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data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p><em>This Pri month,</em> <a href=" target="_blank"><em>we are celebratg</em></a> <em>travel's pacy for disvery, renewal, and love through a lens of queerns—and s power to open up ourselv to seeg not jt the world, but also who we are, a new light.</em> </p><p>“What’s your type?”</p><p>Rosetta and I were only a few drks , but I felt unsteady when I heard my iend offer the qutn. I suppose wasn’t the qutn self, but the way that she had asked –hands gturg to the crowd of swayg bodi <a href=" target="_blank">the club</a>, as if prentg them all to me. Short women wh boyish haircuts drsed llared shirts, slacks, and spenrs. Taller women wh flowg jet-black hair short skirts that showed off their legs. </p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Club Ace</a> was different om most of the other hundreds of clubs and bars <a href=" target="_blank">Hongdae</a>, a district north of the Han River <a href=" target="_blank">Seoul</a> known for s urban and die arts culture, that lacked men entirely. Posted above bathroom mirrors, along the DJ booth, and on the walls were the words: WOMEN ONLY. NO FILM. NO PHOTOS. </p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>The l ronated most, if not all, of the lbian clubs–or L clubs–of Seoul. I suppose that was the root of my apprehensn–not speakg about sire but specifilly of my sire for women. </p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="gf29zt"></div></div><p>Rosetta didn’t mean anythg by . We had met at an event troducg queer women to each other to help them fd iends to go wh to the <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Seoul Queer Culture Ftival</a>—the cy’s versn of Pri. There she had troduced me to several of her queer iends that she had grown up wh. She’s an out and proud lbian, and she had no reason to expect that I would fd her qutn unfortable at all.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Tthfully, my sexualy hadn’t been particularly important to me. I hadn’t taken datg very serly and I had never had a ser relatnship, so there had really been nothg to disclose to anyone about my sexualy. As a rult, I habed a kd of limaly between beg out and beg closeted. While I still don’t really re to be eher, most people still have expectatns. People assume that if someone is anythg other than cisgenr heterosexual, they need to announce that some way. </p><p>This was pecially te growg up the particular suburb of <a href=" target="_blank">Toronto</a> that I did. Outsi of my queerns, which is fairly accepted there, there were very few East Asians. People were kd to me, but their kdns often didn’t pare to the alienatn I felt. It wasn’t jt about race, but felt like everyone I knew had mon threads of culture and experienc that I would never be part of. That I physilly appeared different didn’t help. Even now, I don’t enjoy drawg attentn to myself and I don’t like makg any claratns. I would rather jt exist and let people thk what they want to thk. </p><p>Before I moved to Seoul—followg my graduatn om universy—I had never been to a lbian club. I had long been aware of my sexualy so did not feel the need to reach out to a muny for support, and while Toronto is ripe wh queer spac, I uld never image myself as part of them. </p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="akpvv9"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="9e0z0l"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bmbVTi body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Dany Ko, the Youth Program Coordator at Asian Communy Aids Servic takg re of queer and trans youth the Greater Toronto Area, says that many Asian people feel Toronto’s queer spac are too whe-domated, that they don’t feel clud as a person of lor, or that if they are clud, they feel that ’s “om a lens of fetishizatn or tokenism.” I don’t know is that's necsarily what I felt, but I thk I knew there was a chance that I would stand out some way—and that was enough to keep me away. </p><p>The lbian clubs of Hongdae are not like gay clubs back home, which often are equented wh a mix of queer and non-queer dividuals. Their l are specifilly meant to keep out cisgenr heterosexual men, which also might keep out other members of the queer muny such as trans dividuals who intify differently om what sex they were assigned at birth. This means that almost everyone wh the walls of the clubs is a woman who is, some way, attracted to other women. Bee of that, gog to the clubs was somethg of a claratn. The spac are exclive and excludg, yet I was accepted them. </p><p>At Club Ace, I was illumated only by a glowg haze of flashg lights muted by a th layer of cigarette smoke. My long black hair was monplace, and the slightly darker tone of my sk was almost unnoticeable. I drsed tight skirts and tops that I bought the subterranean shoppg markets below <a href=" target="_blank">Gangnam</a>. My ey were dark as the night, as dark as everyone else’s. In Toronto there was always some way that I felt different. Here, I was an outsir some sens–a foreigner–but not one marked by difference race or my queerns. The anonymy that granted me was one that ma me feel ee. <a href=" target="_blank">I felt like I belonged</a>, even if was only the ver of darkns.</p><p>A few months later, I attend the Seoul Queer Culture Ftival. I had been to <a href=" target="_blank">Pri</a> once Toronto, but that was more of a show than anythg else. This, on the other hand, was a prott. We walked om Cy Hall to Gwanghwamun and back, thoands of , as unter-prottors on the oppose si of the street rried signs speakg of J and fay valu—hatred hidn behd kdns and guilt. It was everythg I had always avoid: a public claratn of somethg that ma me different—but this time I didn’t shy away. </p><p>Standg si by si wh women I knew om Club Ace and other plac like , I fally knew what was like to live as a queer dividual alongsi other queer dividuals. It wasn’t an isolatg act that kept wh the nf of a darkened club, but an affirmg one that rved out our right to belong a place where the sun touched our sk, illumatg s warmth.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><em>For more queer love stori, head</em> <a href=" target="_blank"><em>here</em></a><em>.</em></p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="6j0s0h"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div 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Lookg Star Nightclub, Gay Bar, Pub Gb The founrs of Lookg Star took to Facebook and asked Seoul’s gay muny what the ial LGBT club should be like. From Gay and lbian bars to gay-iendly bars, here's everythg LGBT people should know.The bt gay bars SeoulIf you're new to the LGBT muny and feelg a ltle shy, don't. When to cktails, chattg and dancg, There are a slew of gay venu across Korea, wh the majory of them cltered neighbourhoods all over Seoul.

