The Solutn to "Gay" Insults: Freedom of Speech | Psychology Today

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• HOW SHOULD I RPOND TO SOMEONE SAYG THAT THEY’RE NOT GAY AFTER YOU HAVE SENT A RPONSE TO THEIR SEXUAL HOOKUP REQUT MA AVAILABLE TO THEIR FOLLOWERS WHO THE MAJORY HAPPEN THAT OF THE LGBTQ MUNY OF WHICH THEY EQUENTLY TERACT WH?
• THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH
• I DON'T LIKE WOMEN, I'M NOT GAY EHER AND I AM 20, NORMAL?
• I’VE INTIFIED AS GAY FOR YEARS. NOT ANYMORE.
• I’M NOT GAY AND YOU PROBABLY AREN’T EHER
• NOT GAY, NOT STRAIGHT: MEET THE YOUNG PEOPLE WHO REFE TO FE THEIR SEXUALY
• J. PEE - I'M NOT GAY LYRICS
• AM I GAY?
• HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
• CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
• HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
• I’M NOT GAYJ PEEPRODUCED BYJ PEETHE SONG “I’M NOT GAY” BY J PEE IS A HUMORO TAKE ON THE TOPIC OF G OUT AS GAY. J PEE GO THROUGH A SERI OF SCENARS THAT ULD BE TERPRETED AS GAY BEHAVR… READ MORE 20131 VIEWER146.1K VIEWS33 CONTRIBUTORSI’M NOT GAY LYRICS[INTRO: J PEE]J PEE BABY, YUP, YUPYEAH, YOU KNOW WHAT ISCHECK THIS SH OUT MANCHECK OUT, CHECK OUTCHECK OUT, YEAH[VERSE 1: J PEE]CHILL' WH MY HOMI AT THE HOME DEPOT(HOME DEPOT)BUY' SCREWS AND NAILS, MANLY SH YOU KNOW?(YOU KNOW?)MY HOMIE SAYS TO ME "WHAT KD OF DRILL YOU WANT?"(HE ASKED ME)SO I SAID I WANTED ONE RIGHT THE ASSWHAT?[HOOK 1: J PEE]I'M NOT GAYI'M NOT GAYIT WAS A JOKE GUYS, E ONI'M NOT GAYI LIKE VAG MORE THAN A PORNSTAR SNDALBUT N I GET THE DRILL WH THE BRIGHT PK HANDLE?YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[VERSE 2: J PEE]PLAY' TACKLE FOOTBALL WH MY HOMI THE PARKHAD TO WRAP UP E WAS GETT' DARK(GETT' DARK)THE OTHER TEAM WAS LOOKG STRAIGHT SRY AS SH(OOOOO)BUT MY QUARTERBACK, HE A'T HAVG NONE OF (HE A'T SRED)HE LOOKED AT ME AND TOLD ME NO MATTER WHERE I WAS ATMY PRRY JOB WAS TO PROTECT THE SACK(OKAY)SO FOURTH DOWN, HE BENDS OVER AND YELLS "HIKE!"SO I WENT AND GRABBED HIS BALLS!HUH...[HOOK 2: J PEE]I'M NOT GAYI'M NOT GAYI'M JT DOG MY JOB, STEP OFFI'M NOT GAYIT'S NOT LIKE I WAS PURPOSEFULLY TRY' TO FEEL THEM(I WASN'T)I JT RE ABOUT THE SAFETY OF YOUR FUTURE CHILDREN(GODFATHER)I'M NOT GAY, I'M NOT GAYQU TELLG ME THAT, MANI'M NOT GAYNEXT TIME I'LL JT LET YOUR BALLS GET MANGLED, SONP.S. I DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU WERE SO WELL HUNG[VERSE 3: J PEE]STROLL' WH MY HOMI WT HOLLYWOOD(HOLLYWOOD)WASN'T MY IA BEE I'M NOT GAYDU WALKS BY ME WH HIS SHIRT OFF, AND I WAS LIKE"DAMN BCH, YOU FE!"..[HOOK 3: J PEE]I'M NOT GAY GUYSTHAT A'T MEI'M JT FORTABLE WH MY SEXUALYSO I N ADM WHEN I SEE A GUYWHO HAS A HANDSOME FACE, AND PRETTY EYAND A ROCK HARD CHT, AND RIPPLG ABSAND THE TIGHTT ASS, AND THOSE SCULPTED LVAND THOSE BULGG QUADS, AND THE PERFECT BODAND OHH MY GOD, TAKE YOUR PANTS OFFUM..FUCK [HOOK 4: J PEE]I'M SO GAYI'M FUCKG GAYI'M THE DU WEAR’ NAIL POLISH YELLG "HEY!"I'M THE DU AT THE PARTY WHO'LL GRAB YOUR BUTT(THAT'S ME)AND WHEN YOU TURN AROUND AND LOOK AT ME I'LL BE LIKE "WHAT?"YEAH!I'M GAY(I'M GAY)I'M HELLA GAYI WATCH ZAC EON MOVI EVERY SATURDAYAND NORMAL SELF EXPRSN DON'T SU ME EHERTHAT'S WHY MY GREE IS MIL THEATERI'M SO GAY MAN...8EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTGENI ANNOTATN2 NTRIBUTORSTHE SONG “I’M NOT GAY” BY J PEE IS A HUMORO TAKE ON THE TOPIC OF G OUT AS GAY. J PEE GO THROUGH A SERI OF SCENARS THAT ULD BE TERPRETED AS GAY BEHAVR, BUT HE REPEATEDLY NI BEG GAY. HOWEVER, BY THE END OF THE SONG, HE FALLY ADMS THAT HE IS GAY, AND HE EVEN CELEBRAT HIS SEXUALY. THE SONG IS TCHY AND FUNNY, AND DO A GOOD JOB OF POKG FUN AT THE STEREOTYP SURROUNDG GAY MEN.EXPAND +20SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “I'M NOT GAY” BY J PEE?WHEN DID J PEE RELEASE “I'M NOT GAY”?WHO WROTE “I'M NOT GAY” BY J PEE?CREDSPRODUCED BYJ PEEWRTEN BYJ PEERELEASE DATE2013TAGSRAPLGBTQ+EXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE
• I'M NOT GAY ED MEANG
• WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX
• AM I GAY OR BISEXUAL? QUIZ

