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Contents:

• GAY BARS AREN’T DISAPPEARG; THEY’RE CHANGG
• ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL MEN NYC'S GAY NIGHTLIFE SCENE FAC OVER A OF SEXUAL MISNDUCT ALLEGATNS
• OWNER OF INIC BLACK-OWNED GAY BAR OPENG CLIVE PIZZA RTRANT
• A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.
• GAY BAR OWNER BRETT NICHOLSON RUNS FOR PONTIAC CY COUNCIL: ‘MOVG PONTIAC FORWARD, TOGETHER’
• A YEAR GAY BARS
• BLACK-OWNED GAY BARS ARE DWDLG. CAN THEY SURVIVE COVID?
• 'GAY BAR' TRACKS THE WAVE OF A WHOLE CULTURE — AND ONE LIFE
• HOW THE MOB HELPED ESTABLISH NYC’S GAY BAR SCENE
• THE BEST PROVCE OF GUANASTE GAY CLUBS & BARSSEE ALL THGS TO DOGAY CLUBS & BARS PROVCE OF GUANASTE

GAY BARS AREN’T DISAPPEARG; THEY’RE CHANGG

I’m not married to the ia of a gay bar always beg everythg — if ’s a queer fe, if ’s a nonprof LGBTQ+ center — but I thk the panmic tght all how important is to have physil plac to ngregate, and those will rema important even a hypothetil, non-opprsive future. The fact that you have a bar that’s maly Latx folks or a bar that’s Ain-Amerin LGBTQ+ folks, that didn’t surprise me, although I was very terted to fd out what were the challeng of nng those kds of bs bee those are the bars that’ve been closg among the fastt — gay bars that serve people of lor. Six of the ne accers said that bee they were newly out of the closet and didn’t know many queer people when the enunters occurred, they prumed that the cints were normal wh the gay muny, even though they were upset by them at the of Cohen’s accers add that havg accs to New York’s gay bars and parti meant so much to them, pecially for those who were unr 21, that they were willg to put up wh Cohen’s advanc.

ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL MEN NYC'S GAY NIGHTLIFE SCENE FAC OVER A OF SEXUAL MISNDUCT ALLEGATNS

It wasn’t jt about experiencg fun nights out wh their iends —  was about the sense of eedom and acceptance they felt when surround by other gay people, some s for the first time their liv, they said. There is no ditn that they knew about the allegatns of misnduct agast Cohen and Motel 23 reported by NBC allegatns ept to public viewCohen has hosted gay parti at glamoro New York nightclubs — cludg Goldbar, PHD Rooftop Lounge at the Dream Downtown hotel and Fishbowl at the Dream Midtown hotel — wh reliable crowds of attractive men and star-studd gut lists.

OWNER OF INIC BLACK-OWNED GAY BAR OPENG CLIVE PIZZA RTRANT

Some of the world’s most well-known gay celebri, cludg Brish Olympic gold medalist Tom Daley, actor Neil Patrick Harris and rapper Lil Nas X, have been photographed wh Cohen or ma an appearance at Motel 23. At the door, the man, who said he had never met Cohen before and do not equent New York’s gay nightlife scene, said that Cohen was gog to let him for ee, but charge his iend, who is Black, $250 for admissn. ” Wh days, he had received a flood of msag wh allegatns, he anonymo claims posted by the acunt llectively allege that Motel 23’s owner turned gay parti and bars, which some see as queer safe spac, to toxic environments where young men were subjected to unwanted sexual advanc.

A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.

The bsman and his wife, Melissa, first plaed to the Front Porch proprietors about pre-dawn vendor liveri 2019, not long after the nservative Christian uple moved their fancial firm right next door to the rtrant, which fli a gay Pri flag.

(Front Porch Market and Grill)What’s more, the Washers say, the ad rat was jt one more sult that the uple, who once planted an “all liv matter” sign their ont yard, have endured sce movg next door to a rtrant owned by a gay uple. They married 2020, five years after they opened the Front Porch, which quickly beme a statn The Front Porch has been flyg a Pri flag on s pat sce 2016, not long after a gunman killed 49 people a gay bar Orlando.

GAY BAR OWNER BRETT NICHOLSON RUNS FOR PONTIAC CY COUNCIL: ‘MOVG PONTIAC FORWARD, TOGETHER’

“I had so many threats agast me that even the Dallas police statned squad rs outsi our home, ” Waybourn an activist, Waybourn says, his goals were clear: same-sex marriage, gays and lbians the ary, accs to lifavg medic. “I have que a few gay iends, clients and a fay member, and I have patronized a gay-owned rtrant for years, ” he whether the Washers are tryg to remake The Plas to their image of Ameri — Whe, nservative, Christian — Melissa said, “I n see where you’re g om. A ltle over a year ago, two gay bars, The Lumber Yard and Swallow Bar, faced each other across 16th Avenue SW, a neighborhood that seemed to be gag tractn the Wt Seattle LGBTQ muny as a more nvenient and laid-back alternative to the Capol Hill nightlife scene.

The siwalks were dimly l, and I glid om light to light through the eply balmy eveng, and beyond the pat I found a panmic-era simulacm of a Texas gay bar’s ual weekday crowd: a few (whe) guys watchg sports on their phon, a (whe) man talkg to the bartenr, alongsi a handful of skny (whe) dus lookg to get laid. Jeremy Atherton L, the thor of the book “Gay Bar, ” may have scribed the allure of the spac bt: “It’s not about holdg out for a good night, but rather a lettg go, ” givg to the “unnvcg promise of pe. “The first thg we thought was, ‘Oh, my gosh, we’re gog to be out of bs before we started this bs, ’” Hugh, 39, told NBC a global health crisis is not the only headwd their bar, Lambda Lounge, and the few remag Black-owned gay bars the Uned Stat are facg.

