Gay and disabled: I'm proud of who I am

gay disabled person

Julia Blackwell, who is disabled and gay, talks about people's reactns to her beg gay and disabled, and how disabily is often seen more negatively

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DISABILY: 'PEOPLE ASSUME I N'T BE GAY BEE I'M DISABLED'

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GAY AND DISABLED: I’M PROUD OF WHO I AM

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