HOW SHOULD I RPOND TO SOMEONE SAYG THAT THEY’RE NOT GAY AFTER YOU HAVE SENT A RPONSE TO THEIR SEXUAL HOOKUP REQUT MA AVAILABLE TO THEIR FOLLOWERS WHO THE MAJORY HAPPEN THAT OF THE LGBTQ MUNY OF WHICH THEY EQUENTLY TERACT WH?

I would like to know how to answer a Twter fluencer back privately after you have rpond to a public tweet requtg a hookup enunter and t(he)ir rponse to you is that t(he)y are not gay! So aga, how do one like myself who’s not only attractive but also great shape rpond to someone like this who’s so quick to rpond wh sayg “I’m not gay” given the facts mentned above regardg this person and pecially when I have no tert pursug any type romantic volvement or relatnship of any kd other than a hookup wh this person?

In other words why mt the rponse every time to a proposed sexual behavr be answered “I’m not gay.

Are you wonrg whether you need to publicly “out” this person as not gay or nont them privately? You ved a hookup to a primarily gay dience, so I assumed you were gay.

THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH

There was a recent high profile story the news about an 11-year-old boy who mted suici, apparently bee he uld no longer tolerate beg lled “gay.

I DON'T LIKE WOMEN, I'M NOT GAY EHER AND I AM 20, NORMAL?

" Kids get mad when they are lled gay and they sometim get to fights. Many anti-bully activists sist that anti-bully laws should specifilly mentn sults agast gays and those of non-heterosexual orientns.

