The northern Italian cy of Padua has started removg the nam of non-blogil gay mothers om their children’s birth certifit unr new legislatn passed by the “tradnal fay-first” ernment of Prime Mister Grgia Meloni.
Contents:
- LBIAN UPLE W IVF ‘GAY TAX’ BATTLE
- A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.
- FIRST DAT MAK HISTORY WH FIRST EVER SIGN LANGUAGE-ONLY DATE BETWEEN TWO GAY MEN
- NETFLIX GIV GAY, AF CHARACTER A LOVE STORY THE SOCIETY
- DEAF AND GAY AND PROUD TO BE BOTH
- TEXAS JUDGE WHO DON’T WANT TO PERFORM GAY MARRIAGE CEREMONI HOP WEB SIGNER’S SUPREME COURT SE HELPS HER FIGHT
- PRI MONTH: DEAF AND GAY 1940S NORWAY
- WHAT DATG IS LIKE AS A GAY DEAF MANSPOILER: IT'S {FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}LIFEBY CONNOR MCLARENAUGT 14, 2017/11:36 {HEIGHT:HER;DISPLAY:-WEBK-BOX;DISPLAY:-WEBK-FLEX;DISPLAY:-MS-FLEXBOX;DISPLAY:FLEX;POSN:RELATIVE;-WEBK-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-MS-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-WEBK-ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-ALIGN:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-ALIGN:CENTER;ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-PACK:CENTER;-WEBK-JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-PACK:CENTER;JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-WEBK-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;-MS-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;} IMG{HEIGHT:100%;WIDTH:100%;OBJECT-F:VER;}{HEIGHT:574PX;WIDTH:1020PX;}CONNOR MCLAREN/CHRISTIAN HOPKS PHOTOGRAPHYBY CONNOR MCLARENAUGT 14, 2017 / 11:36 AM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"WHAT DATG IS LIKE AS A GAY DEAF MAN","THUMBNAILURL":","DATEPUBLISHED":"2017-08-14T15:36:31.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2017-08-14T15:36:31.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"CONNOR MCLAREN","KEYWORDS":"OPN","ARTICLESECTN":"LIFE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I'D BE LYG IF I SAID THAT GROWG UP AF WASN'T A {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IT BOTHERED ME THAT I HAD TO PAY MORE ATTENTN CLASS TO UNRSTAND MY TEACHERS AND FELT EXCLUD GROUP OUTGS BEE I MISSED OUT ON MUCH OF THE NVERSATN. BUT WHAT REALLY IRKED ME WAS HAVG TO AL WH IGNORANCE OM PEOPLE WHO ASSUMED THAT AF PEOPLE HAD OTHER TELLECTUAL OR EMOTNAL CHALLENG. THAT WE ULDN'T DRIVE, SPEAK CLEARLY, OR EVEN {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I TOOK FORT, THOUGH, THE KNOWLEDGE THAT MANY OTHER PEOPLE INTIFIED AS PART OF ONE MORY GROUP OR ANOTHER, AND THAT I WASN'T ALONE. IT WASN'T UNTIL HIGH SCHOOL THAT I TLY BEGAN TO FEEL LIKE I'D BEEN GIVEN A RAW AL LIFE: DURG MY HMAN YEAR, I VELOPED MY FIRST CSH AND REALIZED THAT I WASN'T JT AF BUT GAY, AS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THAT REALIZATN CERTALY PLITED MATTERS. THERE ARE SIARI BETWEEN BEG AF AND BEG QUEER THAT POUND MY SENSE OF ALIENATN. FOR EXAMPLE, MOST LGBT PEOPLE HAVE HETEROSEXUAL PARENTS—LIKEWISE, ONLY 5 TO 10% OF AF PEOPLE HAVE AF PARENTS. MY PARENTS HAVE BEEN CREDIBLY SUPPORTIVE BUT WAS DIFFICULT FOR ME TO ACCEPT THAT THERE WAS NOT ONE, BUT TWO FUNDAMENTAL DIFFERENC BETWEEN {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MOREOVER, AF AND QUEER DIVIDUALS BOTH HAVE THE EXPERIENCE OF HAVG TO “E OUT” REPEATEDLY. I NOT ONLY HAD TO THK ABOUT WHEN AND HOW TO TELL PEOPLE I WAS AF, BUT ALSO WHEN TO DISCLOSE MY SEXUAL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}FORTUNATELY, MY EXPERIENC LLEGE AND AFTERWARD ALLOWED ME TO GA NFINCE BOTH OF THE ASPECTS OF MY LIFE. MANY OF MY IENDS NOW ARE AF AND GAY, AND I REALIZE THERE ARE JT AS MANY ADVANTAG AS DISADVANTAG TO THIS DUAL INTY. THE MON STGGLE OF FACG DISCRIMATN OM MANY DIRECTNS HAS FOSTERED A TIGHT-KN SENSE OF MARARIE AMONG AF QUEER {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}“QUEER-AF CULTURE VALU GREATER ACCEPTANCE OF DIVERGENT IAS AND PEOPLE," MY IEND ROBB DOOLG EXPLAS. "WE'RE THE ‘RABOW SHEEP OF THE FAY.' WE HAVE TWO REASONS STEAD OF JT ONE TO STICK TOGETHER.”