A YEAR GAY BARS

Charl Hugh, left, and Richard Solomon, owners of Lambda Lounge, one of two Black-owned gay bars remag BrandsFor more than two s, gay bars, pecially those owned by people of lor, have been disappearg.

Though the reasons are not entirely clear, experts spect the overall cle gay bars is related to s of skyrocketg rents and gentrifitn, which have disproportnately impacted small, Black-owned bs; the emergence of onle datg s and apps; and circu parti that rotate among venu, which have bee creasgly popular among younger crowds. While Mko eventually received a small loan through the ernment’s emergency relief program, he said the donatns “absolutely saved my bs, ” as well as the ia that ’s possible for a Black gay man to open his own bar. Historilly, the bars have been havens for people of lor, who have experienced discrimatn whe-owned bars for generatns, acrdg to Eric Gonzaba, an assistant profsor of Amerin Studi at California State Universy, Fullerton, who is wrg a book about the history of gay the 1960s, gay bars began to sprout metropolan areas across the U.

BLACK-OWNED GAY BARS ARE DWDLG. CAN THEY SURVIVE COVID?

He said even the Stonewall Inn, the once mafia-owned New York Cy gay bar that has bee a symbol of the LGBTQ rights movement, “didn’t let a lot of people of lor to the doors” ( has long sce operated unr new owners who do not engage such discrimatn). Sce many gay bars the ‘80s and ‘90s were where gay activists gathered to te the muny about HIV and AIDS, he said lifavg rmatn about the vis often didn’t reach the Black up, the Black LGBTQ muny began to form s own hoe parti and unique social clubs ci wh large Black populatns. “This is mic that's found by Ain Amerin and Latx people ner ci, parts of Chigo and Philalphia and Washgton, and dancg be normalized … and this kd of style of mic and this kd of style of dancg that's highly sexualized be the envy of the wir gay muny, ” Gonzaba said of this early dis era that would later give rise to hoe and electronic dance mic.

'GAY BAR' TRACKS THE WAVE OF A WHOLE CULTURE — AND ONE LIFE

The number of Black-owned gay bars, currently and historilly, is unknown, sce there is no rource that specifilly tracks them, and Gonzaba said many bars equented by LGBTQ people of lor have historilly been whe-owned. C., which operated between 1957 and 1990, after alg wh s of discrimatn at gay bars San Francis, where he moved 1969, Rodney Barte, a Vietnam War veteran, former member of the Black Panther Party and gay rights activist, opened his own bar.

Activist groups like Lbians and Gays of Ain Dcent for Democratic Actn (LAGADDA) gathered there to anize agast racist rdg polici San Francis and to te the Black muny about HIV preventn, he Barte on The New Eagle Creek Saloon float, San Francis Pri Para, Barte“I ll a muny center that served alhol, that's the way I scribe , ” said Barte, whose bar has been memorialized by his dghter, artist Sadie Barte, an exhib missned by The Lab San Francis.

The report remend tablishments and anizatns the so-lled gayborhood unrgo trag for racial bias and hire more diverse 2018, a group of Atlanta drag performers, all trans women of lor, llectively qu their jobs at a popular gay club, Burkhart’s, after s whe owner ma racist posts on his Facebook year, an email om a manager at Progrs Bar, a gay bar Chigo’s "gayborhood, " orred DJs to stop playg rap mic at the bar.

HOW THE MOB HELPED ESTABLISH NYC’S GAY BAR SCENE

“Anythg vulgar, aggrsive or nsired mumble rap (cludg certa Cardi B tracks and newer Nicki Maj) is off lims, ” the manager wrote a leaked June, activists gathered ont of 941 Saloon, a Ptsburgh gay bar, to prott drs s they said discrimated agast Black July, a picture circulatg on Facebook showed a bartenr at Number Ne, a popular gay bar Washgton, D. And while succeeds on many levels, perhaps the most remarkable one is Atherton L's nstant qutng of himself, and the realizatns of how he's changed sce he walked to his first gay bar years ago: "Maybe, I thought, I'm a dis ball. But between New York’s LGBT muny the 1960s beg forced to live on the outskirts of society and the Mafia’s disregard for the law, the two ma a profable, if uneasy, the gay muny blossomed New York Cy the 1960s, members had few plac to gather publicly.

Unr the guise of New York State’s liquor laws that barred “disorrly” premis, the State Liquor Authory and the New York Police Department regularly raid bars that tered to gay the law saw viance, however, the Mafia saw a goln bs opportuny. It was the only place where gay people uld openly dance close together, and for relatively ltle money, drag queens (who received a bter receptn at other bars), naways, homels LGBT youths and others uld be off the streets as long as the bar was open.

THE BEST PROVCE OF GUANASTE GAY CLUBS & BARSSEE ALL THGS TO DOGAY CLUBS & BARS PROVCE OF GUANASTE

“Fat Tony, ” for one, paid New York’s 6th Precct approximately $1, 200 a week, exchange for the police agreeg to turn a bld eye to the “cent nduct” occurrg behd closed Photo<em>An NYPD officer grabs someone by their hair as another officer clubs a young man durg a nontatn Greenwich Village after a Gay Power march New York, 1970. Sometim the ps even went to the extreme measure of sendg female officers to the bathroom to verify people’s get around laws that prohibed servg alhol to LGBT patrons, many gay bars—cludg the Stonewall—operated ostensibly as “bottle bars, ” private clubs where members would brg their own alhol.

Apparently, too many high-powered dividuals—cludg Mafia members, police officers and big Hollywood nam—were implited as Stonewall Inn is a bar loted New York Cy’s Greenwich Village that served as a haven the 1960s for the cy’s gay, lbian and transgenr muny.