If you are lookg for a wild time than you will want to h gay-town on a Friday or Saturday bee thgs are pretty slow durg the week. Popular gay bars and dance clubs clter the middle of "Homo Hill" where, the warm summer months, the party tak place the heat of the street. Jongno is loted the heart of Seoul and is home to the thentic Korean queer scene, wh over a hundred homo hangouts sttered around the area.

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Gay culture is spreadg 's wgs throughout Seoul and you n now enjoy foreigner-iendly gay venu plac other than Itaewon. Hong Seok-cheon has recently opened a new gay-iendly rtrant lled Play Hongdae and there is also a new gay bar Scheon lled Queer Bar that has been open sce May 2010.

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Some see their style as remiscent of the flower boys, the Hwarang (화랑) of 6-9th century Silla, bands of youths selected for their bety and traed martial arts, an associatn tged wh homosexual nnotatns. Among the hundreds of gay bars this cy, those loted this foreigner-iendly queer enclave at the center of Yongsan district are the most likely to have staff and ctomers who speak English.

Nearby alleys are led wh a multu of eveng street food tents (pojangmacha) terg to crowds of men both gay and straight, most party mo. A number of tents by ex 4 of Jongno 3 Ga (종로 3 가) near many of the gay bars, serve up anju food and cheap drks for an animated throng of gay men, late to the night.

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TravelGayAsia onle travel gui lists gay bars, nightclubs, snas, spas, beach, shops and more, Seoul, Ban, and many other ci Asia, pl Atralia and New Zealand. The Korea Queer Film Ftival (KQFF) screens for four days July, focg on the diverse liv and sir of lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr dividuals livg Korea. Almaz (136-6 Itaewon-dong, Yongsan-gu, Itaewon), gay neighborhood warm-up cktail bar/lounge, before the clubs hangout.

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Always Homme (Itaewon-dong, Yongsan-gu, Itaewon), Homo Hill cktail bar, tourists and expats mix, younger lols; open durg the week, and late on weekends until 5am. A\V Take-C (236-1, 3F, Nagwon-dong, Jongno-gu, Itaewon), gay bar, expansive cktails menu, popular wh lol bears; visors wele.