{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}BUT THERE ARE DOWNSIS, TOO—MOST NOTICEABLY HOW SMALL THE MUNY IS. “GOSSIP SPREADS MORE EASILY PARED TO HOW WOULD THE AF OR GAY MUNI ALONE—SO THERE IS MORE PRSURE TO PROTECT YOUR REPUTATN,” SAYS ANOTHER IEND, NOE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}NOE ADMS WE'RE KD OF LIMED, ROMANCE-WISE: "MY DATG POOL NSISTS OF THE AF GAY MEN MY AREA AND HEARG MEN WHO HAPPEN TO BE FLUENT AMERIN SIGN LANGUAGE. PEOPLE WHO ARE STRAIGHT OR HEARG HAVE SIGNIFINTLY MORE OPTNS.”{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ONE QUTN THAT UP OFTEN: IS HARR TO BE A GAY MAN THE AF MUNY OR AF THE GAY MUNY?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}TO BE HONT, I FEEL MORE FORTABLE BEG GAY THE AF MUNY. BY AND LARGE, AF PEOPLE ARE VERY ACCEPTG OF MY SEXUAL ORIENTATN. BUT BEG AF THE QUEER MUNY HAS, AT TIM, CREATED A SENSE OF ISOLATN AND LOW SELF-TEEM. GAY MEN N BE UNACCEPTG OF THOSE WHO DON'T F A CERTA MOLD: IF YOU'RE NOT HANDSOME, F AND WHE—AND ABLE—YOU TEND TO GET {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}BEG A AF GAY MAN HAS ALSO BEEN DIFFICULT JT TERMS OF MUNITN AND CULTURAL UNRSTANDG. MOST HEARG GAY GUYS N'T SIGN AND KNOW NOTHG ABOUT AF CULTURE. THE AF MUNY VALU—EVEN REQUIR—EXPRSIVENS HAND MOVEMENTS TO MUNITE. IN NTRAST, I'VE NOTICED THAT G YOUR HANDS TO MUNITE IS LOOKED DOWN UPON BY SOME GAY MEN, BEE S SO STRONGLY ASSOCIATED WH FEMY. PERHAPS DUE TO TERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA, THEY'RE LS FORTABLE WH GUYS WHO ARE EXPRSIVE THIS WAY. SO 'S HARR FOR ME TO BE MY TE SELF WH OTHER GAY {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}REGARDLS, BEG BOTH AF AND GAY HAS SHAPED MY INTY FOR THE BETTER. IF I WERE STRAIGHT AND HEARG, I WOULDN'T HAVE AS MUCH OF AN IMPULSE TO HELP OTHERS, OR BE AS TOLERANT OR CULTURALLY SENSIVE. I WOULDN'T HAVE CROSSED PATHS WH SO MANY AMAZG {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}INSTEAD OF SEEG THE TWO PARTS OF MY INTY AS NEGATIV, I VIEW THEM AS QUALI THAT MAKE ME UNIQUE. I AM BLSED TO BE PART OF SUCH A VIBRANT, TIGHT-KN MUNY AND WOULDN'T TRA FOR {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}AND AS FOR MY FUTURE PARTNER? I'M MORE THAN WILLG TO BI MY TIME AND WA FOR SOMEONE—HEARG OR AF—WHO ACCEPTS ALL THE PARTS OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS
- WAG TO BE HEARD: ON BEG DEAF AND GAY
- WAG TO BE HEARD: ON BEG DEAF AND GAY
- WAG TO BE HEARD: ON BEG DEAF AND GAY
- WAG TO BE HEARD: ON BEG DEAF AND GAY
- WAG TO BE HEARD: ON BEG DEAF AND GAY
- WAG TO BE HEARD: ON BEG DEAF AND GAY
LBIAN UPLE W IVF ‘GAY TAX’ BATTLE
First Dat breaks barriers wh s historic sign language-only episo, featurg a ep and emotnal nnectn between two af gay men. * deaf gay couple *
-based -unsels Mary Vargas and Marc Charmatz of the Natnal Associatn of the Deaf via vionference, said the clerk of urts actns simply vlate feral weddgs Florida: Gay marriage ban ends statewiThere is "no exce" for what was done to this uple, said Vargas, llg the tails of this se a "gut punch.