I’VE INTIFIED AS GAY FOR YEARS. NOT ANYMORE.

If be a crime to sult people, then, is hoped, no one will be attacked wh the “gay” sult, and the associated vlence will disappear.

I’M NOT GAY AND YOU PROBABLY AREN’T EHER

One of the problems wh makg illegal to ll someone “gay” is that vlat the First Amendment right to Freedom of Speech. The tth is that society has e a long way recent s toward rcg hatred and discrimatn agast gays. However, will be a while–if ever–before anti-gay sentiment disappears pletely.

Usg laws to punish people for g “gay” as an sult is not likely to solve the problem, eher. If people get punished for sultg gays, do you thk they are gog to thk, “Now I rpect gays so much bee I was punished”?

We n al wh gay sults all by ourselv, and at the same time help rce prejudice society.

NOT GAY, NOT STRAIGHT: MEET THE YOUNG PEOPLE WHO REFE TO FE THEIR SEXUALY

Scenar Number Two: I am gay and have “e out, ” and you hate gays wh a passn. Me: If God didn’t want there to be gays, why did he make me gay?

You never had to ask yourself, “Should I be straight, or should I be gay? If were a choice, do you thk I would have chosen to be gay?

I jt had to bee ol wh the fact that I’m gay, and then I beme happier. In my church, they n this program that turns gay people straight. If we go to school together, are the same class, and I always treat you this way, you may even bee my iend even though you hate gays.

J. PEE - I'M NOT GAY LYRICS

And you may even end up thkg, “Well, maybe gays aren’t that bad after all. " The ia that I may be gay disturbs me and I don’t want to adm that I am unsure about my sexual orientatn. You know, you are gog to be the last person the world to know that you are gay!

You will stop tryg to torment me by llg me gay bee don’t bother me. Scenar Number Four: I’m not gay, but you are gog to tell me you heard a mor that I am. Scenar Number Five: I’m not gay, and you e to tell me that other people are spreadg a mor that I am.

AM I GAY?

You: You mean don’t bother you that everyone’s sayg you’re gay? You are gog to keep on tormentg me, and you are not gog to have rpect eher for me or for gay people general. I may also want to e the opportuny for a “teachg moment, ” so I’ll ask you:] How do you feel about gays?

Me: Well, works that way for most people, but not if you’re gay. And you will certaly stop tryg to torment me for beg gay bee your efforts to torment me won’t work.

HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?

They may not know their own te sexual orientatn yet, and they may not even know the sexual meang of the word “gay.

So you see, we don’t need laws or other people’s protectn to stop people om llg "gay. Y, of urse there are physil attacks and real discrimatn agast gays.

But, like Rob said, if 's a hatred of women (which I don't thk you were sayg bee you mentned not beg gay, but... Bulli teased me for beg gay when I was younger, but when a six-year-old boy lls another six-year-old boy gay, he means “weird” or “gross, ” not “has sex wh men.

CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?

Why, then, do adults who knew me as a child sist that I was gay all along?

I felt prsured to pick a label and stick wh , and for a long time “gay” worked bee I didn’t thk about much. But the last year or two, I’ve started to rethk my relatnship to the label “gay.

I hooked up wh trans and nonbary people and stopped scribg myself as gay, preferrg to e the more clive tchall “queer.

HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

Often when I tell some people that I’m distancg myself om gay, they immediately suggt I intify as bisexual, or pansexual.

I need somethg that means “mostly gay but not fully mted and open to other possibili, ” but, alas, such a niche label has yet to be imaged. Perhaps you fd yourself among the many young men of our day who wonr whether you might be gay.

When I was high school certa behavrs were nsired ditive of homosexualy.

