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Contents:
- YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
- THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
- WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
- MY SON TOLD ME HE’S GAY AND I’M STGGLG TO ACCEPT
- MY BOY IS NOT SO GLAD TO BE GAY
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
* my son has told me he is gay *
For straight parents, havg a child reveal that he is gay n be a jolt. You might ask how long he or she has known, and why he feels he is gay, bi, or trans, suggts Jonathan Tobk, M. D., a psychiatrist private practice New York Cy and the -thor of When Your Child Is Gay: What You Need to Know.
You n fd one through the Associatn of Gay and Lbian Psychiatrists. Take the extra step and show your child that you are terted beg the parent of a gay child.
Edute yourself on what means to be gay, lbian, bisexual or transgenr. PFLAG, or Parents for Lbians and Gays, which now has a group for transgenr youth, and holds natnwi chapters and meetgs;.
THIS IS HOW I REALLY REACTED WHEN MY SON TOLD ME HE WAS GAY
“I’m gay.
I have had gay iends (and been eply hurt and disappoted when beme obv. He never wanted to be gay. To iends of me who may have gay children, or be gay themselv, please five me for my ignorance.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR CHILD SAYS: "I'M GAY"
I don’t know if I’ll ever be “okay” wh the gay liftyle, but right now, I am okay wh my son beg gay, and right now, that is all that matters.
MY SON TOLD ME HE’S GAY AND I’M STGGLG TO ACCEPT
What would you do if your child told you they were gay? When parents learn that their child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, they n experience a range of emotns.
As a matter of fact, you might someday look back and fd that you are grateful for the experience of havg a gay or lbian child. Well, my study of 65 fai of gay and lbian youth for the book, Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child, I found that some parents get to the pot where they believe that the experience of havg a gay child actually ma them a better person—more open-md and sensive to the needs of others, particularly those other mory groups.
MY BOY IS NOT SO GLAD TO BE GAY
If you jt found out your child is gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr, you may be thkg that such ias are prepostero. The tstworthy nfidants let them vent but also rrected some of the misperceptns they absorbed om society, such as that gay people are lonely, unhappy, promiscuo, not fay-oriented, unable to have children, or sted for an unhappy life.
Contact Parents, Fay, and Friends of Lbians and Gays (PFLAG). List of Helpful Books for Parents of Gay and Lbian Children. Straight Parents Gay Children: Keepg Fai Together (revised edn).
Beyond Acceptance: Parents of Lbians, and Gays Talk About Their Experienc. Somethg to Tell You: The Road Fai Travel when a Child is Gay.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR SON IS GAY
Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child. Fortunate Fai: Catholic fai wh lbian dghters and gay sons.