Sam Wilkson me out as gay at 18 years old, then realised he was pansexual after fallg love wh his female bt iend.
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IN LOVE WH MY BT IEND, BUT HE'S GAY
* when you fall in love with your gay best friend *
So you're the same crappy boat as all people (gay, straight, or bi) who love someone that don't love them back. I always thought that was my flt that I was gay and that I was gog to my iendship wh her nstantly.
Durg that time I jt felt like everythg was wrong wh me, if only I was a boy or if only she was gay or if only I didn't love her etc.. Around September time, I realised that maybe I might be cshg on him but back then I didn't know that he was gay.
I WAS SURE I WAS GAY – UNTIL I FELL LOVE WH MY BT FEMALE IEND
I've never been love so I don't know how to regnise but am I fallg love wh my gay bt iend? If there’s one thg I n tell you about wh great thory, as a gay man who took his sweet time g out, ’s havg csh on men who – for the most part – were blissfully unaware of .
If historilly you have dated women, do this mean you’re gay? We’re tght people are eher gay or straight, that sexualy is a fixed aspect that stays the same over the urse of our liv when actually ’s fluid and chang over time. Whether you’re straight, gay, bicur, heteroflexible or jt workg thgs out, ’s not jt your sexualy that’s lled to qutn when such a csh aris.
It works wh gay men too – we don’t fancy all straight men tomatilly and ’s possible for such a csh to be entirely platonic. While we’re begng to throw off the labels that n rtrict , n be hard for men to exprs themselv emotnally whout beg thought of as gay and s of opprsn has shown that beg gay is viewed by many as ferr. We may believe that to fd another man attractive mak ls of a man – whatever that you don’t want to thk of yourself as gay or bi then don’t.