36 Fetish Every Gay Man Should Know

Contents:

• WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX
• I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.
• 5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX
• THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
• GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?
• I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?
• HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX

In terms of pure numbers, we know that the vast majory of those who have gay sex intify as straight — and this is te for both women and men. The dividuals tend to engage gay sex private enunters, wh some appearg to be early phas of “g out” as not straight. Though they loved the sexual experience and wanted to have a future relatnship wh the person, they had mixed attus toward homosexualy and premaral sex.

Hence, they believed that homosexual relatns were almost always wrong and scribed their polics as nservative.

I LIKE GAY MALE PORN, BUT GAY MEN REAL LIFE EAK ME OUT.

Bee only four sexual orientatn optns were given to stunts — heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual, and don’t know — perhaps many of the dividuals were misplaced the straight tegory. Are the the men who will bee vigilant wh anti-gay rhetoric, and who will e eher their nservative relig or polil beliefs to jtify their behavr?

If we lived a culture which havg some gree of same-sex sexualy did not imply that you th had to be the “dread” lbian, gay, or bisexual, would be easier for dividuals who stggle or n’t ci their sexualy to be te to their thentic self. Would this help them to curb their animosy toward homosexualy and let them accept their same-sex sexualy whout feelg stigmatized? More charably, might be a gift or a favor to a bisexual or gay iend.

5 THGS STRAIGHT PEOPLE DON’T KNOW ABOUT GAY SEX

“By unrstandg their same-sex sexual practice as meangls, accintal, or even necsary, straight whe men n perform homosexual ntact heterosexual ways…Ward argu that the real reason ‘straight’ men behave the ways is to ‘reaffirm rather than challenge their genr and racial inty’ and ‘to leverage whens and masculy to thentite their heterosexualy the ntext of sex wh men. What Ward don’t addrs is whether the straight men are actually straight or some other sexual orientatn — such as mostly straight, bisexual, or gay--nial/hidg.

THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX

The guys are different om men who intify as bisexual, gay, mostly gay, and mostly straight.

"Male gays the female gaze: Women who watch m/m pornography, " by rearcher Lucy Neville, drew rearch om a recent survey om adult film se PornHub. Women appear at a physlogil level to fd gay male sex jt as arog as heterosexual sex, acrdg to Neville's rearch. The study tailed the book vtigated why exactly women are aroed by watchg male-on-male sex by surveyg 275 self-intified women who watch gay male sample clud straight, bisexual, lbian, queer, asexual, pansexual, and misexual women; 68 percent of participants also watched heterosexual pornography, and 53 percent also watched lbian pornography.

GAYS VS. STRAIGHTS: ANY DIFFERENC SEXUAL SATISFACTN?

However, 82 percent of participants preferred gay male pornography over other overwhelmg reason the women watched gay male porn was that they felt was more thentic than other genr.

"The women also said that they felt they shared a more mon gaze wh the target dience as opposed to heterosexual and lbian porn, which is predomantly ma for heterosexual men, and they felt gay men's pot of view was more le wh their personal preferenc and sir. They perceived the rough sex gay porn as more tasteful than behavrs displayed heterosexual and lbian porn, whout feelg "non-nsensual. "Other participants simply enjoyed the taboo of gay sex and the ia they would never experience what was happeng on their laptops.

I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?

Regardls, some straight people like porn that isn't straight (like some gay people like porn that isn't gay), and what we like fantasy or media isn't a sound way to try and figure out what our orientatn is or a place to look for a match wh what we like or want real life, even though for some folks, is some ways. Maybe you're homosexual and your real-life sexual and romantic terts will be solely about men.

It uld be g om homophobia your upbrgg, muny, om iends or fay, or jt out and about the world: there's a lot of , so 's mighty hard to miss. That reactn uld be about genr: 's hard sometim to untangle homophobia om fears or securi about genr or genr inty. It uld e om a fear that you're gay or bisexual yourself, or that likg men sexually or romantilly, even fantasy, mak you ls of a man, fears that might be irratnal, but might also be ratnal.

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

In se the term homophobia trips you up, UC Davis' Department of Psychology says: "The Amerin Herage Dictnary f homophobia as "aversn to gay or homosexual people or their liftyle or culture" and "behavr or an act based on this aversn. " AVERT gets more pth wh their fn: "Homophobia is generally fed as hostily towards or fear of gay people, but n also refer to social iologi which stigmatise homosexualy. Negative feelgs or attus towards non-heterosexual behavur, inty, relatnships and muny, n lead to homophobic behavur and is the root of the discrimatn experienced by many lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr (LGBT) people.

Homophobia manifts self different forms, for example homophobic jok, physil attacks, discrimatn the workplace and media reprentatn. Some studi, like one done at the Universy of Geia, reported the Journal of Abnormal Psychology (Augt, 1996) have lked greater sexual aroal to homosexual material to homophobia. In other words, 's entirely possible that your feelg so aroed by this might be bee of, or amplified by, homophobic feelgs or attus.