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Neda Ulaby looks at the current landspe of gay characters on televisn, om the hight brows of <em>Downton Abbey</em> to the surprisgly welg world of realy shows.

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THREE SGLE, GAY DADS REFLECT ON FATHERHOOD, SURROGACY JOURNEYS

For Father's Day, NPR spoke to three, gay sgle fathers who ma the choice to bee parents via surrogacy. * npr single gay dads *

NPR spoke to three men, sgle gay fathers, who chose to bee dads via surrogacy, after years of g to terms wh their inti, their fai, and the technologil advanc that have ma journeys like this possible. "At that pot 1994, you didn't see many gays [on] the mp. So I realized I was gay, but I was like sred, nfed.

SGLE GAY DADS GIVE TIPS FOR FIRST-TIME PARENTS: ‘I CREATED THE VILLAGE AROUND MYSELF’

A small but growg number of men — gay and straight — are cidg to have children on their own, jt as more women began dog two s ago. Sgle dads say they still face a social stigma but fd parentg emotnally rewardg. * npr single gay dads *

But the procs for sgle people, particularly relatively olr gay men, he says, was difficult. Black, gay and heavyset the South, he was raised by a sgle mother a fay of sgle mothers. DUSTIN LING "Sometim the gay muny is seen as, oh, 's the funny guy who's always about fashn or always about travel, " says Dt Lg.

WHO'S GAY ON TV? DADS, JOURNALISTS, INVTIGATORS AND FOOTMEN

"Fathers – gay fathers and mothers – e different and var forms, not jt that one-note inty.

" Raised on the island natn of Aba to Asian parents, Lg says there weren't many exampl of gay men around.

‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD

Dpe the challeng of life as a sgle gay dad New York, Lg remas an optimist. Holt is gay. Steve Majors, munitns director for the same-sex advocy group Fay Equaly Council, says many young gay men once believed livg openly gay meant not havg children.

"Eher you were a heterosexual relatnship and havg children, or you were gay, " Majors says.

" But wh the rise of same-sex marriage, gay men have pneered the e of reproductive technology to have children. Majors says sgle gay men now email him or show up at parentg semars, wantg to learn more about startg a fay. He's gay, but he says half the lls he gets are om straight men.

TV'S DISAPPOTG GAY DADS

' " 'I Will Always Be There To Love Them' The Williams Instute, a thk-tank on same-sex issu at the Universy of California, Los Angel, fds there were more than one ln never-married men — both gay and straight — raisg children 2010. And then he kd of fot that he red about the first You know, those - the nservative news works are, among other thgs, pretty homophobic.

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