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However, when you buy somethg through our retail lks, we may earn an affiliate missn.</p></div></div></div><div data-ttid="ArticlePageChunks" class="ArticlePageChunks-fLyCVG eOdfIs"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa UJsCn body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Shower sex has a reputatn for beg this hot, steamy fantasy, but no one ever tells you how to have shower sex that’s, well, actually sexy. Unfortunately, most real-life shower <a href=" target="_blank">sex</a> is <em>vastly</em> overrated and possibly filled wh slips, trips, falls, or at least several awkward attempts to posn yourself a small tub or shower stall.</p><div style="outle:none" id="top" tabx="-1"><p>More often that not, <a href=" target="_blank">shower sex</a> is anythg but glor. Like pool sex and sex on the beach, sounds super hot theory but turns out to be terribly unfortable practice. But those llective shower sex fantasi n’t be for nght. So we nsulted some experts to disver if ’s possible to have shower sex that isn’t sry, awkward, paful, or dangero. Here’s what experts have to say about how to have shower sex that’s actually as sexy (and safe) as is your fantasi.</p></div><p><a href="#safety" target="_blank"><strong>How to have safe shower sex</strong></a> <strong>|</strong> <a href="#lube" target="_blank"><strong>Bt lub for shower sex</strong></a> <strong>|</strong> <a href="#sextoys" target="_blank"><strong>Shower sex toys</strong></a> <strong>|</strong> <a href="#sexposns" target="_blank"><strong>Shower sex posns</strong></a></p><div style="outle:none" id="safety" tabx="-1"><h2>How to have <em>safe</em> shower sex</h2></div><p>As much as romance novels and CW shows want you to thk shower sex is a seamls jump om bbg suds all over each other to breathtakg <a href=" target="_blank">asms</a>, the logistics are often a lot more plited. There’s a reason we don’t do anythg athletic the shower: Wet enamel and tile tend to be slippery. The number one safety ncern wh shower sex is fallg down, <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Moni Grover, D.O.</a>, medil director at Asira Medil, tells SELF. And, sure, ’s possible to pull off spontaneo shower sex that don’t follow the safety guil below. But ’s also possible to <em>really</em> hurt yourself givg that a try. </p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>To avoid that, here are a few safety tips for how to have shower sex safely:</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">When doubt, keep both feet on the ground.</div><p>It n be temptg to get <em>creative</em> the shower. Sce you’re a nfed space, your go-to posns may no longer work. And before you know , you might fd yourself attemptg to stand on the rim of the <a href=" target="_blank">bathtub</a>. But tst , you want to start wh somethg simple. “It don’t sound sexy, but you and your partner need to keep your feet on the ground,” <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Idri Abdur-Rahman, M.D.</a>, ob-gyn at Vista Health System, tells SELF. This will help you mata your <a href=" target="_blank">balance</a>, creasg your risk of fallg. If standg isn’t workg for you, nsir stg or lyg down, Dr. Abdur-Rahman says. Dependg on the size of your shower, you might even be able to get to missnary, which is herently oler than regular missnary when you’re all steamy and slippery. (But, please, if you’re puttg a ton of your body right up agast shower surfac, only do <a href=" target="_blank">if said surfac are actually clean enough</a>.)</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="hjm6c8"></div></div><p>Oh, and if you drop soap on the floor, pick up promptly, says <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Miriam Greene, M.D.</a>, ob-gyn at NYU Langone Health. This seems pretty straightforward, but Dr. Greene emphasized this pot a uple of tim our terview. Keepg both feet on the ground won’t do you much good if the floor is vered slippery soap.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">Fd some support.</div><p>If you happen to have a shower seat, e to your advantage, <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Megan Flemg, Ph.D.</a>, a licensed sex therapist and Lovehoney sex-and-relatnship expert, tells SELF. Play around wh seated sex posns—’s way harr to fall when you’re stg down.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>Another tip we heard over and over aga om experts: Invt a solid bath mat—one of those textured, bbery on that adhere to the floor of your shower. Add ictn equals add safety. If you’re standg, the mat will help you better grip the floor. And if you’re stg, kneelg, or lyg down, ’ll make your suatn a <em>lot</em> more fortable.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Also, don’t be aaid to e your shower walls for support, suggts Dr. Green. 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Neher is soap, which n be irratg on your genals—not to mentn harmful if gets <em>si</em> them. You’ll want to steer clear of tryg to e eher as a substute for lubrint.</p><p>The tricky thg about sex the water or wh lots of water rag down on you is that your natural lubrint actually tends to wash away. So even if you don’t ually e lube, you’ll want to get some for shower sex. But not jt any lube will do. While <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">water-based lub</a> are ually the bt choice when you’re g sex toys, they’re not the bt lubrint for sex the shower. Water-based lube will wash away a lot more quickly than a siline- or oil-based lubrint. </p><p>So, for shower sex, Dr. Flemg remends <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="sponsored" target="_blank">a siline-based lube</a>, bee has a thick nsistency and tends to be longer lastg. Oil-based lub are also an optn, but they gra latex ndoms, so if you’re g a latex barrier like a ndom, oil-based lube will promise the safety of that protectn. If you and your partner typilly e a <a href=" target="_blank">ndom</a>, go ahead and e one the shower too. The l of safe sex don’t magilly change the moment you’re vered water, so take the same steps to protect yourself si the shower that you would outsi . Also, on another l-of-safe-sex note, beg the shower don’t tomatilly negate the l of hygienic sex, like never gog straight om anal to vagal terurse whout takg measur like swappg out an old ndom for a h one. 