Even as genr and masculy are more fluid than ever, n still rankle when male stars -opt tradnally gay s and styl.
Contents:
- CONNOR IS GAY
- GAY PARENTS OF QUEENSLAND'S FIRST SURROGATE BABY ARE RAPT, BUT BIRTH MOTHER HAS BTER REGRETS
- GAY PARENTS OF QUEENSLAND'S FIRST SURROGATE BABY ARE RAPT, BUT BIRTH MOTHER HAS BTER REGRETS
CONNOR IS GAY
* conor harris gay *
AdvertisementSKIP ADVERTISEMENTNot on the CultureEven as genr and masculy are more fluid than ever, n still rankle when male stars -opt tradnally gay s and photos: Richard Young/Shutterstock, Beretta/Sims/Shutterstock and Timothy A. Issu for 30 years and is workg on his next book, a history of the gay rights movement as reflected pop culture.
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The anger is unrstandable, sce the history of gay reprentatn pop culture do not spire much tst or nfince. That journey began wh visibily; gave way to vilifitn and mockery; then, after s of stggle, to a few refully crafted gay characters ma largely for straight dienc; then to a larger and more diverse range of characters, some created whout the need to attract those straight dienc. Characters and out artists, tokenism is still an accepted norm — a gay kiss a Marvel movie or a rtoon, 12 sends (lerally) taken to show that Sulu is gay a Star Trek n feel like teasg — and that, too, remas a norm.
GAY PARENTS OF QUEENSLAND'S FIRST SURROGATE BABY ARE RAPT, BUT BIRTH MOTHER HAS BTER REGRETS
In pre-ter tim, magaz like Out (and, 20 years earlier, After Dark) would fuel the wishful thkg of gay men starved for gay stars by throwg a mix of fely gay, probably gay, straight-but-gay-iendly, so-hot-we-wish-they-were-gay and ’s-anybody’s-gus celebri onto their vers. Gay dienc are no longer ntent to take whatever we’re hand, but the old hab of wonrg — “Is he or isn’t he? The first queer baer of our current era was probably Jam Fran, who played the gay activist Harvey Milk’s lover 2008 and the gay poet Hart Crane 2011, then put his own gloss on the 1980 film “Cisg” 2013 before fally revealg himself as “gay my art and straight my life” an terview wh … himself 2015, by which time the game playg had started to feel to some like a bad-fah photos: Steve Marc/Rters, John Parra/Getty Imag and Denise Tscello/Getty Imag.
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GAY PARENTS OF QUEENSLAND'S FIRST SURROGATE BABY ARE RAPT, BUT BIRTH MOTHER HAS BTER REGRETS
And what about his role last year’s perd drama “My Policeman” as a gay Brish p the 1950s prevented om livg his tth by a stultifyg and bigoted world? I should, at this pot, out myself: I believe that personal experience is overrated as a qualifitn for an artist; I thk that, onscreen, straight n effectively play gay and vice versa; and I reil om any fn of the relatnship between artist and dience that is predited on the dience claimg a sense of betrayal over who someone is or isn’t outsi of the ntext which they’re performg.