I’M NOT GAYJ PEEPRODUCED BYJ PEETHE SONG “I’M NOT GAY” BY J PEE IS A HUMORO TAKE ON THE TOPIC OF G OUT AS GAY. J PEE GO THROUGH A SERI OF SCENARS THAT ULD BE TERPRETED AS GAY BEHAVR… READ MORE 20131 VIEWER146.1K VIEWS33 CONTRIBUTORSI’M NOT GAY LYRICS[INTRO: J PEE]J PEE BABY, YUP, YUPYEAH, YOU KNOW WHAT ISCHECK THIS SH OUT MANCHECK OUT, CHECK OUTCHECK OUT, YEAH[VERSE 1: J PEE]CHILL' WH MY HOMI AT THE HOME DEPOT(HOME DEPOT)BUY' SCREWS AND NAILS, MANLY SH YOU KNOW?(YOU KNOW?)MY HOMIE SAYS TO ME "WHAT KD OF DRILL YOU WANT?"(HE ASKED ME)SO I SAID I WANTED ONE RIGHT THE ASSWHAT?[HOOK 1: J PEE]I'M NOT GAYI'M NOT GAYIT WAS A JOKE GUYS, E ONI'M NOT GAYI LIKE VAG MORE THAN A PORNSTAR SNDALBUT N I GET THE DRILL WH THE BRIGHT PK HANDLE?YOU MIGHT ALSO LIKE[VERSE 2: J PEE]PLAY' TACKLE FOOTBALL WH MY HOMI THE PARKHAD TO WRAP UP E WAS GETT' DARK(GETT' DARK)THE OTHER TEAM WAS LOOKG STRAIGHT SRY AS SH(OOOOO)BUT MY QUARTERBACK, HE A'T HAVG NONE OF (HE A'T SRED)HE LOOKED AT ME AND TOLD ME NO MATTER WHERE I WAS ATMY PRRY JOB WAS TO PROTECT THE SACK(OKAY)SO FOURTH DOWN, HE BENDS OVER AND YELLS "HIKE!"SO I WENT AND GRABBED HIS BALLS!HUH...[HOOK 2: J PEE]I'M NOT GAYI'M NOT GAYI'M JT DOG MY JOB, STEP OFFI'M NOT GAYIT'S NOT LIKE I WAS PURPOSEFULLY TRY' TO FEEL THEM(I WASN'T)I JT RE ABOUT THE SAFETY OF YOUR FUTURE CHILDREN(GODFATHER)I'M NOT GAY, I'M NOT GAYQU TELLG ME THAT, MANI'M NOT GAYNEXT TIME I'LL JT LET YOUR BALLS GET MANGLED, SONP.S. I DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU WERE SO WELL HUNG[VERSE 3: J PEE]STROLL' WH MY HOMI WT HOLLYWOOD(HOLLYWOOD)WASN'T MY IA BEE I'M NOT GAYDU WALKS BY ME WH HIS SHIRT OFF, AND I WAS LIKE"DAMN BCH, YOU FE!"..[HOOK 3: J PEE]I'M NOT GAY GUYSTHAT A'T MEI'M JT FORTABLE WH MY SEXUALYSO I N ADM WHEN I SEE A GUYWHO HAS A HANDSOME FACE, AND PRETTY EYAND A ROCK HARD CHT, AND RIPPLG ABSAND THE TIGHTT ASS, AND THOSE SCULPTED LVAND THOSE BULGG QUADS, AND THE PERFECT BODAND OHH MY GOD, TAKE YOUR PANTS OFFUM..FUCK [HOOK 4: J PEE]I'M SO GAYI'M FUCKG GAYI'M THE DU WEAR’ NAIL POLISH YELLG "HEY!"I'M THE DU AT THE PARTY WHO'LL GRAB YOUR BUTT(THAT'S ME)AND WHEN YOU TURN AROUND AND LOOK AT ME I'LL BE LIKE "WHAT?"YEAH!I'M GAY(I'M GAY)I'M HELLA GAYI WATCH ZAC EON MOVI EVERY SATURDAYAND NORMAL SELF EXPRSN DON'T SU ME EHERTHAT'S WHY MY GREE IS MIL THEATERI'M SO GAY MAN...8EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTGENI ANNOTATN2 NTRIBUTORSTHE SONG “I’M NOT GAY” BY J PEE IS A HUMORO TAKE ON THE TOPIC OF G OUT AS GAY. J PEE GO THROUGH A SERI OF SCENARS THAT ULD BE TERPRETED AS GAY BEHAVR, BUT HE REPEATEDLY NI BEG GAY. HOWEVER, BY THE END OF THE SONG, HE FALLY ADMS THAT HE IS GAY, AND HE EVEN CELEBRAT HIS SEXUALY. THE SONG IS TCHY AND FUNNY, AND DO A GOOD JOB OF POKG FUN AT THE STEREOTYP SURROUNDG GAY MEN.EXPAND +20SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “I'M NOT GAY” BY J PEE?WHEN DID J PEE RELEASE “I'M NOT GAY”?WHO WROTE “I'M NOT GAY” BY J PEE?CREDSPRODUCED BYJ PEEWRTEN BYJ PEERELEASE DATE2013TAGSRAPLGBTQ+EXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