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Those n clu oral sex, touchg, bbg, teasg, and jt generally explorg each others’ bodi, she adds. She suggts g showerg together as an opportuny to experiment wh new sensatns and get super turned on. And, for some people, all of that might clu a sex toy (or many of them!).</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>Sex toys n be a great way to have fun the shower whout a whole lot of acrobatics. 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the right support, the right lube, and maybe even the right <a href=" target="_blank">sex toys</a>, havg sex the shower jt might live up to your fantasy. But unls you’re an athlete wh credible balance, our experts suggt stickg to relatively basic sex posns the shower (at least at first). After all, the real secret to hot shower sex is not gettg hurt.</p><p>While that might sound like a bummer, the thg is that you don’t need a brand new sex posn to make shower sex excg. “Part of the trigue is tryg somethg new, right?” Dr. Grover says. And, for many people, havg sex the shower <em>is</em> new. The excement is the shower sex self. What’s more, Dr. Grover says, tryg to manver yourselv to an amb shower sex posn uld take you out of your aroal. “I thk when you’re tryg different typ of sex posns, part of your bra isn’t even foced on the pleasure,” she says. “There’s such a psychosomatic ponent to , so n brg down your libido.”</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="8qbwdv"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div><div data-attr-viewport-monor="" class="RecircMostPopularWrapper-bRuGTi jkTTgR recirc-most-popular-wrapper 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class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa UJsCn body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>So, wh that md, our experts suggt startg your shower sex journey wh the somewhat tame sex posns and gradually gettg more adventuro as you get more fortable.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">1. Missnary</div><p>Missnary is probably the saft sex posn to try the bathtub, though you do need the space of the tub to make missnary happen. Don’t fet to e a bath mat to make thgs more fortable and grippy. To try missnary, have one partner lie down the tub wh the other on top. This might clu peratn wh a penis or sex toy, or you n foc on external stimulatn and grdg this posn too.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">2. Yab Yum</div><p>Dr. Queen lik this posn for the shower bee helps keep water out of your ey. To acplish Yab Yum, one partner (ually the one who is wearg a strap-on or has a penis) ss cross-legged on the shower or bath floor while the other partner straddl on top wh their legs wrapped around the bottom partner’s back.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">3. Doggy Style</div><p>Once aga, keepg low to the ground will make doggy style a safer shower sex posn. To do doggy style, one partner gets on their hands and kne the shower or bath while the other partner posns themself behd. Doggy style works whether you’re gog for peratn wh a penis, strap-on, or sex toy as well as for oral sex and rimmg (<a href=" target="_blank">anal oral</a>).</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">4. Face-Off</div><p>This one is great for those people who have seats or bench their showers but n also work if one partner (very refully) ss on the edge of the tub. For this sex posn, one partner ss down while the other partner fac them and ss on their lap wh their kne bent outsi of their partner's thighs. This posn n be good for peratn as well as fgerg or g a vibrator.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">5. Reverse Cowgirl</div><p>Dr. Flemg remends tryg the famo reverse wgirl if you have the tub space. You’ll need some room for one partner to extend their legs fully on the bottom of the tub while the other straddl on top, facg away om the bottom partner. In this posn, you n e a penis or dildo for perative sex. The classic wgirl (the same posn, but wh the top partner facg the bottom partner) n also work the tub if you have the room.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">6. Agast the Wall</div><p>If you want to try a standg sex posn the shower, the saft optn is to have one partner lean agast the shower wall wh both feet sturdily on the floor and their hands on the wall for support, while the other partner is behd them. Dr. Grover lik this posn for s safety and versatily. In this posn, the partner back n reach around to play wh the ont partner’s nippl, cloris, or penis. They n also perate eher vagally or <a href=">anally</a>.</p><div role="headg" aria-level="3" class="headg-h3">7. Standg Pretzel</div><p>For this one, you might want one of those footrts that Dr. Grover suggted. This is the least steady sex posn our experts remend bee requir one partner to lift a leg off the ground. The partner wh a leg up n eher place on a footrt, the edge of the tub, or around their partner’s waist. The other partner stands wh their feet apart and kne slightly bent between the other partner’s legs. In this posn, the more stable partner n perate the leg-up partner wh a penis or strap-on, e a vibrator on their partner, or fger them. Wh any standg sex posn, Dr. Queen remends gettg fortable dog them outsi of the shower first, so you’re ls likely to lose your balance.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-3 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p><a href="#top"><em>Back to top.</em></a></p><p><em>All products featured on SELF are penntly selected by our edors. 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