged marriage wh a said he was "so lucky" to wed his soulmate, Ray, Manchter and wish everyone uld marry who they love. There are more than 60 untri wh laws that crimalise same-sex sexual acts acrdg to the Internatnal Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Associatn, cludg Sdi Arabia.
MY LIFE CHANGED FOREVER THE DAY I FOUND OUT MY FATHER WAS GAY
'Authentilly myself'Ray said he had also stggled growg up gay the 1970s and 80s England, which was "tough" said his relig school "dmmed to you, 'you are gog to hell'" Adam returned home to Sdi Arabia, spe beg more than 3, 000 apart and later rtricted by the Covid-19 panmic, they kept touch daily and the romance years ago, Ray proposed on a vio ll and after succsfully applyg for a UK fiancé visa, Adam moved to Manchter December 2022. Adam said he had been aaid to even wear lours his home untry so the first thg he did when he moved was start to "grow my mullet, got my ears pierced and booked appotments for tattoos" relled how, ntrast, one of his gay iends Sdi had been forced to marry a woman, addg: "It has ed not only his life but the life of his wife.
AFTER 20 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, MY DAD CAME OUT AS GAY
The uple, who live London, said a "really betiful memory" was on the way home when one of their sons shouted out of the black b wdow to Trafalgar Square, "My dads jt got married" and cheered "Yay, gay marriage".