A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.
A Pevian high urt has orred same-sex unns to be legally registered public rerds, markg a victory for the LGBTQ muny a untry that has been reluctant to regnize gay upl. * deaf gay couple *
A lbian uple who lnched a legal battle over equali IVF treatment between heterosexual and same-sex upl have dropped their fight after their lol re board pledged to make treatment sts media fluencers Megan and Whney Ban-Evans lnched a landmark “gay tax” discrimatn se after NHS Frimley Integrated Care Board (ICB) said same-sex upl, sgle women and upl unable to have vagal terurse would have to pay for 12 rounds of IVF before qualifyg for NHS assistance. The bsman and his wife, Melissa, first plaed to the Front Porch proprietors about pre-dawn vendor liveri 2019, not long after the nservative Christian uple moved their fancial firm right next door to the rtrant, which fli a gay Pri flag. (Front Porch Market and Grill)What’s more, the Washers say, the ad rat was jt one more sult that the uple, who once planted an “all liv matter” sign their ont yard, have endured sce movg next door to a rtrant owned by a gay uple.
FIRST DAT MAK HISTORY WH FIRST EVER SIGN LANGUAGE-ONLY DATE BETWEEN TWO GAY MEN
On his new show This Close, the gay, af wrer and actor is pavg a new path. * deaf gay couple *
They married 2020, five years after they opened the Front Porch, which quickly beme a statn The Front Porch has been flyg a Pri flag on s pat sce 2016, not long after a gunman killed 49 people a gay bar Orlando.
Waybourn was print of the Dallas Gay Alliance when sued Parkland Memorial Hospal for failg to provi readily available medic to AIDS patients. In 1991, he lnched the Gay and Lbian Victory Fund (now the LGBTQ+ Victory Fund) to elect openly gay policians to office.
He served as managg director of the Gay & Lbian Alliance Agast Defamatn, or GLAAD, which he helped turn to a natnal group. He owned gay newspapers Hoton, Atlanta, New York and Washgton. “I had so many threats agast me that even the Dallas police statned squad rs outsi our home, ” Waybourn an activist, Waybourn says, his goals were clear: same-sex marriage, gays and lbians the ary, accs to lifavg medic.
NETFLIX GIV GAY, AF CHARACTER A LOVE STORY THE SOCIETY
* deaf gay couple *
To the activist, feels like a step backward after a lifetime of fightg for gay pack the seats at the Board of Zong Appeals hearg hosted at Grace Epispal Church. “I have que a few gay iends, clients and a fay member, and I have patronized a gay-owned rtrant for years, ” he whether the Washers are tryg to remake The Plas to their image of Ameri — Whe, nservative, Christian — Melissa said, “I n see where you’re g om.
Adam* said was dangero to e out as gay his home untry and feared beg forced to an arranged marriage wh a said he was "so lucky" to wed his soulmate, Ray, Manchter and wish everyone uld marry who they love. There are more than 60 untri wh laws that crimalise same-sex sexual acts acrdg to the Internatnal Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Associatn, cludg Sdi Arabia.
DEAF AND GAY AND PROUD TO BE BOTH
McLennan County Jtice of the Peace Dianne Hensley filed a lawsu after a state agency warned her about refg to marry gay upl. She hop a recent U.S. Supreme Court se about relig eedom helps her e. * deaf gay couple *
'Authentilly myself'Ray said he had also stggled growg up gay the 1970s and 80s England, which was "tough" said his relig school "dmmed to you, 'you are gog to hell'" Adam returned home to Sdi Arabia, spe beg more than 3, 000 apart and later rtricted by the Covid-19 panmic, they kept touch daily and the romance years ago, Ray proposed on a vio ll and after succsfully applyg for a UK fiancé visa, Adam moved to Manchter December 2022. Adam said he had been aaid to even wear lours his home untry so the first thg he did when he moved was start to "grow my mullet, got my ears pierced and booked appotments for tattoos" relled how, ntrast, one of his gay iends Sdi had been forced to marry a woman, addg: "It has ed not only his life but the life of his wife. The uple, who live London, said a "really betiful memory" was on the way home when one of their sons shouted out of the black b wdow to Trafalgar Square, "My dads jt got married" and cheered "Yay, gay marriage".
