My roommate is straight and I'm gay. He keeps teasg me to do thgs and I don't know what to do. Should I sleep wh my straight llege roommate?
Contents:
- GAY ROOMMATE: WHAT TO DO?
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
- THREAD: GAY DO I DO?
- HOW N I EXPLA TO MY GAY ROOMMATE WHY I’M MOVG OUT?
- THE JOYS OF LIVG WH A GAY ROOMMATE
- I DON'T KNOW IF MY ROOMMATE IS BI OR GAY
GAY ROOMMATE: WHAT TO DO?
<p>I'm about to beg my hman year llege. The school self notified stunts of their roommate assignments jt about a week ago. When I ntacted him, he told me that he was gay. Admtedly, was unexpected and didn't jt whizz right past my head; I had to stop and thk for a send bee I'm relig, and when I nsired the prospect of such a suatn, I realized that would rult a severe clash of opns (on several grounds, by assumptn).</p> <p>However, I don... * my roommate is gay what do i do *
Gay roommate: what to do? Help, My Roommate’s Gay! “I’m gay…”.
You are no longer wonrg what’s up wh your roommate, but now you’re wonrg how you are gog to al wh his or her homosexualy. Maybe stead of, “I’m gay, ” this person wh whom you spend so much time such close quarters has said stead, “I’m bisexual. This is a kd of prsure Christians feel all the time, but homosexualy is such an emotnal issue n heighten the tensn.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * my roommate is gay what do i do *
You need to take a long look (and maybe a send or third look) at your own heart and motiv before you pronounce God’s judgment God’s name on your roommate’s homosexualy (Jam 1:26). Especially if the person tellg you he or she is gay appears hostile, fiant, or overly assertive, you may be tempted to fight fire wh fire by beg siarly hostile, fiant, or assertive. In avoidg a fight, you may be tempted to take ltle jabs here and there at your roommate, movg om holdg a gdge to speful, direct nflict to effectively mistreatg a person bee he or she has told you they are gay.
You may fd yourself wantg to get back at your roommate ltle ways, only to fd you are rercg what he or she may have already taken for granted C Christians hate gays (Proverbs 24:28-29).
HOW TO DISCREETLY FD OUT IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GAY
Someone's sexualy is personal, so 's important to rpect their privacy. However, you might want to know if a person is gay bee you're terted datg them or want to support them as a iend. Beg open wh them n be... * my roommate is gay what do i do *
” you might rpond along the l of, “Well, I’m not sure—I feel a ltle nfed and at a loss, ” or, “Actually, I have relig beliefs about homosexualy, and I’m kd of ncerned about how you might react. Sometim people n feel trapped by a roommate’s disclosure of homosexualy. At the same time, roommat are often very sensive to how they e their mon space, and there are some ncerns that, while not unique to havg a gay roommate, may make a move advisable.
THREAD: GAY DO I DO?
Bee you are a Christian and your roommate is gay is no exce for your ss. There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted.
For example, his fay may be vlently homophobic and by cidg that he's gay, you may out him by accint by treatg him different or implyg somethg whout meang to. If you're tryg to figure out if your iend is gay bee you want to date him (as a woman), 's important to remember that jt bee he might be terted men don't mean he's not terted women.
Even if he is gay, that should not rm your opn of him.
HOW N I EXPLA TO MY GAY ROOMMATE WHY I’M MOVG OUT?
Another important thg to remember is that 's not very important whether or not he's gay. How do you know if you’re gay?
This n be another ditor that he's gay.
If you're not seeg any of that, then he might be gay. One of the theori about why some people are gay has to do wh the hormon that they're exposed to before they're born.
THE JOYS OF LIVG WH A GAY ROOMMATE
The hormone exposure levels may manift actual, physil ways which n be a vague ditor that a guy might be gay. Gay men are slightly more likely to have even fgers than straight men. It is possible that your guy iend is not gay but stead falls somewhere else on the Ksey sle of unirns and awomens.
I DON'T KNOW IF MY ROOMMATE IS BI OR GAY
Although some people the gay culture may put on a certa voice or a way of speakg, your iend talkg a siar or "effemate" way is still not a very good way to judge. What a guy enjoys is also not a very good way to judge if he is gay or not.
Everyone n enjoy different thgs; jt like a woman might enjoy watchg football, guys n also enjoy thgs that are more monly associated wh women or the gay muny. The movi he watch and the mic he listens to are also not fair methods to gge if he is straight or gayer than Elton John and Gee Takei put together. There's the stereotype that if a guy is a good drser or if he spends a bunch of time on his hair, he's gay.
Sometim you might assume that jt bee a guy only hangs out wh girls or jt bee his bt iend also seems gay, then he might also be gay. Show him you're okay wh your iends beg gay. Subtly brg up subjects that show him that you're okay wh your iends beg gay and that he don't need to hi his nature around you.