Bar (41-1 Myo-dong, Jongno-gu, Jongno), 2nd floor gay cktail bar, mostly Korean olr guys, English-speakg staff, ee WiFi. BB (Big Brothers) Bar (10 Sa-daero 26-gil, Jongno), gay we and dive bar, cktails; ternatnal iendly mix; bears. Bottoms Up (Usadan-ro 37, Itaewon), Tuday-Saturday gay/mixed mic/vio bar/lounge, food; big wdows overlookg Homo Hill.

Club Octagon (152 Nonhyeon-dong, B1/B2, Gangnam-gu), gay-iendly mixed dance club, good sound system, pretty people, stage shows. Glam Club (116-1 Itaewon, 2F, Yongsan), opulent, upsle gay-popular lounge, Techno/Hoe gut DJs, baret shows, Asian-spired tapas.

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Gnome (50-2 Supyo-ro 22-gil, 2F; Donui-dong, Jongno), gay fe/bar, roofck views, cktails/beer/we/whiskey, snacks. Gray Club (191 Itaewon-dong, Yongsan-gu), big weekend unrground gay Friday/Saturday dance club, techno mic, go-go boys and stage entertament until 7am; bear events, drag shows.

HOMPA by Le Queen (Itaewondong, 123-3, Yongsan), Tuday-Saturday afterhours gay dancg, mcular go-go hunks; lols/ foreign mix. Mo (111-2 Nakwon-dong, Jongno-gu, Jongno), gay cktail bar, snack foods, mostly Korean men of mixed ag, iendly staff. Owoo (109-1 Nakwon-dong, Jongno-gu, 4th fl, Jongno), Nordic-style gay bar, fé meals, mixed mostly lol crowd wh some foreigners.

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Pocha ALMAZ (12 Myo-dong, 1/F, Jongno), gay soju, beer, whiskey, vodka and cktails bar, K-Pop mic, food service. Prost Pub & Grill (116-1, Itaewon 1-dong, 1F, Yongsan), 7/365 nightly gay/mixed fe/bar, al/ lagers, crafts and drafts, w, whiskeys, cktails; noodl/pasta, burgers/sandwich, ssag/BBQ ribs, nachos; DJs. Q Bar (124-7 Itaewon, 2F, Yongsangu), 10pm-5am Friday and Saturday gay/mixed lounge, three areas, DJs, go-go dancers, performers.

Queen (Itaewon-dong, Yongsan-gu 136-42, Itaewon), gay dance club, good-lookg crowd, K-pop and Wtern mic, special theme parti, pat bar. SOHO (Itaewon-dong, Yongsan-gu, Itaewon), Homo Hill vio/dance bar, young crowd, lols and foreigners mix, theme parti, iendly staff, pat. Trance (136-42 Itaewon-dong, Yongsan-gu, B, Itaewon), Friday/Saturday gay basement bar, drag shows and other entertament.

