My First Night Back at a Gay Bar

After readg Jeremy Atherton L's "Gay Bar: Why We Went Out," the "dirty versn" of queer bar history, I revised the refuge of gay bars then and now. * first time gay bar *

However, if you have no problem wh gay, lbian, bisexual or transgenred people general, they turn will have no problem wh you, so you ought to give the lol gay bar a try. Though you should prepare yourself for the fact that people might assume you're gay and might even exprs romantic or sexual tert you. "I gus I'd been gay my whole life but was huge nial over until I left my relign and realized I felt nothg for the girl I had been wh.

"Learng there were some gay clubs a few towns over, he cid to take the plunge one was like steppg to a sanctuary among people who fally felt as I did and weren't gog to sult me for feelg how I do.

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Learn how to approach and flirt wh gay guys at clubs, bars, or other venuMeetg gay guys is hard. First you have to terme if the guy you're terted is gay or straight. Then you have to approach him and strike up a... * first time gay bar *

I end up havg a nversatn for hours wh a uple, sippg jack and Coke, about how I me to know I was gay, their g out stori, and hearg om them that I was gog to be jt fe and that the sky is the told me about all of the events and activi that the LGBT muny do near me—that was one of the bt parts of the night, knowg that I'm not on my own as a gay man. Now while I'm pletely ol wh members of the glbt muny, I've hontly only ever known a handful of openly gay mal, and I would be lyg if I didn't tell you that was a b timidatg. The guy who bought me a drk was really ol though, and actually tght me a lot about the gay muny that I probably would have never known otherwise.

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There was a surprisg number of straight femal there, everyone was really nice (creeper guy was a one-time al), and gettg h on by gay guys (excludg the creeper one) was pretty flatterg.

It was early afternoon and and the place was iendly and first nightclub-type gay bar I went to was Newport Statn Newport Beach. Am too old to al wh a t box and the 3 flights of stairs to get to the trash I beme sgle my 50's, had been 30 years sce I went to gay bars.

But still n't handle drkg public and end up wakg up wh whomever bought me my last drk -- ually another bottom like me, who ends up beg another Facebook at 61, I n't be bothered to even take a b or Uber 20 blocks away to the Elrgay/Bear bars The Castro, only to bump to bter ex's of some sort or guys I met on apps or onle and cshed on who jt weren't to me.

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I remember my first night there, an old guy on a bar stool the back area stoppg me as I walked by to tell me I looked like a nice kid and to stay out of gay bars bee they’d ‘ my life’. I didn’t heed his advice of urse and met my now partner there at The Dock a year later 1989 We started chattg about B-52’s when ‘Love Shack’ was playg…and was gay love at first sight. Early 70's as an unraged gaylg to olr guys, I disvered that if I stood outsi the entrance to a certa bar on Clark Street Chigo, someone would sneak me past the guy rdg ctomers at the ont door.

I was 23 and jt out to gay iends and they took me on a whirlwd tour of all the bars DC that Anonymoreply 104July 16, 2022 3:18 PM. It was one of the first gay bars to have large wdows facg the Alta Plaza was a "sweater bar" the 1980's, populated by Macy's Queens who spent all their money on clothg, wh a smatterg of pretent Anonymoreply 109July 16, 2022 6:45 PM. I went to plenty of trendy dance clubs Dallas that were filled wh a gay and gay iendly crowd, even met boyiends had gay experienc, long before I set foot an official “gay bar, ” which hontly felt Anonymoreply 110July 16, 2022 6:50 PM.

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I've never been a gay bar, but there was one Evansville, IN lled Someplace Else, looked pretty sketchy om the outsi, I don't thk exists Anonymoreply 121July 17, 2022 3:19 AM? It wasn't my first but I fondly rell "The Church" Denver/Boulr, wasn't specifilly a gay club yet gays and lbians seemed to be the majory the 90s but wh the riseof Marilyn Manson racist and homophobic kiddiegoths vad, the same had happened pretty much everywhere wh vaguely goth clubs ak to how punk took a siar turn the 80s.

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The Mother Load WeHoI was slightly unrage, but IDs were jt typed out then, and I was born July, so the “7” beme a “2” wh a ltle black pen, and I got 5 extra months of gay bars up Anonymoreply 129July 17, 2022 3:04 PM.

I was terrified, and ultimately my terror me te when I saw people om work there, a closeted gay guy and a woman who were "stoppg jt for fun. I never much liked slicker gay bars where the emphasis was on drsg up and dancg and travellg ltle cliqu and basilly anythg but fuckg.

Unlike 's dgy, dark Uncle Charlie's [Miami] first gay bar I went to NYC was 1987, and was the appropriately named The Monster on Christopher St. When I went to "Kiss" Ronkonkoma I was still closeted (I was 27, not 28 as I typed) and went wh a gay guy I worked wh and said I was cur what a gay bar was like.

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I had never seen so many gay men before my episo began my g out procs, and later that year wh the same guy om work, I walked to 'Marie's Crisis' as a 'straight' man and walked out a gay man.

Had been to many gay bars between ag 18 and 21 SF and San Jose, but had my first "legal drk" on my 21st birthday 1983 at a swanky piano bar Pacific Heights San Francis lled The Pacific Exchange, mid-week, on a grim ray Wter night, when "gay ncer" headled the lol gay prs. I picked up one of the ee gay mags there one night, and disvered the world of gay bars Manhattan, and the rt is, as they say, Anonymoreply 169July 23, 2022 7:28 AM.

" Why I thought a gay bar a small cy would be hoppg at 2PM on a weekday is somethg that I'll never Anonymoreply 174July 24, 2022 2:28 AM.

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We went to bars ocsnally, fot the nam, Club Cafe and Ramrod, others…they were a ltle more than meh, but got more actn on mp NYC sce and my gay iends don’t go to gay bars. I live near the borr between KY/IN and the only gay bar I ever knew of is gone now, I thk, was lled "Someplace Else" Anonymoreply 211November 20, 2022 11:16 PM. The XXX age was lower than the drkg age, so m y first gay plac were porn theater: The Bijou Chigo, the Tremont Arts Theater and South Statn Cema Boston.

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