All those thgs were nsired ditors of gayns and I was guilty on all unts.

I'M NOT GAY ED MEANG

I was still unaware that my olr iend and the director, a high-school mic and drama teacher om Dothan, Alabama, were practicg homosexuals. I had more gay iends over the followg years although I was often unaware of their liftyle. If we take our cu om the culture, which is creasgly pro-gay, we may nclu que erroneoly that we are gay too.

Had I been exposed to homosexual pornography at that age the oute might have been very different. But like many of my homosexual iends I had a dysfunctnal relatnship wh my father.

Why did that not lead me to the homosexual world when so many my suatn have gone that way? If you feel different om most of the boys and young men around you, if you seem to be attracted to other young men stead of young women, if you are wonrg what the matter wh you might be, you are not alone, and you are not gay. Even if your first sexual experienc have been homosexual and you feel that powerful chemilly based pull toward that life, you are not bound to .

WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX

"It's not an easy experience, not havg an explanatn for yourself, " she NotaroThu 27 Aug 2015 at 03:30For19-year-old psychology stunt Greta Warren, the qutn of whether she f herself as gay or straight is a meangls one. Gay - While this adjective has historilly scribed men who are attracted to other men, the term now is ed to refer to anyone who experienc romantic, emotnal, or physil attractn to people of the same genr.

Sce genr inty and sexual orientatn are separate, transgenr people n intify as straight, gay, lbian, bisexual, etc. In orr to have doubts about one’s sexual inty, a sufferer need not ever have had a homo- or heterosexual experience, or any type of sexual experience at all. If the sufferer is heterosexual, then the thought may be that they are homosexual.

If on the other hand they happen to be homosexual they may obss about the possibily that they might really be straight.

AM I GAY OR BISEXUAL? QUIZ

” Some people’s doubts are further plited by havg such experienc as hearg other people talkg or lookg their directn and thkg that the people mt be analyzg their behavr or appearance and talkg about them – discsg how they mt be gay (or straight). For those wh thoughts of beg homosexual, part of the distrs mt surely be social orig. Let’s face , gay people have always been an opprsed mory wh our culture, and to sudnly thk of beg this posn, and to be stigmatized this way, n be ighteng.

I have sometim wonred if those who experience the most distrs om such thoughts as the do so bee they were raised wh more strongly homophobic or anti-gay attus to beg wh, or if is simply bee one’s sexualy n be such a basic doubt. Lookg at attractive men or women, or pictur of them, or readg sexually oriented lerature or pornography (hetero- or homosexual), to see if they are sexually excg. Observg themselv for evince of “lookg, ” talkg, walkg, drsg, or gturg like someone who is eher gay or straight.

Compulsively reviewg and analyzg past teractns wh other men or women to see if they have acted like a gay or straight person.