DEAR ABBY: I’m a 54-year-old gay man who has spent his life makg cisns wh everyone else md. 애비 선생님께: 저는 54세 남성 동성애자로, 살면서 결정을 내릴 때 항상 다른 사람들을 고려합니다.
Contents:
- GAY SOUTH KOREA: 'SHE SAID I DON'T NEED A SON LIKE YOU'
- GAY SOUTH KOREA TRAVEL GUI
- GAY LIFE SOUTH KOREA
- IN THE MP WORLD OF K-POP, ’S HARD FOR STARS TO BE GAY
- WHAT IS LIKE TO BE GAY SOUTH KOREA?
- THE COMPLITED LIV OF GAY MEN SOUTH KOREA
- GAY LIFE NORTH KOREA
- A QUICK INTRO TO GAY AND LBIAN SEOUL
GAY SOUTH KOREA: 'SHE SAID I DON'T NEED A SON LIKE YOU'
, statn travel guis wh a gay perspective. * gay life in korea *
Image source, Getty ImagImage ptn, Christian anti-LGBT protters are makg their prence felt at gay events like here SeoulHe proudly showed me his T-shirt wh a special rabow logo on , one that lls for an anti-discrimatn law. Homosexualy may not be illegal South Korea - sce 2003 is no longer classified as "harmful and obscene" - but discrimatn remas wispread. Jt unr half of South Koreans don't want a gay iend, neighbour or lleague, acrdg to one natnwi survey by The Korea Social Integratn ptn, Why holidays n be tough for S Korea's LGBT munyThe proportn of gay and lbian teenagers who have been exposed to vlence is also high.
He was alone a park late at night when he was approached by a man who told him homosexualy was an unfiveable s and he should return home to his parents, before beatg him wh a bamboo stick. The Prottant Christian Communy is so ncerned that homosexualy will be accepted South Korea that has cid to hold s first "real love" event Ban - jt a month after the Queer Ftival anisers were forced to ncel their own event the cy.
In a statement to the BBC, they said LGBTQ people were "uhil and abnormal" so their discrimatn was "the right kd of discrimatn" ptn, Menorah said she felt a rponsibily to stop LGBTQ people "om gog to hell"In September, this fluential church group turned up at the Queer Ftival Incheon, South Korea's send biggt cy, their waved paper fans which said NO to homosexualy and YES to "real love".
GAY SOUTH KOREA TRAVEL GUI
Livg gay South Korea is mostly hidn clubs and bars, pigeon-holed off to late dancg or drkg wh iends, far om bs. * gay life in korea *
A huge screen was placed near the Queer Ftival square blastg a warng vio claimg that enuragg homosexualy would spread Aids and st tax payers lns. Meanwhile, Japan has elected s first openly gay lawmaker, and spe the current polil opposn, a survey found that 78% of people aged 20 to 60 favoured legalizg same-sex marriage. While there are very ltle rights protectg LGBT cizens, South Korea's tolerance of the LGBT muny is growg and a gay neighborhood exists the cy of Seoul where visors n enjoy the nightlife to the early hours of the morng.
Along wh the chang merce have e alteratns human behavr and attus, cludg a recent softeng toward homosexualy by means of high tech munitn and age-old drama.
GAY LIFE SOUTH KOREA
Beg LGBT South Korea n make for a difficult life. CNN’s Kathy Novak tells the story of one gay uple livg Seoul, and the challeng they face. * gay life in korea *
Mostly hidn clubs and bars, pigeon-holed off to late dancg or drkg wh iends and stashed far om fay bs, gay Koreans live wh a very strong heterosexual tradn that clus more than jt the expectatns of takg a spoe.
Except for one major difference: his tentn of studyg the USA is equally, if not more, motivated by his need to breathe valy to his emotnal life as a gay man. There are no gay paras here yet but a few gay anizatns have formed such as Kirikiri and Sappho (lbian groups), Chgai (gay men’s group) and the Coaln of Stunt Gay Rights Groups.
IN THE MP WORLD OF K-POP, ’S HARD FOR STARS TO BE GAY
* gay life in korea *
More visibly and much more popular, gays and lbians are workg on the Inter and gettg a life–chattg, arrangg iendships and anizg activi. Jt before I left for Seoul, I typed “Korea gay” to a search enge and was nnected to the Korean BB room where an active list of notic had been recently posted. The gay magaze, Buddy was also first published this year and there are now some anized gay/ lbian muny groups at some universi, or on the Inter.
WHAT IS LIKE TO BE GAY SOUTH KOREA?
The troductn by this young Korean native is remarkable s mcular optimism about a new dawn for the lbigay muny which has lived ep shadows for untls generatns. From fluorcent donut shops to the sleazy dim trigue of massage parlors sportg red velvet sofas, the noisy and trendy straight diss, div and fast food jots offers enough distractn and amement to mask a dozen gay bars and diss. Itaewon is also home to other gay venu such as Zipper (s possible to fall down the stairs bee the lightg is poor), Out Class (quiet, good for chattg), Trance (drag show on weekends), Why Not?
The Gay Korea webse has this helpful advice: “There are many small bars loted the center of Seoul the Nag Weon Dong neighborhood to the north and east of Topkol Park (Inpennce Park). On Augt 4, 2000, the ‘Korea Herald’ newspaper reported a ntroversial new arrival Seoul: “The first show of s kd ever staged notorly homophobic Korea, the Hahahoho Show featur an all-gay st of ne homosexuals and ne transsexuals.
THE COMPLITED LIV OF GAY MEN SOUTH KOREA
S., England, Japan and Thailand, have long sce regnized the talent of gay members of their muni and ed them to help build succsful tourism dtri. “We thought this might help get rid of prejudice arisg om ignorance about gays, ” Kim said wh half an eye to the add entertament value of such rmal ssns.
The story nclud wh, “a change public attus may be takg place, nsirg that Koreans seem more open to the ia of homosexualy, at least more so than before Hahahoho opened. Another ocsn that recently forced the Korean public to s up and take notice of homosexualy was a popular TV edian /actor who was prsed to out himself last year.
In numero magaz, TV and rad talks shows and newspapers, cludg the Christian Science Monor of January 17, 2001, Hong Seok-chon’s real life story put homosexualy onto the natnal circu.
GAY LIFE NORTH KOREA
Some abhorred the immoraly threateng tradnal valu while others wanted him to stand up and be proud, seeg him as wrg a new page Korea’s long reprsed attus about sexualy, pecially gay rights.
This is among the first and most darg of groups to meet for the exprs purpose of supportg and affirmg the homosexual nature of s drop- members. For homosexuals, who are monly regard as psychologilly formed and a threat to prec tradnal valu of fay hn, the pariah stat n be suffotg. But wasn’t until 1991 when Shappo, an Amerin soldier who treated her lbianism as a badge of pri, formed the first visible gay group here.
Increasgly, gays are enterg the mastream pecially at universi, formg clubs and f and, as is so evint om the Gay Korea webse, Inter groups across the untry.
A QUICK INTRO TO GAY AND LBIAN SEOUL
A new force is at work here: the Seoul Internatnal Queer Film & Vio Ftival, an event voted to explorg gay them whout prejudice or limatns.