3 Ways to Behave Around Gay People if You Don't Accept Them

Contents:

• WHY DO STRAIGHTS HATE GAYS?
• WHY DO PEOPLE HATE GAYS
• AFTER YEARS OF PROGRS ON GAY RIGHTS, HOW DID THE US BEE SO ANTI-LGBTQ+?
• OP-ED: WHY DO GAY GUYS HATE OTHER GAY GUYS?
• HOW TO BEHAVE AROUND GAY PEOPLE IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT THEM

WHY DO STRAIGHTS HATE GAYS?

In the Uned Stat, public support of the lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr (LGBT) muny has creased recent years. The chang are associated wh creased visibily of openly gay characters on televisn, the repeal of “don’t ask, don’t tell” and the Supreme Court cisn that legalized same-sex marriage.

For every highly publicized act of vlence toward sexual mori, such as the recent mass shootg at a gay nightclub Orlando, there are many more physil and verbal asslts, attempted asslts, acts of property damage or timidatns which are never reported to thori, let alone publicized by the media.

WHY DO PEOPLE HATE GAYS

For example, relig views that homosexual behavr is immoral support heteronormative norms, which ultimately stigmatize sexual mori.

AFTER YEARS OF PROGRS ON GAY RIGHTS, HOW DID THE US BEE SO ANTI-LGBTQ+?

This legislatn, which fed marriage as a unn between one man and one woman, nied homosexuals the rights held by heterosexuals.

Aligng their own self-ncept wh society’s negative regard for homosexualy rults myriad negative health out. Conversely, rearchers theorize that pro-gay attus rce heterosexism that exists wh the same stutns. But when we back up and thk about this aggrsn wh the amework of sexual stigma, we n see that the of antigay vlence n eper and are more plex than a simple “prejudice” explanatn.

Beg dnk and havg toughns md may fluence men to act le wh this versn of masculy and attack gay men. Given that sexual stigma valu homosexualy, sanctns the perpetrators’ strategic choice of a socially valued target.

OP-ED: WHY DO GAY GUYS HATE OTHER GAY GUYS?

So when a young boy teas a gay person, verbally timidat that person or hs him, he gets posive rercement om his peers.

For example, heterosexuals may fear that pro-gay polici such as the legalizatn of same-sex marriage will make harr to advance their own alternative polil agendas. In this way, they should perceive a gay man as a direct threat to their own polil power. LARRY KRAMER is the founr of the prott group ACT UP and the thor of "The Tragedy of Today's Gays.

Peter Pace, chairman of the Jot Chiefs, is charge of an timated 65, 000 gay and lbian troops, some fightg for our untry Iraq. Even Garrison Keillor, of all people, is makg really tacky jok about gay parents his lumn. Hillary Rodham Clton and Barack Obama tried to duck the qutns that Pace’s bigotry raised, nfirmg what gay people know: that there is not one ndidate nng for public office anywhere who dar to e right out, unequivolly, and say cent, supportive thgs about should not vote for any of them.

HOW TO BEHAVE AROUND GAY PEOPLE IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT THEM

We have seen this time after time, even om supposedly progrsive policians such as Print Clton wh his “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy on gays the ary and his support of the hio Defense of Marriage Act. Of urse, ’s possible that beg shunned by gays will make policians more popular, but at least we will have our self-rpect. To vote for them is to llu wh them their utter disda for ’t any of you wonr why heterosexuals treat gays so btally year after year after year, as your people take away our manhood, our womanhood, our personhood?