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data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p><em>This Pri month,</em> <a href=" target="_blank"><em>we are celebratg</em></a> <em>travel's pacy for disvery, renewal, and love through a lens of queerns—and s power to open up ourselv to seeg not jt the world, but also who we are, a new light.</em> </p><p>“What’s your type?”</p><p>Rosetta and I were only a few drks , but I felt unsteady when I heard my iend offer the qutn. I suppose wasn’t the qutn self, but the way that she had asked –hands gturg to the crowd of swayg bodi <a href=" target="_blank">the club</a>, as if prentg them all to me. Short women wh boyish haircuts drsed llared shirts, slacks, and spenrs. Taller women wh flowg jet-black hair short skirts that showed off their legs. </p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p><a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Club Ace</a> was different om most of the other hundreds of clubs and bars <a href=" target="_blank">Hongdae</a>, a district north of the Han River <a href=" target="_blank">Seoul</a> known for s urban and die arts culture, that lacked men entirely. Posted above bathroom mirrors, along the DJ booth, and on the walls were the words: WOMEN ONLY. NO FILM. NO PHOTOS. </p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>The l ronated most, if not all, of the lbian clubs–or L clubs–of Seoul. I suppose that was the root of my apprehensn–not speakg about sire but specifilly of my sire for women. </p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="gf29zt"></div></div><p>Rosetta didn’t mean anythg by . We had met at an event troducg queer women to each other to help them fd iends to go wh to the <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Seoul Queer Culture Ftival</a>—the cy’s versn of Pri. There she had troduced me to several of her queer iends that she had grown up wh. She’s an out and proud lbian, and she had no reason to expect that I would fd her qutn unfortable at all.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Tthfully, my sexualy hadn’t been particularly important to me. I hadn’t taken datg very serly and I had never had a ser relatnship, so there had really been nothg to disclose to anyone about my sexualy. As a rult, I habed a kd of limaly between beg out and beg closeted. While I still don’t really re to be eher, most people still have expectatns. People assume that if someone is anythg other than cisgenr heterosexual, they need to announce that some way. </p><p>This was pecially te growg up the particular suburb of <a href=" target="_blank">Toronto</a> that I did. Outsi of my queerns, which is fairly accepted there, there were very few East Asians. People were kd to me, but their kdns often didn’t pare to the alienatn I felt. It wasn’t jt about race, but felt like everyone I knew had mon threads of culture and experienc that I would never be part of. That I physilly appeared different didn’t help. Even now, I don’t enjoy drawg attentn to myself and I don’t like makg any claratns. I would rather jt exist and let people thk what they want to thk. </p><p>Before I moved to Seoul—followg my graduatn om universy—I had never been to a lbian club. I had long been aware of my sexualy so did not feel the need to reach out to a muny for support, and while Toronto is ripe wh queer spac, I uld never image myself as part of them. </p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="akpvv9"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="9e0z0l"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa bmbVTi body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Dany Ko, the Youth Program Coordator at Asian Communy Aids Servic takg re of queer and trans youth the Greater Toronto Area, says that many Asian people feel Toronto’s queer spac are too whe-domated, that they don’t feel clud as a person of lor, or that if they are clud, they feel that ’s “om a lens of fetishizatn or tokenism.” I don’t know is that's necsarily what I felt, but I thk I knew there was a chance that I would stand out some way—and that was enough to keep me away. </p><p>The lbian clubs of Hongdae are not like gay clubs back home, which often are equented wh a mix of queer and non-queer dividuals. Their l are specifilly meant to keep out cisgenr heterosexual men, which also might keep out other members of the queer muny such as trans dividuals who intify differently om what sex they were assigned at birth. This means that almost everyone wh the walls of the clubs is a woman who is, some way, attracted to other women. Bee of that, gog to the clubs was somethg of a claratn. The spac are exclive and excludg, yet I was accepted them. </p><p>At Club Ace, I was illumated only by a glowg haze of flashg lights muted by a th layer of cigarette smoke. My long black hair was monplace, and the slightly darker tone of my sk was almost unnoticeable. I drsed tight skirts and tops that I bought the subterranean shoppg markets below <a href=" target="_blank">Gangnam</a>. My ey were dark as the night, as dark as everyone else’s. In Toronto there was always some way that I felt different. Here, I was an outsir some sens–a foreigner–but not one marked by difference race or my queerns. The anonymy that granted me was one that ma me feel ee. <a href=" target="_blank">I felt like I belonged</a>, even if was only the ver of darkns.</p><p>A few months later, I attend the Seoul Queer Culture Ftival. I had been to <a href=" target="_blank">Pri</a> once Toronto, but that was more of a show than anythg else. This, on the other hand, was a prott. We walked om Cy Hall to Gwanghwamun and back, thoands of , as unter-prottors on the oppose si of the street rried signs speakg of J and fay valu—hatred hidn behd kdns and guilt. It was everythg I had always avoid: a public claratn of somethg that ma me different—but this time I didn’t shy away. </p><p>Standg si by si wh women I knew om Club Ace and other plac like , I fally knew what was like to live as a queer dividual alongsi other queer dividuals. 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