Joe Kort, Ph.D., talks about his new book, "Is My Hband Gay, Straight, or Bi?"
Contents:
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
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HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
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IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
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