Why would people 'choose' to be gay? | Science | The Guardian

Contents:

• WHY WOULD PEOPLE 'CHOOSE' TO BE GAY?
• "THE GAY TREND"
• SCIENTISTS MAY HAVE FALLY UNLOCKED PUZZLE OF WHY PEOPLE ARE GAY
• WHY ARE PEOPLE GAY? GAY BY CHOICE OR IS BEG GAY GEIC?
• AM I GAY?
• I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?
• A LSON WHY 'S OL TO BE GAY

WHY WOULD PEOPLE 'CHOOSE' TO BE GAY?

There are doubtls many reasons for this, but one recurrg paranoia among many I’ve met (all of whom were men, out of tert) is that I’m gog to tell them that they’re gay. Bee beg gay is bad, apparently. I’m not sure how the guys thk homosexualy works or how you end up beg gay, but one thg I n nfirm is that ’s not my cisn.

Bis, even if I did thk they were gay, ’s certaly not somethg I’m gog to brg up when first meetg someone, given how ’s a) irrelevant, and b) none of my damn don’t feel the same though. Homosexual members of society n unfortunately expect to regularly be challenged, sctised and nmned by belligerent type who are seemgly nvced that homosexualy is a “liftyle choice” issue has e up aga (for what is possibly the 12, 456, 987, 332nd time) for several reasons.

There was a recent study that suggts homosexualy is lked to the X chromosome, so is therefore geic, ie herent, not a choice. Also, UK prime mister David Cameron recently ma ments that suggt he nsirs homosexualy the aforementned “liftyle choice” (although this uld easily have been poorly chosen wordg).

"THE GAY TREND"

A high-profile homosexual person dog this (or pretty much anythg) is certa to get objectns om those who “don’t approve” around the thgs is evable, and so is the whole “beg gay is a choice” accatn. Basilly, why would someone “choose” homosexualy, like you’d choose a new r or tattoo?

SCIENTISTS MAY HAVE FALLY UNLOCKED PUZZLE OF WHY PEOPLE ARE GAY

Firstly, what mak people thk homosexualy is a choice the first place?

Most ce relig beliefs, although the notn that relign is flat-out opposed to homosexualy is far om accurate, and gettg more uncerta as time progrs. The mastream media has always been somewhat blunt or ham-fisted s portrayal of even heterosexual relatnships (for evince of this, see pretty much any married uple an advert), so was a long shot that they’d show homosexuals accurately.

WHY ARE PEOPLE GAY? GAY BY CHOICE OR IS BEG GAY GEIC?

Normally heterosexual characters sudnly displayg homosexual leangs when a boost viewg figur are need is a mon trope the days, so you n sort of see how this might make some people thk ’s a “choice”, if they lack more realistic sayg that sexualy is set stone om birth is also not que right, the ma emphasis of those g the choice argument is that homosexuals have weighed up their optns and nscly cid “I am gog to be gay om now on”. And some people choose homosexualy. Is choosg homosexualy jt another example of a sire to not nform, like shavg your head or wearg outlandish cloth?

AM I GAY?

But those who “choose” homosexualy really seem to stick wh .

This suggts that those who are about to choose their sexual orientatn look at the nsequenc of homosexualy and thk ’s a better optn. This seems, to put dly,, as many have poted out, if sexual orientatn is a choice, then you should feasibly be able to choose to be straight aga if beg gay isn’t “workg out”. And logilly, a straight person uld bee gay too.

Comedian Todd Glass mak a brilliant pot his book (which is great, I got for Christmas), which is that if you genuely believe sexualy is a choice, then you’re not actually straight, you jt haven’t met anyone persuasive enough those who argue that homosexualy is a choice variably assert that is a wrong choice. So people who opt for homosexualy are nscly pursug anythg om timate relatnships to random sexual enunters wh people they are not physilly attracted to. Overall, if homosexualy is chosen, the most logil reason people would make such a choice is that they’re attracted to people of the same genr.

I LIKE GUYS BUT I DON’T WANT TO BE GAY. HOW DO I STOP BEG GAY?

"The Gay Trend". LOG IN WITH FACEBOOKHome›Polics and Activism›"The Gay Trend"›"The gay trend. Some people thk that sce 's now "ol" and "trendy" to be gay, a lot of people are fakg .

If you, or anyone you know, is pretendg to be gay, stop and thk about for a mute. Why are you, a straight person, pretendg to be gay - a group that has been opprsed throughout all of history?

All you are dog is makg harr for actual gay people, and when we are so close to gettg our rights and equaly, we do not need anyone settg 's probably safe to assume most people who e out as gay are not fakg . If you are wonrg why there are so many people g out today, and thk that there are sudnly more gay people the world, let me ask you this: do you really thk there are more gay people, or do you thk more people are feelg safe to tell people they are gay now that we live a society where is not punishable by ath? Unfortunately, not every untry is as progrsive as the Uned Stat, as beg gay is still illegal 73 untri across the world.

A LSON WHY 'S OL TO BE GAY

It has bee some part of media today to e to get more attentn - there is even a gay challenge on YouTube.

The "gay trend" has also found a place on televisn, known as "queer bag", where wrers tease an LGBT relatnship for sometim several seasons, whout tendg to make the relatnship official. Countls shows have taken hold of this orr to get more views, and has worked to an why is beg gay trendy right now? On behalf of the muny, would be really nice if the rt of society would stop creatg token gay characters and g LGBT dividuals to get more views.

I myself am part of the lgbtq+ muny, I'm a transgenr woman and am gay. Girls that bullied me elementary and middle school now joke about wantg a gay bt iend. I spent years beg bullied, and here are the girls I grew up wh mentg 'omg so gay I love ' on pictur wh me and my boyiend.