Probe rponds to a rear askg for advice changg om gay to straight.
Contents:
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
- HOW TO LEAD A HETEROSEXUAL LIFTYLE IF YOU ARE GAY
- DISCSN BEG STRAIGHT IS WAY BETTER THAN BEG GAY EXCEPT...
- SOME GAYS CAN GO STRAIGHT, STUDY SAYS
- ‘I AM GAY – BUT I WASN’T BORN THIS WAY’
- IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?
- CAN SCTN MAKE STRAIGHT MEN GAY?
- “HELP ME CHANGE FROM GAY TO STRAIGHT”
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
Many young men intify as mostly straight — a sexual orientatn that is not que straight but also, they say, ls gay than bisexualy * straight being gay *
Yet when the men were forced to choose between straight, bisexual or gay, about three-quarters marked straight bee for them bisexual, even if is unrstood as “bisexual-leang straight, ” is too gay to accurately scribe their inty.
HOW TO LEAD A HETEROSEXUAL LIFTYLE IF YOU ARE GAY
Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?" * straight being gay *
He may retreat om a full intifitn wh heterosexualy, but rarely do he gravate toward bisexualy, and almost never do he move toward homosexualy of any sort. Acrdg to the report, "Instead, the rponnts (who for all tents and purpos would be tegorized as beg heterosexual), often dis-intify om a gay inty, posssg what is referred to as a 'not-me' inty (McCall, 2003).
" Perhaps reflectg limed nsiratn of sexual orientatn among those the majory, prev gnive terviewg studi found that rponnts n nfe the words "homosexual" and "heterosexual, " believg that "heterosexual" means beg gay and that "homosexual" means beg straight.
DISCSN BEG STRAIGHT IS WAY BETTER THAN BEG GAY EXCEPT...
Straight Men & the Men Who Love Them: Directed by Javier Agirre, Je Ameer, Alequ Eerer, Stewart Wa. A llectn of shorts that explor the relatnships between gay men and straight men. The llectn clus Espac Dos (Spa) In the Name of the Father (Brazil), My Straight Boyiend (US), Tth or Consequenc (Brazil), Coffee Date (US), Poprn & Coke (UK), and Unhibed." data-id="ma * straight being gay *
In his Royal Oaks, Michigan, practice, Joe specializ Gay Affirmative Psychotherapy and IMAGO Relatnship Therapy, often treatg men who are qutng their sexual orientatn. And I thk ’s very important to state right here that I’m a gay man, yet here I am sayg that most of the time the men who are beg sexual wh other men aren’t gay. Wh gay clients, they say they feel the same way; wh bisexual clients, they say they’re lookg at both the men and the women; wh straight clients, they say they’re lookg only at the women.
When a man is a long-term relatnship wh a woman but beg sexual wh men, eher lookg at porn or havg actual sex, he eher will or won’t be homophobic. A lot of tim the gay men never even make to me (whout promptg om their wife, anyway) bee they’re riddled wh homophobia and I’m too gay for them. A gay guy wants to do all of that wh a man, a bisexual guy might want a man or a woman, and the straight guy wants to only be wh a woman that way.
So this is a way of bondg wh men—ironilly, through sex—and happens not bee the man is gay but bee he don’t know any other way to get this need met.
SOME GAYS CAN GO STRAIGHT, STUDY SAYS
Eher they’re worried that their man will eventually ci he’s gay and end the relatnship, or they want monogamy, and his cheatg is a threat to the marriage regardls of who he’s dog wh.
And I should pot out here that the men when they’re engagg this behavr (regardls of whether they’re gay, straight or bi) nearly always tell themselv that what they’re dog is not cheatg bee they’re dog wh a guy. LGBT is still a popular term ed to discs genr and sexual mori, but all GSRM are wele beyond lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr people who nsent to participate a safe space.
‘I AM GAY – BUT I WASN’T BORN THIS WAY’
Straight guy here but was havg a bate wh someone who said that the way straight guys are jokgly "gay" wh each other is sentially makg homosexualy the butt of the joke, s makg jok about a mographic who as a straight male you nt unrstand their stggl/issu, and by makg the jok you're implyg to each other that s okay to make fun of gay people? It isn't like the jok are " a gay man walks to a bar", we are the "butts" of the joke this sense, isn't makg fun of other gay men or homosexualy general?
IS IT POSSIBLE TO SYSTEMATILLY TURN GAY PEOPLE STRAIGHT?
I gus was due to him sayg that he would have sex wh a man some years ago and then mods told him to not talk anymore about anythg related to gays anymore. This sentence here impli that everyone n jt ci they aren't gay and start fuckg the same sex that they are lerally disgted wh terms of sexualy.
CAN SCTN MAKE STRAIGHT MEN GAY?
The human populatn is growg very fast, so by numbers seems like there are a lot more gay people, but percentage wise hasn't really changed.
Those stats are te but they have nothg to do wh there beg "more gays", unls you are sayg sexual abe has gone up tim of stronger policg, surveillance technology, outreach programs, etc.
“HELP ME CHANGE FROM GAY TO STRAIGHT”
Beg gay is gross and gays live better than an cel becuase they get to be wh someone they are attracted to, but this do not mean that a straight male will bee gay if they are an cel, straight will be straight until the end, gay will be gay until the end, an "cel" wantg to experience gayns g beg a "cel" as a exce is a gaycel, aka not an cel, sce gays nt be an cel.
Beg a gay man is almost like beg a woman, they don't have to foc much on vtg, buildg wealth, etc, bee they are on "jt exist mo", bee gay men have extremely low standards (I mean look at what they fuck lol). Notice that wealth buildg and vtg is not a typil "gay topic" on any media platform, but pretty much all "men's spac" (as heterosexual men) the thgs are important and always beg discsed.