TEXAS JUDGE WHO DON’T WANT TO PERFORM GAY MARRIAGE CEREMONI HOP WEB SIGNER’S SUPREME COURT SE HELPS HER FIGHT
“Two gay men livg a farm ral Portugal – not a problem.
Love knows no bounds: First Dat breaks barriers wh groundbreakg af gay date.
PRI MONTH: DEAF AND GAY 1940S NORWAY
First Dat’ historic episo featurg two gay men munitg sign language go viral. From silence to sparks: Two af gay men share their heartwarmg first date on First Dat.
First Dat prov love has no lims wh emotnal episo featurg af gay uple.
WHAT DATG IS LIKE AS A GAY DEAF MANSPOILER: IT'S {FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}LIFEBY CONNOR MCLARENAUGT 14, 2017/11:36 {HEIGHT:HER;DISPLAY:-WEBK-BOX;DISPLAY:-WEBK-FLEX;DISPLAY:-MS-FLEXBOX;DISPLAY:FLEX;POSN:RELATIVE;-WEBK-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-MS-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-WEBK-ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-ALIGN:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-ALIGN:CENTER;ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-PACK:CENTER;-WEBK-JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-PACK:CENTER;JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-WEBK-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;-MS-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;} IMG{HEIGHT:100%;WIDTH:100%;OBJECT-F:VER;}{HEIGHT:574PX;WIDTH:1020PX;}CONNOR MCLAREN/CHRISTIAN HOPKS PHOTOGRAPHYBY CONNOR MCLARENAUGT 14, 2017 / 11:36 AM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"WHAT DATG IS LIKE AS A GAY DEAF MAN","THUMBNAILURL":","DATEPUBLISHED":"2017-08-14T15:36:31.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2017-08-14T15:36:31.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"CONNOR MCLAREN","KEYWORDS":"OPN","ARTICLESECTN":"LIFE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I'D BE LYG IF I SAID THAT GROWG UP AF WASN'T A {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IT BOTHERED ME THAT I HAD TO PAY MORE ATTENTN CLASS TO UNRSTAND MY TEACHERS AND FELT EXCLUD GROUP OUTGS BEE I MISSED OUT ON MUCH OF THE NVERSATN. BUT WHAT REALLY IRKED ME WAS HAVG TO AL WH IGNORANCE OM PEOPLE WHO ASSUMED THAT AF PEOPLE HAD OTHER TELLECTUAL OR EMOTNAL CHALLENG. THAT WE ULDN'T DRIVE, SPEAK CLEARLY, OR EVEN {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I TOOK FORT, THOUGH, THE KNOWLEDGE THAT MANY OTHER PEOPLE INTIFIED AS PART OF ONE MORY GROUP OR ANOTHER, AND THAT I WASN'T ALONE. IT WASN'T UNTIL HIGH SCHOOL THAT I TLY BEGAN TO FEEL LIKE I'D BEEN GIVEN A RAW AL LIFE: DURG MY HMAN YEAR, I VELOPED MY FIRST CSH AND REALIZED THAT I WASN'T JT AF BUT GAY, AS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THAT REALIZATN CERTALY PLITED MATTERS. THERE ARE SIARI BETWEEN BEG AF AND BEG QUEER THAT POUND MY SENSE OF ALIENATN. FOR EXAMPLE, MOST LGBT PEOPLE HAVE HETEROSEXUAL PARENTS—LIKEWISE, ONLY 5 TO 10% OF AF PEOPLE HAVE AF PARENTS. MY PARENTS HAVE BEEN CREDIBLY SUPPORTIVE BUT WAS DIFFICULT FOR ME TO ACCEPT THAT THERE WAS NOT ONE, BUT TWO FUNDAMENTAL DIFFERENC BETWEEN {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MOREOVER, AF AND QUEER DIVIDUALS BOTH HAVE THE EXPERIENCE OF