For Father's Day, NPR spoke to three, gay sgle fathers who ma the choice to bee parents via surrogacy.
Contents:
- THREE SGLE, GAY DADS REFLECT ON FATHERHOOD, SURROGACY JOURNEYS
- SGLE GAY DADS GIVE TIPS FOR FIRST-TIME PARENTS: ‘I CREATED THE VILLAGE AROUND MYSELF’
- WHO'S GAY ON TV? DADS, JOURNALISTS, INVTIGATORS AND FOOTMEN
- ‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD
- TV'S DISAPPOTG GAY DADS
THREE SGLE, GAY DADS REFLECT ON FATHERHOOD, SURROGACY JOURNEYS
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NPR spoke to three men, sgle gay fathers, who chose to bee dads via surrogacy, after years of g to terms wh their inti, their fai, and the technologil advanc that have ma journeys like this possible.
SGLE GAY DADS GIVE TIPS FOR FIRST-TIME PARENTS: ‘I CREATED THE VILLAGE AROUND MYSELF’
A small but growg number of men — gay and straight — are cidg to have children on their own, jt as more women began dog two s ago. Sgle dads say they still face a social stigma but fd parentg emotnally rewardg. * npr single gay dads *
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WHO'S GAY ON TV? DADS, JOURNALISTS, INVTIGATORS AND FOOTMEN
But the procs for sgle people, particularly relatively olr gay men, he says, was difficult. Black, gay and heavyset the South, he was raised by a sgle mother a fay of sgle mothers. DUSTIN LING "Sometim the gay muny is seen as, oh, 's the funny guy who's always about fashn or always about travel, " says Dt Lg.
"Fathers – gay fathers and mothers – e different and var forms, not jt that one-note inty.
‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD
" Raised on the island natn of Aba to Asian parents, Lg says there weren't many exampl of gay men around.
Dpe the challeng of life as a sgle gay dad New York, Lg remas an optimist. Holt is gay. Steve Majors, munitns director for the same-sex advocy group Fay Equaly Council, says many young gay men once believed livg openly gay meant not havg children.
"Eher you were a heterosexual relatnship and havg children, or you were gay, " Majors says.
TV'S DISAPPOTG GAY DADS
" But wh the rise of same-sex marriage, gay men have pneered the e of reproductive technology to have children.
Majors says sgle gay men now email him or show up at parentg semars, wantg to learn more about startg a fay. He's gay, but he says half the lls he gets are om straight men.
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