HAVG TO “E OUT” REPEATEDLY. I NOT ONLY HAD TO THK ABOUT WHEN AND HOW TO TELL PEOPLE I WAS AF, BUT ALSO WHEN TO DISCLOSE MY SEXUAL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}FORTUNATELY, MY EXPERIENC LLEGE AND AFTERWARD ALLOWED ME TO GA NFINCE BOTH OF THE ASPECTS OF MY LIFE. MANY OF MY IENDS NOW ARE AF AND GAY, AND I REALIZE THERE ARE JT AS MANY ADVANTAG AS DISADVANTAG TO THIS DUAL INTY. THE MON STGGLE OF FACG DISCRIMATN OM MANY DIRECTNS HAS FOSTERED A TIGHT-KN SENSE OF MARARIE AMONG AF QUEER {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}“QUEER-AF CULTURE VALU GREATER ACCEPTANCE OF DIVERGENT IAS AND PEOPLE," MY IEND ROBB DOOLG EXPLAS. "WE'RE THE ‘RABOW SHEEP OF THE FAY.' WE HAVE TWO REASONS STEAD OF JT ONE TO STICK TOGETHER.”{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}BUT THERE ARE DOWNSIS, TOO—MOST NOTICEABLY HOW SMALL THE MUNY IS. “GOSSIP SPREADS MORE EASILY PARED TO HOW WOULD THE AF OR GAY MUNI ALONE—SO THERE IS MORE PRSURE TO PROTECT YOUR REPUTATN,” SAYS ANOTHER IEND, NOE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}NOE ADMS WE'RE KD OF LIMED, ROMANCE-WISE: "MY DATG POOL NSISTS OF THE AF GAY MEN MY AREA AND HEARG MEN WHO HAPPEN TO BE FLUENT AMERIN SIGN LANGUAGE. PEOPLE WHO ARE STRAIGHT OR HEARG HAVE SIGNIFINTLY MORE OPTNS.”{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ONE QUTN THAT UP OFTEN: IS HARR TO BE A GAY MAN THE AF MUNY OR AF THE GAY MUNY?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}TO BE HONT, I FEEL MORE FORTABLE BEG GAY THE AF MUNY. BY AND LARGE, AF PEOPLE ARE VERY ACCEPTG OF MY SEXUAL ORIENTATN. BUT BEG AF THE QUEER MUNY HAS, AT TIM, CREATED A SENSE OF ISOLATN AND LOW SELF-TEEM. GAY MEN N BE UNACCEPTG OF THOSE WHO DON'T F A CERTA MOLD: IF YOU'RE NOT HANDSOME, F AND WHE—AND ABLE—YOU TEND TO GET {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}BEG A AF GAY MAN HAS ALSO BEEN DIFFICULT JT TERMS OF MUNITN AND CULTURAL UNRSTANDG. MOST HEARG GAY GUYS N'T SIGN AND KNOW NOTHG ABOUT AF CULTURE. THE AF MUNY VALU—EVEN REQUIR—EXPRSIVENS HAND MOVEMENTS TO MUNITE. IN NTRAST, I'VE NOTICED THAT G YOUR HANDS TO MUNITE IS LOOKED DOWN UPON BY SOME GAY MEN, BEE S SO STRONGLY ASSOCIATED WH FEMY. PERHAPS DUE TO TERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA, THEY'RE LS FORTABLE WH GUYS WHO ARE EXPRSIVE THIS WAY. SO 'S HARR FOR ME TO BE MY TE SELF WH OTHER GAY {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}REGARDLS, BEG BOTH AF AND GAY HAS SHAPED MY INTY FOR THE BETTER. IF I WERE STRAIGHT AND HEARG, I WOULDN'T HAVE AS MUCH OF AN IMPULSE TO HELP OTHERS, OR BE AS TOLERANT OR CULTURALLY SENSIVE. I WOULDN'T HAVE CROSSED PATHS WH SO MANY AMAZG {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}INSTEAD OF SEEG THE TWO PARTS OF MY INTY AS NEGATIV, I VIEW THEM AS QUALI THAT MAKE ME UNIQUE. I AM BLSED TO BE PART OF SUCH A VIBRANT, TIGHT-KN MUNY AND WOULDN'T TRA FOR {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}AND AS FOR MY FUTURE PARTNER? I'M MORE THAN WILLG TO BI MY TIME AND WA FOR SOMEONE—HEARG OR AF—WHO ACCEPTS ALL THE PARTS OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS
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